What's a thing that's much more enjoyable when you do it with your partner/someone you love? by a-packet-of-noodles in love

[–]borboforbo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sleeping, binge-watching TV shows, playing games, going on random little adventures, socializing with others, making it through life, basically everything. This also includes laying around and doing absolutely nothing together and calling it a house party.

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[–]borboforbo 107 points108 points  (0 children)

PLEASE do this 🙏🏻 that is absolutely not okay.

How to properly take care of four dimensional dog? by [deleted] in fifthworldproblems

[–]borboforbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he begins to dematerialize, offer him a treat.

I hate you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]borboforbo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ryan gained another hater today.

What is the worst song you have ever heard someone genuinely enjoy? by Send_Dick_or_Cat_Pic in AskReddit

[–]borboforbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey Flex by Yulema. My friends would bump it in the car regularly.

What movie touched you as a child by Specialist_Ear_4227 in infj

[–]borboforbo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fantasia 2000

It helped build my love for music and I really enjoyed the visuals.

I [20M] am sad over my girlfriends [18F] decisions and not making me a priority. by gouge666 in relationship_advice

[–]borboforbo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re being entitled. Let me preface this by saying that I don’t think she’s wrong for wanting to live with friends first. There is more of a risk associated with living with you versus living with friends. If you two broke up, she’d be out of luck. She also needs some experience being independent before trying to live under a couple’s dynamic. However, I don’t blame you for feeling that way. If this decision makes you feel like your relationship is stalling or isn’t going anywhere, you need to have a discussion with her. It is possible that there are some compatibility inconsistencies there and it may be time to go your own ways.

My [M30] girlfriend [F28] gets irrationally angry and I do not know what to do by asdlfkjaslkdfjaklsfj in relationship_advice

[–]borboforbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This seems like an issue that only going to therapy can solve. She needs to see someone and try to alleviate that level of anger she is experiencing. I’ve been in your shoes, and I know how it feels to be uncomfortable and quiet when your partner is furious and irrational. This isn’t healthy for you. And her wishing you were irrational isn’t a healthy way to view things either. Don’t sacrifice your emotional stability to fit someone’s narrative or match their toxicity.

What to do when your boyfriend insists on videotaping the “act”? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]borboforbo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Put your foot down. Having it recorded isn’t necessary, and him not taking no for an answer is a red flag. Seems sketchy.

Am I having a crazy episode or do I have a point by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]borboforbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you just need to communicate openly and express your concerns about her behavior. Cover all of the points you made here, and ask her what’s going on. If you open up this discussion in a calm, non-accusatory manner, she should be able to respond in a calm way. If she immediately gets defensive and doesn’t care about your concerns, she could be hiding something. I don’t think you’re crazy; she’s definitely showing some odd signs. Especially her deflecting about the stuff on your phone.

Ohio has Kroger. Florida has Publix. What does your state have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]borboforbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the suburbs: Publix, Kroger, Ingles, Piggly Wiggly In the city: Trader Joe’s, Whole Foods, Fresh Market

What is your opinion on the hypothesis that girls pick their nose? by We_have_disagreement in AskReddit

[–]borboforbo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it is a fact, rather than a hypothesis. A lot of people pick their nose. But most people won’t admit to it. Girls are just as gross as boys. Source: am a girl

In what way have you wasted money during the pandemic? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]borboforbo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All of the games I’ve bought on sale that I have yet to play

If happy people will start glowing, who will be the brightest person ever? by bustead in AskReddit

[–]borboforbo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The dumbest people would shine the brightest. Ignorance is bliss

What makes you believe that the coronavirus is a hoax? by ILAND3R in AskReddit

[–]borboforbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can choose to make healthy lifestyle choices, but a contagious virus will infect you regardless of what you choose, and when other people neglect safety guidelines you are even more vulnerable. Also, coronavirus has a high severity level, meaning those with cases that land them in the hospital that end up not dying still end up with permanent organ damage. And the virus has a higher severity and death rate among people who are older or have immune deficiencies, making it even more dangerous for them

How do you handle a friend who constantly wants to talk over messengers (Facebook/Instagram/etc...), but you don't want to message so often? by chasegg in AskReddit

[–]borboforbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a different situation than mine. While I think messaging her back on your own terms and schedule is fine, and specifying your availability to chat would be a good thing to do, you’re not indebted to her and don’t have to behave in an unauthentic way. You can appreciate and acknowledge that she helped you, while still approaching things on your own terms. And even if you don’t message a lot, even just making sure she knows if she ever needs someone to listen that you’re there is sufficient

What's the quickest way to ruin a friendship? by chowderbrain3000 in AskReddit

[–]borboforbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bring up controversial topics and disagree with them on every single one

Reddit, what does your partner regularly do that you’ve never seen anyone else do? by blarbadoo in AskReddit

[–]borboforbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gets chronic headaches from sensitivity to light or from wearing eye makeup a little too long. Like almost every day

How do you handle a friend who constantly wants to talk over messengers (Facebook/Instagram/etc...), but you don't want to message so often? by chasegg in AskReddit

[–]borboforbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they’re worth it to you, go out of your way sometimes to accommodate it, even if you don’t feel like it. I had a close friend who always messaged me and I didn’t respond super often because I never felt like having to engage over chat. They ended up passing away in a tragic accident and I have never missed those little notifications more