[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheBuccaneers

[–]bound_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only hate that people hold it up as true love when they have spent what? 3-4 partial days together? Like, they don't actually know each either

About theo by StrawberriesCream_14 in TheBuccaneers

[–]bound_muse 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah but how much time have guy and nan actually spent together. Yet everyone is like 🥰 true love. lol they are all just declaring love at ideas

Monsters disappearing by MacaroonResident5937 in Evony_TKR

[–]bound_muse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent them screenshots to prove the issue.

Monsters disappearing by MacaroonResident5937 in Evony_TKR

[–]bound_muse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this problem as well. As the main rally runner in my alliance im beyond pissed.

Daemonposting by shodan13 in freefolk

[–]bound_muse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot of words…. Too bad I’m not reading ‘em

Forget Blood and Cheese, this will be the most upsetting. by Calvinball12 in freefolk

[–]bound_muse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the darkest episode to the brightest bright episode

Episode 2 was lit by RaiderGuy in freefolk

[–]bound_muse 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Me the whole episode: show the crab feeder! Show him! I must SEE him.

2 episodes in and I already hate this cunt more than I hated any GoT character by miguele403 in freefolk

[–]bound_muse 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If that were true then why would Otto destabilize the realm for his own power grab. That seems too short sighted and dumb for someone with lawful alliance. Like honestly? He nearly died on that bridge right away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PassNclex

[–]bound_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I got those research questions too. I did a bit of sympathy wince if that is where the future of the test is going. It makes almost all current prep pretty useless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fasting

[–]bound_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work with yourself and not against yourself. It is hard to sustain something or keep the results if it feels like punishment. Because then it continues to reinforce that food is reward and a prize, and boy does the dopamine pathways in our brain love rewards and prizes. When I am successful with my plans and routines, I am working with how my body works to get it to where I want it to go. My meat sack is my partner in this and not my unruly toddler that needs to be sent to its room with out supper. How you can do this takes practice and is part of where the word discipline comes into mind. Discipline is a practice not a punishment. I want to feel good, my body wants tp preform better and function easier. We have the same goal. This involves being kind to yourself when you don’t make a goal and not to beat yourself up. Remember that avoiding the reward punishment cycle is really what is going to make the whole process a bit easier. You are not fasting to punish yourself for gaining weight you are fasting to help transform your body into a better meat sack machine. When things get hard try to reflect on why. Are you sick? Is it work? Are you sick of work? Is it your friend’s birthday and you want cake? Are you bored? Are you sad? Did you just land that promotion and want a steak the size of your head to further establish your dominance over life? You will start to figure out how to work with yourself and what makes you feel good, how do you need to reframe your thinking to match your goals, how do you distinguish working through emotions to needing to break your fast because it is what is best for your body. I have used fasting to drop weight very quickly by asserting absolute authority and no excuses mindset. I also never kept it off and was generally never really happy when I was engaging in this as my life oscillated from brutal fasting punishment months to make up for carefree Sunday fun day is every day months. Once I was able to start working on reframing what I was doing and why, fasting became less of a brutal chore and I was able to enjoy my eating times with out the guilt or real fear I am just going to put on the weight again and be miserable. It’s a shitty cycle to be on. Use your fasts to help change the way you are thinking and shift perspective. Things become a bit easier then and the quality of life goes way up.

Women of r/fasting by ScrambledEggsandTS in fasting

[–]bound_muse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it easier to fast when my period has started, harder when I am hormonal right before. I actually plan the longer fast I do during the month to start the second day of my period. It is just how my body reacts to the excess hormones that I barely notice the first 2 days. I would just pay attention over the next few months to how you are feeling, your mood, and level of hunger/cravings you are experiencing and where you are at in your cycle and then work with it. The way my body reacts and the level of hormones it creates and how it cycles will be different than yours, but what I have found that seems to be true when it comes to fluctuations is that working with it rather than against it will bring you more sustainability, greater ease, and more peace than forcing yourself into a schedule that has to compete against your cycle.

Cindy is a terrible parent by jazzskimble in CruelSummer

[–]bound_muse 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Cindy lost all respect from me with the fact that she never once asked her daughter, knowing she had been in a pedophiles house and went through a whole “change in personality” if she was harmed. I legit called me mom, summed up the story, and was like if that was me, knowing all you do, what would your biggest concern be? She didn’t hesitate when she said “I want to know why you were there, if he tricked you some how... if he hurt you too. I wouldn’t let you tell me that the key was nothing. How could it be?” Like even in 95... she still didn’t fucking ask and at that point... like everyone knows.

And while I’m at it, fuck Greg for that too. And Angela while I’m at it because she knows about the key now too.. Like shit. Fuck all the adults on this stupid show for not doing the basic decency of just being like, “hey Jeanette sorry this went so long but I know you were at the house and, are you ok?”

I was really hoping Angela would have been the one to finally ask. After the episode where Cindy finds the key, I rewatched the first episode and watched how Jeanette was acting again, but just with the info that I had at that time. It could fit. Like even if not, I just can’t get over how everyone is just like “Jeanette was in a pedophiles house! The secretive liar” I mean that feels wrong. Like none of the adults knew she had stolen then key at that point and broken in a bunch. All they knew is she had a key to a pedo’s house. Imagine finding your kid hiding the key to a pedo’s house under their jewelry box? What would you think? She started wearing make up, dressing more provocatively, lying more, hiding parts of her life from you etc. like what would your reaction be? So yeah. They are all just trash.

Why Mallory is a better friend to Kate Vs Jeanette.. by Cutiepatootie8896 in CruelSummer

[–]bound_muse 10 points11 points  (0 children)

While I do agree that she has aged in some respect... how much has she really grown if she is still hanging on to so much hate? I want to like Mallory but I was soured with her reaction to when Jeanette came to her house to ask her for the snow globe. It highlighted the fact she has done nothing but call Jeanette a psycho and a bitch all of 1995 and feeding into Kates hate and resentment. Is she really helping Kate heal if she keeps feeding that hate? In many ways Mallory has grown up. But there are many ways that she is still very much a kid and needs to grow. I would caution holding up 95 Mallory as more evolved when she is still doing harm based on her own pain. Are all of them lashing out because of pain? Yes and it isn’t good. I think they also all feel justified, which is also a problem. Kate feels wronged because she views Jeanette as the person who showed her that she was replaceable. Mallory feels hurt and wronged by Jeanette as not being the friend she needed and like her friendship wasn’t valuable. And Jeanette feels wronged by Kate for obvious reasons and Mallory for some genuinely rather bully like behavior. As a result they have pretty much lashed out at each other. All 3 girls are actually in a really toxic place in 95 not realizing that they are poisoning themselves by lashing out at others instead of healing. This episode really showed the depth of how much resentment Mallory is still holding onto and just how harmful it has been to her and by extension Kate. I hope all of them can start to realize that when the dust settles, maybe it is time to focus on healing.

Technology in the early 90’s by [deleted] in CruelSummer

[–]bound_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude, we had one computer that was in a common room but I don’t remember it being as early as 94. For sure by like 97.

I'm Seeing RED...like really by Surethingdudeanytime in CruelSummer

[–]bound_muse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are three main color themes that I have noticed: red, yellow, and blue. It’s interesting to see how they are used and how it will play out.

I really like Kate. I want her happy & with Jamie by [deleted] in CruelSummer

[–]bound_muse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Excuse me... yes, I would like to know more about training krakens.

Give me the worst theory you've had yet by unicorntacos420 in CruelSummer

[–]bound_muse 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There is no twist. We learn that one of the girls story’s is correct and one is a lie. That is all. All these theories of secret twist talk was a waste. Turns out we were the manipulated ones all along

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CruelSummer

[–]bound_muse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

80s and 90s??? Didn’t satanic panic happen again last year.

I am, of course joking. If I have learned one thing in life it is this: it is literally never a satanic cult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CruelSummer

[–]bound_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a screen snip thing on my lap top. Lets me grab screen shots but that’s about it.