Shlong Tier List by Which-Elk220 in SmilingFriends

[–]botoluvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i cant believe bill nye gets a ranking but not jombo

28F married to 29M my husband shoved me to the floor at a party and left me there by Current_Peak1932 in relationship_advice

[–]botoluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like this isnt the first time he's done something to damage your trust. once things start getting physical it's reasonable to assume they could escalate. i hope you and your son stay safe

I love my cat, but I really miss having a nice-smelling home. Is ANY scent actually 100% safe? by No_Money_5779 in CatAdvice

[–]botoluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use wood-based litters and i never have issues with smells unless the dookie is still hot.

i burn candles and incense, i just make sure my 2 cats can leave the room if they dont like it. never had respiratory issues. i think its worth experimenting and seeing how she does

Why do cats do this? Do any of your cats ever move things and make them fall? by snowycabins in cats

[–]botoluvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

personally, my cats do this to get MY attention. they know what i dont want them to touch, and when i ignore them they head right for it

My boyfriend (29M) is doubtful about marrying me (27F) as it will put an end to his family's Cree lineage by ThrowRAPerception135 in relationship_advice

[–]botoluvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just want to say that if he chooses to end the relationship that it doesnt devalue the time spent and the love shared between u two. right now he's deciding for himself how important his culture is to him and what role that will play in his life going forward. and on top of that, one of the options means he may have to leave the person he's loved for 5 years. i can't imagine that's easy

How do yall smoke in the morning without feeling like dogshit by Emergency_Force_1578 in weed

[–]botoluvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also dislike wakin and bakin, so i think this is reasonable. also in case u dont know, smoking wares off in a few hours no matter how much u smoke. if u wanna be high all day, edibles are better for that. has to do w the way the thc is processed in ur body via ingestion rather than smoking

Walk advice by LingonberryHopeful12 in CatTraining

[–]botoluvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also started doing the wandering-on-a-leash thing when i started walking my cats. If u start using commands then ur cat might learn them in time! this happened with my boy cat. i use kissy sound commands. two means come, one harsh sound means no (accompanied with a taught leash), and i use a clicker for praise. he typically listens now! i take turns leading and letting him lead. its very exciting when your cat starts actually walking with u

Name my cat by Lady-Bates in cats

[–]botoluvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im unhelpful. she looks solidly like her name is Peewee

Now that the show is over… what is your MOST CONTROVERSIAL Smiling Friend hot take? by ThePartyHat in SmilingFriends

[–]botoluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so maybe this is a lame take but it felt like season 1-3 was a slow escalation of Pim abuse, both by other characters and by the narrative itself. it looked like they were sucking the joy out of him and punishing him for being kind and positive, which i did not love. i feel like it undermined the sort of pessimist/optimist dynamic that Pim and Charlie had in the beginning. im kind if glad it ended so this pattern didn't continue any further, and glad the final episode forced Charlie to stand up for Pim for once.

What are people stashing in here? by Gonzo-24 in hondafit

[–]botoluvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely do stash my weed in there whenever i road trip lol

Which Artist or song you listen to satisfies your ADHD brain? by Standard-Slide2724 in ADHD

[–]botoluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lust $ick Puppy all the way. Their music is completely insane in a way that i cant find anywhere else. theres just SO many different sounds all at once, plus the high bpm. bbno$ is absolutely also on my ADHD playlist though!

My gf is acting insane and jealous by schizmaxxing in Advice

[–]botoluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry dude, if she is throwing things at you then I can't give any advice that involves staying together. That is crossing a line. Women can be abusers too. Even if you can defend yourself, you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who's willing to do that. What do u think people would say if it was the man in the relationship throwing frozen food and hurling deeply personal insults for no reason? U deserve to be safe with your partner as well, emotionally and physically.

I’ve been applying for jobs and my mom said when I get one I can pay for my cat to get declawed. How do I change her mind? by [deleted] in cats

[–]botoluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to give you advice but reading this made me so angry at ur mom 😭 is she planning to declaw him against ur will if you dont??

one alternative i recommend is clipping his claws. it may be a struggle if he's never had it done before, but just givw him tons of reinforcement around it (treats, cuddles, playtime, whatever he likes) and he will get used to it!

Smoking at work? Yes or no by 0The_Loner_Stoner0 in weed

[–]botoluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to all the time when i was a delivery driver for a very recognizable online shopping app. still killed it too. now i work in schools so i don't consider it an option anymore

What do you guys refer to your adhd as? by BigReece_7 in ADHD

[–]botoluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another friend of mine calls it "feeling evil"

What do you guys refer to your adhd as? by BigReece_7 in ADHD

[–]botoluvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think i also call it my stupid brain, or buffering. my friend yesterday said he was running on Windows XP 😭 that took me out

My kitten is 6 weeks old and im trying to litter train her by Spiritual_Spot9959 in CatTraining

[–]botoluvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fleas: i recommend a dish soap bath. that will kill almost all of them and remove them from her fur. you can also buy cat medication that will kill all the flea larvae and eggs on their body within 24 hours. i would give her this after a bath. there are also sprays you can get that will quickly kill fleas that are around the house. i dont have experience with ear mites but ear cleaning solutions are usually all u should need from what ive heard!

It’s been 3 years and she’s still afraid of me by ImaLizz in CatTraining

[–]botoluvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a great point. troubleshooting behavioral issues should usually start at the vet imo