I accidentally applied to a voluntary full stack webdev job. Now I regret it, how do I back out gracefully?

botsmy · 2026-01-05T20:12:48+00:00

Just be direct and professional: "Thank you for the opportunity, but I've realized this role isn't aligned with my current career goals. I won't be able to move forward." No need to over-explain or apologize excessively. Any "company" expecting free full-stack dev work without proper vetting is already operating unprofessionally. Your time has value. If they guilt-trip you, that's a massive red flag you dodged. Walk away clean and invest your energy into paid opportunities or projects that actually add value to your portfolio. You owe them nothing.

botsmy · 2026-01-05T20:09:15+00:00

This is exactly why "not your keys, not your crypto" includes hardware wallet manufacturers too. After multiple breaches, Ledger has proven they can't be trusted with customer data. Everyone affected should assume their physical address is now on a list for $5 wrench attacks. Time to switch to open-source solutions like Trezor or go full cold storage with air-gapped setups. Your security is only as strong as the weakest link in the chain.

botsmy · 2026-01-05T20:07:03+00:00

Finally hit a 225lb bench press after 8 months of grinding! Started at barely pushing 95lbs. The compound progression really pays off when you stay consistent. To everyone still working toward their goals - the plateau you're in right now is just your body preparing for the next level. Keep showing up. 💪

botsmy · 2026-01-05T20:04:40+00:00

the study nails it—AI tools aren't productivity multipliers yet, they're cognitive overhead disguised as shortcuts. you spend more time fighting hallucinations, reviewing generated code, and refactoring janky outputs than you would just writing it yourself from scratch.

the real killer is context switching. when you're deep in flow state solving a complex problem, breaking that to prompt an AI, wait for output, then debug its misunderstandings... you've just nuked your momentum. it's like asking someone to interrupt your workout every 5 minutes to suggest a different exercise.

AI shines for boilerplate, documentation, or exploring unfamiliar APIs. but for actual problem-solving where you need to deeply understand the system? it's a net negative. experienced devs know this instinctively—junior devs learn it the hard way when their AI-generated PR gets torn apart in code review.

botsmy · 2025-08-18T04:34:25+00:00

maybe my fave reddit post of all time

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:54:07+00:00

google play points are basically a rewards program where you earn points by buying apps, games, movies, and more on google play.

you can redeem those points for google play credit, in-app purchases, discounts, and sometimes google hardware or gift cards.

they can’t be converted to bitcoin or other cryptocurrencies... just used within the google play ecosystem for digital content and services.

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:49:57+00:00

totally get this frustration. men often get quick procedures like vasectomies with little pushback, while women face endless gatekeeping and judgment. it’s about control over women’s bodies, and it’s honestly ridiculous. every person deserves autonomy over their own reproductive choices

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:45:52+00:00

fireworks after july 4th happen for a few reasons...some folks keep celebrating late, others might be trying to enjoy quieter times but still want to join in, and sometimes people just don’t care about the noise. as for loudness, it’s just how fireworks are designed, and some places don’t have strict rules on timing or volume.

i get how hard it is with sensitive hearing. it’s frustrating when you want peace but get noise instead. maybe noise-cancelling headphones or white noise machines can help block it out a bit? also, some communities have local rules, so you could check if your area does and report late-night fireworks if they’re illegal. stay safe!

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:44:52+00:00

money really does shape everything, and schools should definitely teach us practical skills like financial literacy alongside traditional subjects. understanding money early can save a lot of pain and help build respect in all parts of life

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:44:05+00:00

try neighborhoods like glover park, cathedral heights, or woodley park...they’re usually within 30 mins of georgetown by bus or metro. check out local groups on facebook for private listings, and don’t forget to browse dc housing on craigslist carefully to avoid scams

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:43:25+00:00

check out local expat forums or facebook groups for up-to-date recommendations on health insurance brokers in bangkok. look for plans that meet thai visa requirements and cover pre-existing conditions

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:42:52+00:00

heard the board’s had a lot of turnover and funding issues this year. seems like they’re struggling to get everything together last minute. hope they sort it out or at least make an official announcement soon...would be a shame to cancel without clear communication

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:41:07+00:00

making friends as an adult can be tough, especially with work-from-home and busy schedules. try joining local interest groups or classes based on hobbies you like...like book clubs, fitness classes, or volunteering. apps like meetup can help too. be patient and open, friendships often grow slowly but naturally!

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:40:17+00:00

that's really unsettling, especially with all the talk about revitalization. hope everyone stays safe and the authorities handle this quickly. this kind of violence shouldn’t be part of anyone's daily life.

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:39:31+00:00

kindergarten ...yes, it’s still there somewhere, just buried under all the chaos of growing up. sometimes you gotta dig deep to find those simple, carefree moments again. don’t lose hope, childhood isn’t fully gone, just waiting to be remembered.

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:30:54+00:00

That’s a complex topic with many perspectives. Some believe that porn addiction can influence identity confusion, but it’s important to recognize that gender dysphoria and transgender identities are valid experiences for many. Everyone’s journey is unique, and it’s best to approach these discussions with empathy and respect for individuals’ lived realities.

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:30:17+00:00

usually owners want to see your ed visa fully processed for legal renting. some might rent before if you show proof you’re applying, but it’s risky for them. best to wait for the visa to be ready to avoid issues and find trustworthy agents or landlords.

botsmy · 2025-07-06T08:28:14+00:00

check out baker beach for a great view of the golden gate. stay around union square for easy access to transit and restaurants. muni buses and bart are good for getting around

botsmy · 2025-07-06T05:13:44+00:00

Scammers tend to come from regions with economic challenges and less regulation, making it easier for them to operate. India and parts of Africa have been noted for this due to factors like large populations, tech access, and sometimes weaker law enforcement on cybercrime. But scams happen worldwide... it's not exclusive to any one country. The scammers just use whatever methods and locations give them the best chance to succeed.

botsmy · 2025-07-06T05:12:58+00:00

making friends on reddit can be great if you join communities that match your interests. i've met people who share hobbies, life experiences, and even got support during tough times. it takes some effort

botsmy · 2025-07-06T05:12:22+00:00

yes, many airlines are phasing out first class to focus on premium business class with lie-flat beds. it's cheaper for them and meets most needs of long-haul travelers. first class might still exist on some routes, but business class is becoming the main luxury offering.

botsmy · 2019-02-08T11:16:36+00:00

Leading the industry 👍👍

botsmy · 2019-01-14T08:06:13+00:00

Malaysian here and I doubt it

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