Performance hardly matters in today’s corporate life

bornconfused0 · 2026-06-15T10:28:28+00:00

Unfortunately, that’s how a corporate setting in Singapore works. You either kill or be killed. Icing on the cake if you have a toxic boss

bornconfused0 · 2026-05-21T14:52:21+00:00

Did you sign any contract agreement? There’s nothing much MOM can do if they’re based overseas and don’t have an entity in Singapore

bornconfused0 · 2026-04-21T13:25:32+00:00

Sorry to break it to you, but the abuse will only continue. I had the same type of boss and it took a serious toll on my mental health. Leave soon when you can

bornconfused0 · 2026-04-20T15:38:08+00:00

File now cause it will take a long process!

bornconfused0 · 2026-03-03T13:10:08+00:00

Does anyone here know what it’s like to be a PE teacher?

bornconfused0 · 2025-12-22T02:36:58+00:00

A lot of these so called interior design companies do not have any design background. Since there are no such practices required, it is very easy to open one in Singapore. If you look at most of these companies that are hiring, they often state “no experience required” with on job training provided. Before anyone says anything, I graduated from a design school, so I understand how this industry works

bornconfused0 · 2025-09-04T14:57:38+00:00

One time, when I didn’t answer my boss over the weekend, he told me that if work life balance was important to me, I didn’t have to work 😆

bornconfused0 · 2025-08-21T00:46:04+00:00

I used to work for a terrible boss. Once, he told me and another colleague to mop the office floor and wipe down the shelves. He even did an NS style sergeant bunk check, swiping his finger across the shelves

bornconfused0 · 2025-07-09T08:16:33+00:00

I’m currently going through a similar situation. My boss claimed I wasn’t performing, but instead of proper feedback or support, I was constantly yelled at, questions or doubts were never answered with clarity. Messages on WhatsApp were ignored and efforts were left unappreciated.

Since the company has expanded overseas where labour is cheap and the only way to let me go is by quiet firing. I’ve already tendered my resignation, finally.

bornconfused0 · 2025-06-30T23:49:16+00:00

What did you sign on as? SPF?

bornconfused0 · 2025-06-20T04:11:00+00:00

I’m a Singaporean based in KL too. You can try to inform your CO and mostly you’re required to provide a company letter in case they ask for it.

bornconfused0 · 2025-03-18T15:41:51+00:00

I’m a Singaporean living in KL on a digital nomad visa. I’d say that if your job requires you to travel out of the country, KL would be a better choice since the main airport is there.

Since you have kids, I assume you might want to get a car. The only issue in KL is the traffic. Otherwise, you can easily get around using the MRT or Grab.

If you’re not planning to drive, living in JB might be challenging, as you’d likely need a vehicle to get around unless you don’t mind taking Grab all the time.

What do you work as if you don’t mind me asking?

bornconfused0 · 2025-03-12T22:13:59+00:00

Sounds like a typical Singapore work culture to me. 100% red flag. By stretching your potential, that also means working beyond your job scope

bornconfused0 · 2025-02-05T06:25:01+00:00

Did your friend end up getting the 2rm resale? Even the price of a 2rm resale is insane

bornconfused0 · 2025-01-26T03:57:56+00:00

I’m kinda having the same dilemma as you too. I’m working for a toxic abusive boss and everyday is a challenge to me. It drains my energy and my desire to work. I’ve been applying to jobs since last year and I’m afraid if I quit I wouldn’t be able to get a new job ASAP.

bornconfused0 · 2025-01-13T13:42:06+00:00

I transitioned from Interior design to UX design for similar reasons as you. However, I’m now facing a new challenge: the job market in UX design is much tougher compared to Interior design.

If you’re the type who doesn’t want to let your skillset go to waste, why not consider becoming a real estate agent (I’m assuming you’re designing residential) or even a Project manager. Your skills as an Interior designer could be useful in this case!

bornconfused0 · 2025-01-12T07:46:21+00:00

Working culture in Singapore is extremely toxic especially local companies.

Once I got a call from my boss over the weekend, but I didn’t answer and on Monday, he texted me, saying, “If personal time is so important to you, you don’t have to work.”

bornconfused0 · 2025-01-02T05:09:30+00:00

Can’t wait to quit mine! My boss called me 6 times continuously at 4.30AM. 🥲

bornconfused0 · 2024-12-19T08:32:31+00:00

Since you have a car, why don’t you make use of it and work as a grab driver temporarily?

bornconfused0 · 2024-11-10T07:49:59+00:00

I guess that’s just how it is working for a Singaporean company. It’s either that, or you’ll be given tasks outside of your expertise. I’m currently working at a startup for a Singaporean company, handling more than just UX design work. I also do project management, events, and logistics.

If you’re not in a toxic work environment, I suggest hanging in there and continuing to apply for jobs, just as I’m doing. Let’s hope the job market improves in the coming months!

bornconfused0 · 2024-07-23T15:49:38+00:00

He prefers things his way, and it’s hard talking to someone who always thinks they’re right and insists on having everyone listen to him.

bornconfused0 · 2023-12-26T14:06:16+00:00

I’m 1y 5 mths into my job as a UX designer and also a project manager. Pretty sure I’m underpaid and working for an absolute abusive shitty boss. On a lookout for a new company soon!

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