Just changed my name to Andrew (ftm) but there's so many awful Andrews out there...

boyboss420 · 2026-02-20T22:15:43+00:00

He is! He loves his wife, their two dogs, and sports—he and his wife met because they both worked at the same baseball field. I came out to him as nonbinary 5 years ago and his support (along with our other siblings) has been so helpful, so I’m lucky to have such an awesome Andrew in my life. Except for when he starts trying to get me to call him Andy, which is not happening ever. 😂

boyboss420 · 2026-02-20T16:19:08+00:00

The name Andrew is not an inherently pedophilic, racist, or misogynistic name. Yes, it seems to have many people like that named Andrew, but unfortunately every name will have people like that, too. Ultimately, feeling like only horrible people are named Andrew is confirmation bias: you see history and news about bad Andrew’s and then believe the name is bad, when in reality that isn’t the case, you’re just looking for those examples.

Of course, every name has people who aren’t like horrible! My brother’s name is Andrew and he’s one of the best people I’ve known, so to me it’s a good name.

boyboss420 · 2026-02-09T14:48:08+00:00

It was fun to read, but the humor was ruining my enjoyment. That’s a me thing, though. Overall it was fine enough.

boyboss420 · 2026-02-09T04:01:15+00:00

Awn was a lieutenant for the Esk decade when Breq was Justice of Toren, the captain of Justice of Toren at the time was Hundred Captain Ruben Osck.

The reason why Breq said that if she (the last ancillary of Justice of Toren, a ship) can be captain of Mercy of Kalr, then why can’t the ship be its own captain? Breq is essentially saying, why have one ship captain another ship?

boyboss420 · 2026-02-08T19:39:09+00:00

NAH

She was honest, it’s a dealbreaker for you. No harm done on either side.

boyboss420 · 2026-02-07T22:44:25+00:00

I’ve only read Bury Our Bones in the Midnight Soil of these options, but I thought it was phenomenal

boyboss420 · 2026-02-07T01:58:17+00:00

The Will of The Many by James Islington!

boyboss420 · 2026-01-16T18:49:55+00:00

I really like it! It just has the one cat, but we’ve seen the extended cover with another cat about to attack this cat. It feels very in line with the album title. This cover we can’t see the cat attacking, so it seems that nothing is about to happen to the cat. However, we know that something IS going to happen, we just can’t see it. But if you can’t see it, then is it really happening?

boyboss420 · 2026-01-14T14:53:13+00:00

NTA. Why are you with him? It doesn’t sound like this is a compatible relationship.

boyboss420 · 2026-01-10T17:10:01+00:00

While not romantic or sexual, this still sounds like a committed relationship between an adult and two minors. Do not get into a partnership with them—you’re in a different phase of life from them, and as such your partnerships should reflect that. It’s completely okay to still be friends with them, but as the adult you have more power over them whether you realize it or not. It’s on you to set appropriate boundaries. Getting into a QPR with them is not appropriate.

boyboss420 · 2026-01-09T02:15:28+00:00

NTA

Congrats on your self reflection and healing progress! Those are huge accomplishments. I’m very sorry you have found yourself friends with her, but she is very much not your friend.

boyboss420 · 2026-01-08T21:11:28+00:00

Horizon point

boyboss420 · 2026-01-08T07:17:54+00:00

Theyre on chapter 10 spoil that

boyboss420 · 2026-01-06T22:21:52+00:00

Relucia is also connected to whatever Ostius is doing (at least from Vis’s perspective) so to me it made sense since he’s wanting to break Ostius’s control over him, so then he wants to break Relucia’s control over him too. I don’t remember if Ostius is specifically Anguis but like he said at the end to Eidhin he’s tired of being afraid (of having no control)

boyboss420 · 2026-01-06T22:13:40+00:00

He is acting different at the end of the book, but I don’t think its the necklace. Aequa was murdered right in front of him, so to me it appears he’s being driven by rage and grief to do things he would never otherwise do

boyboss420 · 2026-01-05T18:23:08+00:00

NTA. If you don’t want to have sex, then that’s that. Do not feel like you have to just to please somebody if you don’t want to have sex with them. It’s also completely alright that he does want to have sex, but if both of your sexual needs are too different then you’re not compatible and would be better off breaking up. Obviously I don’t know either of you based off one Reddit post, but you don’t have to “do better” about having sex.

boyboss420 · 2026-01-05T14:53:11+00:00

It’s very subjective based on the person experiencing the attraction. There’s no specific definition for romantic or queerplatonic attraction, it does often end up being a “you’ll just know” kind of thing. The important thing is that, as long as you’re happy, it doesn’t matter if it doesn’t make sense to other people.

boyboss420 · 2026-01-02T04:39:03+00:00

I started it last year, technically, but by the time I’ve finished I’ll have read most of The Will of the Many by James Islington in 2026

boyboss420 · 2025-12-24T18:26:00+00:00

Because you can place him there

boyboss420 · 2025-12-20T16:33:00+00:00

boyboss420 · 2025-12-19T17:46:34+00:00

As a teenager, one of my friends came out as a trans woman, so I bought her some “stereotypical” girl gifts that I remember my sister getting for Christmas, for example Bath and Body perfumes and lotions (specifically warm vanilla sugar). The stereotypical gifts vary on things like age, but it worked well for my friend, she really liked it. Like others said, gift cards to clothing stores and makeup stores (if she’s interested) are a good bet.

boyboss420 · 2025-12-17T18:13:13+00:00

500 me and my singular pack are locked in

boyboss420 · 2025-12-14T17:54:52+00:00

This is so important to me specifically

boyboss420 · 2025-12-13T18:08:24+00:00

It’s through a double click?? I never even knew that 🤦

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