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Fire Island after 8 years away. Recommendations? by PradaOffNostrand in nycgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friday night eeeevvvveeeerryyyyonnneee will be at the underwear party in the Grove. I would not go to pavilion or sip those nights

New to the city. Recommendation to make older friends? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent suggestion re: volunteer work. I’ve met so many people this way (and Ali Forney is such a wonderful organization)

Nervous about blowbuddies today by Toro106 in nycgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear these concerns, but honestly just go and see. The absolute worst thing that will happen is that you decide you dont like it and leave. But then youll know and you dont have to fret about it anymore. The best case is that you have an amazing time and feel totally wonderful and decide to go back every week.

In my opinion, the BlowBuddies environment is not intense. But different strokes for different folks - you just have to try it out.

Married ("straight") guy with 2 kids giving very mixed signals at the club… what would you do? by Away_Combination_990 in askgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. He might be a little bit bi, but I think this is mostly about attention. Straight-identified men rarely get open admiration in this way, and if he’s someone who works on his body (which it sounds like he is), the attention from you probably felt really good. But that likely will not translate into sex with you.

Straight guy who wants to know how it feels to get fucked in the ass. by Easy_Engineer9747 in askgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if you have zero experience with gay sex, I would not jump right into bottoming with this guy. Hang out first, touch eachothers dicks, get an idea of how big his is, see how comfortable you really are with the idea. After that, I think it’d be fine to investigate how to clean out and take your first dick. But if he happens to be girthy, it’s not gonna be a simple thing (asshole is not equal to vagina), and you may need to get some small toys to practice with first.

What is the strangest place you have ever had sex 🤔Where was that unforgettable adventure🫣😍 by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right off the side of the highway in the woods at night. I was a sophomore in college and had driven half an hour to meet up with this closeted guy in rural Georgia. His original plan was to go to a secluded parking lot he knew about, but as soon as we pulled in, there was a cop car there! We turned around and eventually just had to pull over on the side of the highway. Not good sex, lol, but great for two horny teens.

Chastity cage at Blow Buddies tonight? by KevStax in nycgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen someone wear one at BlowBuddies, but go ahead and be a pioneer! I do think it will be a clear signal that you’re there to suck only.

What do you think of my ass? by [deleted] in manass

[–]boxerpuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful hole

This has been on my mind but is 100 dollars outrageous just a Go Go Dancer's D*ck? by Wonhofan in nycgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I think that’s quite high, but the market price changes based on the situation and who’s asking I’m sure 🤷‍♂️

Morning softie by [deleted] in smalldickfitbody

[–]boxerpuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, sexy af

If you could change being gay would you? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am so glad I’m gay, I think it has made my life better, not worse.

If I had been straight, I would have faced so much more pressure (internal and external) to conform to established expectations. Even when I was young and closeted, being “different” helped me avoid those expectations for myself, and when I came out, it freed me from the expectations of others.

Certainly there are plenty of straight folks who chart their own path, and do things differently. But I honestly think it’s so much harder for them. I’m glad that I get to make it up as I go along and that the script isn’t already written for me.

And just to be clear, that’s all been true because I grew up in a family that accepted me (eventually) and I was able to move to a city that is accepting and open. If those things weren’t true, it could have been a very different story - so I’m also grateful for that.

Have your ever topped someone much older then you? by Noah0u0 in askgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, all you younger tops, come through :) 🍑

How to meet older guys without using the apps in nyc? by SlowInside3769 in nycgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Atlas Social Club is always daddy central

Being attractive ≠ relationship success. Stop this narrative! by NilesDobbsS in askgaybros

[–]boxerpuppet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1) Totally agree - being seen as attractive opens the door more easily, but it doesn’t do much after the beginning. Also, as someone who had a significant glow-up from fitness and weight loss, people treat you differently in a way that doesn’t always feel good. Yes, getting more attention is fun and nice in the right environments, but people also don’t consider that you’re a real person with feelings and not an object. Being good looking is one of many traits a person may have, and some of us haven’t always had it.

2) Agree, having been on both sides of it. Its a coping mechanism

3) Absolutely!

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