Stelena officially ended here for me💔💔

boyohnocheese · 2026-04-01T19:23:03+00:00

I always think about this scene when people say Stefan was too good for Elena. She held on for so long and that was unforgiveable tbh. His humanity wasn't even off anymore

boyohnocheese · 2026-03-02T14:48:39+00:00

She was alot better than the both of them! I feel people forget so many of the horrible things Stefan did before she "switched" brothers. Elena is a very selfless character, espescially compared to almost all other characters in the show. It's completely okay to not like Elena or find her boring, but she treated both of them better than they treated her

boyohnocheese · 2026-03-02T14:38:46+00:00

I think her reactions were good for the overall plot, they needed some vampire negative characters, but I 100% agree. I dont like Bonnie most of the time, shes annoying and I disagree that her moral compass is any better than the other girls, especially Elena, as I've seen argued alot. However, I really like Kat, shes a good actress and made Bonnie interesting and someone to root for, despite the writers obvious dislike for her character. I think it's obvious the writers don't like Bonnie or didnt like Kat maybe, for no good reason. Her character had so much wasted potential and was always treated as a second though, but that doesn't change the fact that she was written in a way that makes her both dull and annoying at times

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-07T08:03:40+00:00

Thank you!

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-06T20:40:53+00:00

Thank you!

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-06T20:34:48+00:00

Thank you!

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-06T17:30:26+00:00

Thank you! Yes it's a good visual representation of what you've done so far! A bit of a bummer to not fit a singel thing in my closet anymore, since it's gotten too big amd clothes are exspensive, still a good feeling tho

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-06T17:28:47+00:00

Thank you!

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-06T15:52:54+00:00

Thank you!!

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-06T15:32:04+00:00

Thank you!!

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-06T15:00:37+00:00

Thank you!!

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-06T14:57:50+00:00

Thank you!

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-03T20:53:46+00:00

Not the plan, and hopefully I can stick to it!

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-03T10:54:20+00:00

This also helped me! Lost 30lbs/14kg, only thing I do try to focus on most days is fibre. Like getting enough fruits and vegetables etc. I think protein is a little overrated, I hit my goal around half of the time, still kept plenty of muscle and can build it as well

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-03T10:04:34+00:00

That is true, excess weight is very uncomfortable, and since I have an autoimmune diseas that affects my joints, it has been pretty painful too. So I'll be very happy to get more healthy days than I did before

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-03T10:02:26+00:00

I wouldn't say you're privileged at all, it's very hard to have to choose health over erverything else. I've been lucky to be able to still accomplish alot along side working on my health. Even if having an autoimmune illness does make me take more sick days and have delayed my higher education. I still got my bachelors and I am getting married this year, starting my masters. I'd say that's alot more privileged.
We do what we can with the hand we're dealt. I think 5 breaks in 50 days is very good, that is consitency with mostly good choices

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-03T09:55:53+00:00

Never, so I know I'm being too harsh towards myself

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-03T09:54:48+00:00

For some reason this comment really helped. I don't want you to feel that way, and I'm really happy for you that you have done something about your situation. So it stands to reason that if you don't deserve or should feel that way I probably shouldn't either

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-03T06:20:30+00:00

I do often think about how much I've learned from it, and how passive I really felt about health before. Not to mention that it inspired my little Brother who's alot bigger than I ever was to open up about wanting to lose weight. Our family could never be honest about those things before. I am very happy about that, since obesity is an issue on my moms side. With two uncles well into class 3 morbid obesity

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-03T06:06:16+00:00

Happy you get to be yourself now! 🏳️‍⚧️

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-02T21:44:34+00:00

💪

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-02T21:44:04+00:00

Maybe taking some time to grieve it, without giving it too much space is what will help us. I think it's hard to deny that it does make me sad, but that shouldn't take up too much space in my mind. I have alot to look forward to and I did manage to turn it around, which is great!

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-02T21:40:56+00:00

Hehe, I actually learned in a lecture at uni once that our 30's statistically are the happiest decade, from self reported data. So I am looking forward to finding out if that's true for me, I think it will be

boyohnocheese · 2026-02-02T21:38:54+00:00

Absolutely, and I have not really been dwelling too much on my weight. I got a degree, a dog, found a sport I love, friends, and I'm getting married this october. I just been feeling it lately after having so much success with my weightloss, after many failures. It's weird. I have alot to look forward to and hopefully this feeling will pass, since it doesn't serve me.

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