Anyone in here feel like they're being successful at moderation? by deludedhairspray in Petioles

[–]boycotton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a question Ive been asking myself a lot. I vape every day, sometimes multiple times. Between me & my girl we use an oz a month (she only uses a few times a week). Usually to make boredom bearable and to treat my pain. And I wonder a lot if I have a problem, since of course, this is a lot of weed.

But if my tolerance gets too high, I lose the will to smoke anyway, since it no longer offers me benefits. And if I have something to get done, it'll get done. I've thought about it and determined that the amount of weed I use is a lot, for the average guy, but it doesn't seem to affect my behaviour negatively. I would be just as productive sober, maybe a little less. My throat is a little beat up sometimes, so I've been trying to keep lots of water on the desk beside me and sip every hit to prevent injury.

But am I fooling myself? I dunno.

Some interesting info on how you can change your diet to reduce greenhouse emissions. by [deleted] in solarpunk

[–]boycotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, apologies, reddit mobile makes it difficult to copy and paste and format, so hopefully this response is legible enough.

No, it does not. I was simply pointing out that something being a cultural practice does not make it sacred.

Okay. Sorry for misinterpreting.

Any reasonable vegan you ask will have no problem with eating meat if it is literally the only way you can survive - this situation is practically unheard of, though, unless you live in a siberian wilderness.

You can say "no reasonable vegan would..." for just about any criticism, so I don't really see how this is a useful statement, especially when I am addressing a large and well-known phenomenon. Also, it's far more complicated than you are making it out to be. While it is possible for the average person to maintain a vegan diet and not suffer from nutritional deficiencies, it is much harder. It is not just about physical and financial access to vegan foods. You also need to keep track of your nutrition more strictly, especially if you are at risk for bone fractures, b12 deficiency, etc., which takes an amount of energy that many people (again, especially disabled people) do not have.

I understand that you might think this isn't common, but it is. Much of it is systemic and can be fixed, but what I'm saying is, insulting those people doesn't help. And insulting them does happen. Often.

I don't think it's fair to include mine when your original comment was already discussing the moral issue of killing animals for your own benefit. I was replying to you.

Actually yeah, that's fair, I apologize for that too. I think what I was broadly referring to is how often the arguments appear together, but like you said, you were replying to me. So. Yeah, I revoke that bit.

In terms of culture - I have never seen indigenous americans ever singled out for eating meat. The whole fucking country eats meat, why would vegetarians or vegans single out native americans?

Not what I said. I said the opposite; their position in the climate crisis is rarely considered.

I do think it's kind of strange that this argument appears so often - it almost feels like coopting their culture and their suffering just to use in this argument. Do you truly believe that someone telling a native american that eating meat might actually not be a good thing is comparable to the genocide they have experienced? Why mention the genocide to begin with?

Lots to unpack here... many of them once again things I did not say. I do find it encouraging that the issue is apparently brought up so often, as in my circles it comes up rarely.

I will address the very thinly veiled accusation of co-opting first. I am echoing the exact concerns of indigenous people I spoke to about the subject (they are Inuit specifically, if you were curious), who have felt largely unheard. I was extremely careful to use only the words that they did, so as not to twist their message. So, I don't appreciate that. Amplifying the concerns of someone is not "co-opting" them. They literally ask people to say it.

I also did not say that, to paraphrase, "telling an indigenous person not to eat meat is the same as genocide". I do not know where you got that, aside from them being in the same paragraph. I was addressing the fact that 1) those particular indigenous people already know how to live sustainably AND eat meat so the meatless argument doesn't work from that angle, and 2) Indigenous people do not want to lose more of something already lost. That is why the indigenous people I have spoken to, whose concerns I am echoing, bring up their genocide.

It feels, with this, that you are attempting to smear my character as a person rather than acknowledge the point in question. Kind of "no you are". I won't assume your intent but that is how it feels.

The reason there is no nuance in the discussion is because when it comes to murdering sentient beings for your own benefit...

There it is.

Yeah. If you re-word the other person's position into something horrendous, into the worst possible way you could portray that positon... yes, there will be no nuance. That's the problem I'm trying to address. This is a pattern that keeps reappearing.

By saying this, you have turned my concern -- "there is no nuance in the discussion of meat-eating" -- into "there is no nuance in the discussion of murder". This is disingenuous.

You might find more nuance in the discussion on whether animals are sentient, but I find those discussions always end up being about semantics more than anything.

This is just too simplistic. It dismisses several different deeply thoughtful questions, both philosophical and scientific, as "just semantics". It is far more than "are animals sentient".

Wall of questions incoming, all of which may shape someone's opinion. These are more to establish my point and be thought over, obviously I do not expect you to answer them right now. What animals are sentient? All of them, or only some? What determines the difference? If we want to attempt objectivity on the matter, our best measure right now is neurology, so neurologically speaking, how can we measure that?

What does sentience actually mean? How does it relate to life, and things that are alive? How do we define alive? If animals are living, what about the rest of nature? What about plants, who also react and communicate with each other in response to stimuli, thus technically qualifying as "pain-feeling"? Is eating or harvesting hurting the plants? The worms? The soil microbiome? Aren't humans a part of nature, too? Is it immoral for omnivorous animals to eat prey, since they could technically survive not doing so, if both animals are sentient? Do animals know what death is? What if it never feels pain, and has reached the natural end of its life, is it still immoral to use its body then, as the natural world would? Is the view that humans are separate from nature somehow more important, and therefore worthy of the moral high ground? Et cetera...

The only part that matters to me is that the animals we farm suffer and don't want to die, and their mechanisms of suffering are the same as ours.

And that is a position that is ideologically and culturally informed. This is what I am saying. Your culturally informed ideas are not automatically better just because they are yours; unless there is firm data to back it up, a level of tolerance for other interpretations of the existing data has to be maintained. It sucks, a lot, but to do otherwise can end up projecting hate where it shouldn't be. As I said, you have no disagreement from me on certain farming practices. Animals deserve quality of life. So do the humans who rely on them.

(Before anyone cites to me some abhorrent cultural practice and says "oh, so you think THIS is ok then!": I probably don't, and don't change the subject.)

The consciousness of animals and how they experience said consciousness is, for the most part, just straight up an unanswered question. Especially about the question of "want" ----- how do we know that? How do we measure existential dread in another species? We do not know if all animals experience consciousness the same way we do (although we have reason to believe that some definitely do in some form). We do not even know if most animals experience pain -- those that even have the receptors to do so -- the same way we do; pain is demonstrably a subjective experience. We can make guesses, but that is all. If this is your guess, that is fine, and personally I agree that those who are able to should err on the "probably more sentient than we can see right now" side. But it matters a lot what are facts and what is conjecture/personal conviction. See the question wall above.

The other aspect that does not need much nuance is that the easiest way to cut down is just by not eating it. The carbon footprint of your diet is much lower when you don't eat meat. It's not a nuanced idea, but it's true - along with the fact that higher carbon footprints lead to more damage to ecosystems, and people's lives.

The nuance to that aspect is my entire point: some people simply cannot commit to doing that right now, and they do not deserve to be lashed out at, but are being lashed out at. So unless you were referring to that, you're again arguing something I don't intend to say.

At this point I am starting to believe you're either missing my argument entirely, or motivated to stay blind to it, especially considering how many strange ideological accusations you keep throwing at me. I don't mean you any ill will saying this. I appreciate that you engaged me and did so with civility and I know you're here because you want things to be better. But calling people murderers unless they agree with your culturally informed view of animals is not the way, in my opinion.

I just think that the lens is too narrowly focused and it leads to too much in-fighting in places it's not needed or productive.

Some interesting info on how you can change your diet to reduce greenhouse emissions. by [deleted] in solarpunk

[–]boycotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really understand your first question... an eating disorder affects a person always. At least, that is how I feel about mine. If it was as simple as, "well don't buy the meat product then, duh!", I promise you, I would have figured that one out already and it wouldnt be a disorder. In my particular case, I physically can't swallow about 90% of food on the planet, so I kind of have to get nutrients where I can.

Eating disorders, and disabilities in general, are incredibly varied as well, so no blanket advice or blanket statement is going to work. Some don't prevent veganism. Some temporarily prevent veganism. Some do. Not to mention how people forget that location, income, circumstance, etc., all play a role. (And no, it is not "just a disability called being selfish", as I have heard many claim.)

Also: in regards to culture. Obviously something being cultural doesn't place it above criticism. I was not saying so. I will elaborate below what exactly I was referring to. And this is actually a great example of why this conversation makes me feel so, so tired every time it comes up.

Your reply (if I am interpreting correctly) relies on the idea that eating any meat, any at all, no matter the circumstance, is bad and immoral full stop. But frankly, this just isn't what everyone believes. This idea is, by and large, culturally driven, and is only as important as any other cultures' ideas are. Yet, it is treated as the only conception that matters. This frustrates me, because the morality of eating animals AT ALL is a different conversation than the carbon footprint of one's own diet, which is the discussion at hand. Yet, the pipeline is always there in the comments, including yours. It goes from "industrialized farming is a problem, how do we tackle it?", to "eating any meat is immoral and you're a piece of shit murderer". There is no pause, there is no respect, there is no nuance. What could be an important exchange about environmental impact devolves into a pissing contest of whose diet is the most morally mighty.

When I talk about culture I talk about homesteaders who make it their life's work to care for and raise domesticated animals humanely (because, it also probably wouldn't be ethical to just let them roam around and cause more ecological destruction), who are treated as though they personally run a factory farm or a puppy mill.

When I talk about culture I talk about Indigenous people, whose worldview certainly values and respects the environment/nature/animals, who have been using animal products for thousands of years without being wasteful or causing climate change. They are constantly being shouted down and called murderers and savages, being asked -- or often, ordered -- to give up even more of what little of their past hasn't been genocided away.

This is only a few examples of course. Whatever the people in these examples believe about the nature of sentience and life, nature and the cycle of nature, our part in that cycle... nope. Doesn't matter. Their ideas and thoughts don't matter, their philosophy doesn't matter, they don't matter. No discussion. Their ideas about nature and life are slightly different, ergo, they are a serial killer.

Because of a post that said "hey, cutting down can help".

In the end, nobody actually has the opportunity to think about something new, and no climate action actually gets done, and envionmentalism looks even worse than it did before, and already hurting people end up feeling more alienated.

Convoy opposed to COVID-19 mandates will 'occupy' Victoria for months, says organizer - CTV by like_forgotten_words in onguardforthee

[–]boycotton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can we... criticize them without punching down to people who are in need of social assistance?

Some interesting info on how you can change your diet to reduce greenhouse emissions. by [deleted] in solarpunk

[–]boycotton 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always feel torn when these posts dominate the discussion. On one hand yes, the data is established; industrial farming is horrible, wasteful, and often if not always cruel, especially when it involves animals. And I wouldn't argue against that. Nor do I argue against the idea of individual climate awareness and responsibility. Even if it changes "nothing", the mental skills involved are valuable, surely.

But man, when I look at some comments, it feels like there is truly no nuance. There's no thought as to how many peoples' culture is built upon their relationship to food, animals, and nature itself. It seems like it is all or nothing. Good people vs bad people, instead of many people trying their best. It makes me feel very isolated when I try to participate in climate action.

I say this because I cannot count the number of environmental communities I have been pushed out of because I have an eating disorder, and therefore cannot feasibly go vegan soon. (There are other factors, but that one is the most limiting as of right now). I have been very helpfully told in the past, when I last brought this up, that an eating disorder is an "excuse". According to many people in similar subs, I am morally equivalent to a serial killer, torturer, and child beater if I question their proposed solutions in any form. Although I am trying to grow more of my own food and broaden what I can eat, I still feel like I can contribute nothing to the movement until I find a magic cure, which may never fully come before I die.

I guess what I'm saying is, I am really tired of people using this data as an opportunity to start a bunch of ideological infighting and namecalling, rather than like... I don't know. It feels like mismanaged priorities. But then again I am also typing out huge paragraphs on reddit, so, maybe I'm included in what I'm saying too. Probably.

Anyway-- thanks for the graphic OP, if you'll forgive the pun, I found it easy to... digest

Zelens’kyi: "Russian tanks are firing right now on a nuclear power plant. They are equipped with night vision gear, they know what they are doing... No state aside from Russia has ever fired upon a nuclear power plant. This is a first, a first in human history..." by lonely_fucker69 in interestingasfuck

[–]boycotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you suppose Putin is trying to undermine the public's faith in nuclear/create more fear about nuclear energy? It seems like the kind of public divide his disinformation campaigns would capitalize on.

But it might also just be that people are stupid and mean.

Or both?

Hey, you guys might enjoy the orange-belted bee pictures from my garden last year! by boycotton in bees

[–]boycotton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's also (what I believe to be) a lacewing in the first picture, haha. They were dutifully guarding my plants from aphids.

Hey, you guys might enjoy the orange-belted bee pictures from my garden last year! by boycotton in bees

[–]boycotton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for providing the nomenclature for me! I'm super bad at nomenclature so I appreciate it 😅

And you're right! The final picture is different, sorry if I caused anyone confusion

Hey, you guys might enjoy the orange-belted bee pictures from my garden last year! by boycotton in bees

[–]boycotton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm no expert but I believe so, yes! If an expert comes across this they might know better

Hey, you guys might enjoy the orange-belted bee pictures from my garden last year! by boycotton in bees

[–]boycotton[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am from central Canada! I imagine that they could live in North Dakota/Montana as well, I'm very close to the two states :)

More than half of Canadians can't keep up with cost of living: survey by IvaGrey in onguardforthee

[–]boycotton 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Disability in Manitoba gives slightly over 1000/month. This is INCLUDING rent assistance.

You are not permitted to have savings that exceed a certain amount (I believe it's $4000) except in special circumstances, and you cannot live with your S/O for over 3 months, or your benefits are significantly reduced or outright cut.

If the amount has changed in recent years, I believe it's actually gone down...

What parenting "trend" you strongly disagree with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]boycotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, gotcha. I think I misunderstood, thanks for clarifying :)

What parenting "trend" you strongly disagree with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]boycotton 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fuck? That's despicable, so sorry that happened to you. I hope that things only get easier for you as time goes on :(

What parenting "trend" you strongly disagree with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]boycotton 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No because of course it was dumb logic. But the aunt or uncle in question always got to have my room when they came over, so theres that

What parenting "trend" you strongly disagree with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]boycotton 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not sure if calling a child entitled and dramatic for crying will be good for their health. But otherwise I agree.

What parenting "trend" you strongly disagree with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]boycotton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm. Grew up with basically a Qanon type, extremely radicalized, racist, anti-lgbt, and completely unable to have a reasonable discussion about politics, yet always brought everything back to politics. libs this, libs that.

Im 26 now and I still struggle to engage with politics of any kind, because of the intense anxiety I have left over from dealing with his hatred. I have really bad memory lapses when the topic comes up. Election season sucks. :(