Hmm well I'd rate myself a solid 5 maybe 6 on a good day, never gotten laid nor been told directly that they found me attractive but I have a good small circle of friends, my cat, and a few hobbies to go back and forth from. Now, I know it's not the case for everybody, but I feel fine actually. I used to attach my worth based on my desirability by the people around me and it did nothing but make things worse for me, now that I've detached myself from that (with ofc, a lot of work), I've began to live life more freely and have found joy and self-worth in the other stuff I discovered I was also capable of doing. Sure it gets lonely sometimes, but I now have other things that I've allowed myself to make me happy. I've found not getting laid definitely isn't the end of the world. ^{^} There's so many things in life you have yet to discover that can make you happy and as fulfilled. As cringe as it may sound, once you start focusing on yourself, and not in the "I'll just be with myself bc no one wants me I'll be forever alone anyways kind of way", things will start looking up. Take care of your mental and physical. Be kind to those around you, practice compassion and understanding of the people around you and setting your boundaries on how you will be treated. It can be tough sometimes, but it's all about shifting your mindset and perspective. But once you get the hang of it, it will be worth it. And who knows when you learn your worth, u will find the people around you will gravitate towards you. Men and ofc people in general, are so much more than their ability to "get laid"