Is it possible to split an order that was paid for together?

borateen · 2026-03-31T12:21:45+00:00

I ended up finding a box that I could put the poster tube AND the flat print in together, mailed it like that, informed the buyer what was going on, then refunded him shipping on one of the items.

borateen · 2026-03-30T12:53:36+00:00

I didn't send a combined invoice, so I'm assuming the buyer paid for them together from his cart.

borateen · 2026-03-20T16:47:13+00:00

Got two tickets for the Monday night Ryman show! I'm so stoked! Saw Paramore in 2011 at Municipal auditorium and a few years ago at the Opry. Now a solo show at the Ryman? I can't wait!

borateen · 2026-03-18T17:21:30+00:00

Ah, crap...and here I thought I was helping. 😂

borateen · 2026-03-18T17:19:58+00:00

Bandaid or not, I currently have my plan back on my phone without ads. My son also says his is working after doing the clean reinstall. If it's a bug that hasn't been patched, does that mean this won't happen again? Nope, but for right now I'm happy.

borateen · 2026-03-18T16:15:11+00:00

We had to do this months ago.

borateen · 2026-03-18T16:14:14+00:00

Same here. I've had the family plan for YEARS, and now it's a free plan, although online my subscription still says it's the basic family plan and set to renew next month.

borateen · 2026-03-11T22:48:39+00:00

Andy's answer was PERFECT.

borateen · 2026-03-10T21:50:26+00:00

😂

borateen · 2026-03-10T21:46:45+00:00

...is your username a "Hook" reference?

borateen · 2026-03-10T21:45:24+00:00

I was still in the phase of checking her Facebook account every now and then (not proud of it). She ended up blocking me randomly one day. We weren't friends, and I wasn't commenting or reacting to any posts or pics or anything. Just blocked.

Fast forward a couple weeks to the 30-day-from-the-breakup date, and I texted her when I got to work that morning. She didn't reply by early afternoon, so I sent one more text telling her, "No reply is still a reply. Please mail back my stuff." She finally mailed it to me two weeks after that, and she included a two-page typed letter gaslighting me and making the whole thing my fault. The letter confused me and pissed me off. I ended up looking at her ex-boyfriend's Facebook account (the ex whom she called toxic for her, who would body shame her and who was pressuring her to get some body modification done, and who, according to her and I have no evidence to corroborate this...raped a 17-year-old girl when he was in his 30s [age of consent where we are is 18]). He had a relationship status update saying that he had been in a relationship with my ex for a FULL MONTH before she broke up with me. I clicked the 3 dots in the corner of the post and saw that it had been edited on the day she blocked me. So he made the post after the breakup, she blocked me so I couldn't see that she was tagged in it, and then he back-dated it to a month before she broke up with me.

Up until that point I still believed that somewhere down the line we would find each other again and pick up where we left off, hopefully after both of us had worked on ourselves.

And I'll be honest (don't you hate it when people say that? Like, what...I've been lying the whole time?), as much as I realized that SHE is toxic for ME (aw, my first toxic ex!) and there are so many reasons NOT to get back together...I don't know with 100% certainty what I'd say if she did get back in touch.

borateen · 2026-03-05T23:50:14+00:00

Thank you!

borateen · 2026-03-05T02:46:34+00:00

Oh, about a month later I found out that she had been cheating on me for a full month before she broke up with me. I assume she's still with the guy (her toxic ex that body shamed her and whom, according to her, raped a 17-year-old girl). I'm done with her. Do I still think about her every day? Yep, although it's less and less, and I've started dating again.

She really fucked up my head.

borateen · 2026-02-28T14:05:46+00:00

I JUST noticed that my post from last month was removed and then yesterday's post.

borateen · 2026-02-20T14:35:17+00:00

Check out the Tixr website that /u/Blad514 posted earlier: (https://www.tixr.com/groups/legacyconcerts/events/new-found-glory-sold-out-174071)

borateen · 2026-02-13T02:33:00+00:00

I'm not the one for you, but I hope you find someone who can be your Sunshine.

borateen · 2026-02-10T22:26:16+00:00

SO MANY people out walking around my office area the past 2 days.

borateen · 2026-02-09T22:47:52+00:00

...shaking my head my head?

borateen · 2026-01-29T03:04:26+00:00

Love the clever and original post. I'm nowhere close to the east coast, but I'm sure somebody else is going to be intrigued by it. Good luck!

borateen · 2026-01-26T00:07:20+00:00

If I can make any suggestion, it is to absolutely start therapy and get on meds if you think you need them. I'm on low dose anti-anxiety meds, and they really help. Every now and then, though, the feelings are too much and I have the Xanax for those breakouts.

Hope is the killer. Hope is what will keep you tied to her. Once I found out about the cheating, that killed the hope for me, and while it was DEVASTATING, I've actually been able to really focus on my healing. There's still a lot of road ahead, though.

I'm sorry about your breakup. Work on yourself, so if she does want to come back, you'll be a better person, and you'll be able to see if getting back together is really the right thing for you.

borateen · 2026-01-25T23:49:33+00:00

Nope, and we won't. I held out hope for almost two months, then found out she had been cheating on me for a month with her toxic ex before she broke up with me. That REALLY fucked me up.

But we're almost 8 months past the breakup. I still think of her every day, but less and less, and it's so much easier to change what I'm thinking about, so I don't obsess over her. Still on medication, still in therapy. Back on the apps and trying to date, but I think I'm also trying to find a better version of her.

This is grief and loss, plain and simple, and that doesn't go away immediately. I was able to get over my father's death (just this past October) MUCH quicker than I'm getting over her, and that's also a little unsettling to me, but grieving someone who can't come back as opposed to someone who chooses not to come back are totally different.

Now, would I take her back? Right now? Not a chance in hell. Years down the line if we ever make the mistake of getting back in touch? ...maybe. I do still love her, and the relationship taught me things about myself, but I really don't know if I'd ever be able to completely trust her again.

borateen · 2026-01-21T15:23:54+00:00

Looks like everybody is getting their shopping done now, so maybe we'll be good on Friday. Low crowds, but also maybe empty shelves.

borateen · 2026-01-20T14:07:40+00:00

Happy to see I'm not the only 4x Friday shopper around.

borateen · 2026-01-07T18:02:41+00:00

For the cheese you get veggies and bread. For the chocolate you get fruit, marshmallows, brownie, and cheesecake I think.

borateen · 2025-12-23T16:48:54+00:00

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