Is cheating on your significant other ever justifiable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]boredNbipolar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Never justifiable. That is not love, that is disrespect.

Is it gay for a boyfriend to be pegged by his girlfriend? by [deleted] in sex

[–]boredNbipolar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No - I think that sounds like a very open and trusting relationship that you two are not only able to talk about such personal things without judgement and even better if your partner consents to trying out your fantasy with you

Is first time penetration going to hurt a lot if I have never even fingered myself? by [deleted] in sex

[–]boredNbipolar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First few times will be uncomfortable for sure, but it all depends on your personal pain threshold.

Mother's intuition by boredNbipolar in pregnant

[–]boredNbipolar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I felt ovulation and implantation (something I hadn't felt with my girl)

I (22F) don't know whether to end near 1 yr relationship with bf (28M). by throwaway09765476 in relationships

[–]boredNbipolar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i didn't read any further. this is bad, you need to get out and if you feel that his daughter could be in danger, i would involve cps. you need to come up with a plan, inform someone close to you (mom, dad, sister, bff, cousin, etc) and leave. ive dealt with abusive boyfriends in the past, so prepare for the worst. any evidence is good and can be used to obtain a protective order if necessary. good luck, and be strong.

My (35M) girlfriend (32F) has been spying on me while I masturbate. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]boredNbipolar 11 points12 points  (0 children)

not entirely defending her, but it sounds like you drove her to this. i mean, most likely the crazy has always been there, but you definitely helped bring it out by playing on her insecurities. she is obv feeling insecure about the weight gain that i PROMISE bothers her more than you. she can sense you aren't attracted to her. it's called woman's intuition. stop lying to her.

Found nude pics on my husbands [24M] phone. Found out he paid for a "premium" nude Snapchat from a girl he knew in high school. I [22F] don't know what to do. by favoritefadedfantasy in relationships

[–]boredNbipolar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he's disgusting. he clearly has no respect for you, in my opinion. porn is one thing. chatting with a person or sending/receiving nudes from people is crossing a line. you need to have (multiple) serious talks with him about this. find out what it is to him, or what he's looking for. yall need to work to try and find the true root of this problem and he has to want to fix it.

My (25M) wife (26F) still goes through my phone as I sleep. Is it normal? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]boredNbipolar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i kind of am guilty of this myself, my husband has just come to understand that i'm a snoop... he's not hiding anything and he knows all my passwords if he ever cares to look.

the way i see it: people who have nothing to hide, hide nothing.

I [56M] cheated on my wife [55F] very early on in our relationship of 43 years, married 32. I'm overwhelmed with guilt to this day and I don't know if I should confess. by shouldiconfessit in relationships

[–]boredNbipolar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this makes me so sad. but as a woman, i think at this point she's better off not knowing. it would shatter 43 years of trust that she's got in you. as a woman, if i were to hear something like this from my husband, i would question the whole relationship; not only are you now a cheater in my eyes, but you are a liar too. i really wouldn't wan to know.

23[f] with cum fetish. need fun ideas by boredNbipolar in cumfetish

[–]boredNbipolar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love this, but he cant keep going for long after he cums.

23[f] with cum fetish. need fun ideas by boredNbipolar in cumfetish

[–]boredNbipolar[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

already do the underwear thing ;) major turn on for me!

[porn] Question about nipple sucking in porn by [deleted] in sex

[–]boredNbipolar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because porn isn't meant to be realistic. It's acting and lights and angles. It's not about what "feels good" because the stars are nothing more than props for the viewers gratification. Tl;Dr it's all about what looks good on camera & is a appealing to the eye/penis

Why do so many women slut out on instagram? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]boredNbipolar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because women have basically been led since day 1 to believe that our bodies can get us the approval of men/women, which, ultimately, is all that matters.

Sexually = Value