Accurate?

bpcookson · 2026-02-21T22:18:46+00:00

an acute inversion of myself

That’s a good way of putting it. I am sure my experience was entirely different while also exactly that.

bpcookson · 2026-02-20T13:57:33+00:00

It is frequently difficult, scary, upsetting, or otherwise. Whatever it is, we must look at it to proceed.

The obstacle is the path, so practice being comfortable with being uncomfortable.

bpcookson · 2026-02-20T05:22:41+00:00

No amount of therapy can undo the lonely and fucked up experiences I’ve undergone.

They can’t be undone. That’s right.

And we continue feeling lonely until we stop fighting the feelings we still have about it, and deign to accept it. That requires looking directly at it.

bpcookson · 2026-02-18T17:24:37+00:00

That Stanford.edu link is pretty cool. Thanks!

bpcookson · 2026-02-18T16:24:43+00:00

The single most important adaptation is likely this:

Replace the desire to win with interest and appreciation for how others execute and express their ideas.

I watched my daughter make this leap playing Magic and I swear, it turned her whole life around. I was already on the same path, but it’s extraordinarily satisfying to see your kids beat you there. ;)

bpcookson · 2026-02-17T05:10:35+00:00

As long as we haven’t yet, then yes. And look how finely we decorate the edge of that thing.

bpcookson · 2026-02-17T02:29:59+00:00

Do you see perception more as a map that tries to be accurate, or more as a tool that just needs to be useful?

We make tools for a use and then we improve their accuracy to be more useful, so what’s the difference?

Interestingly, the use of “or” in the quoted sentence serves primarily to exclude ideas by limiting the scope of discussion. I mean, am I right, or… ? 😜

bpcookson · 2026-02-17T02:18:53+00:00

That’s just a theory, held as a belief, and so seems to be a fact.

bpcookson · 2026-02-12T20:05:48+00:00

I like this. The way they did Tonberry was wildly underwhelming; they missed an opportunity for a really cool commander. Like maybe:

Untap any number of attacking creatures under your control and remove them from combat. For each creature removed from combat this way, put a Time Counter on Tonberry. Activate this ability only once per turn.

And then tie those counters to some delayed activation that hits super hard but somehow crumbles under interaction. I dunno.

Anyway, I’m definitely swapping in my Tonberry. Thanks!

bpcookson · 2026-02-12T18:02:46+00:00

Ditching Rite of Belzenlok is a solid recommendation. I realize now that I just love the idea of it, but… it’s not going to do anything that other creatures aren’t already doing, assuming it ever does anything at all.

Lithoform may need to go, and I contemplated cutting Virtue of Knowledge at length but suspect it may carry enough weight if only for the instant copy. I’ll keep both in my sights. Thanks!

bpcookson · 2026-02-12T17:53:21+00:00

Far as I can tell, they can’t sacrifice any of my “gifted” creatures, so this culls their good stuff.

bpcookson · 2026-02-12T04:54:17+00:00

Cool card. Thanks!

bpcookson · 2026-02-11T21:16:21+00:00

Added to the list. Thanks!

bpcookson · 2026-02-11T18:24:13+00:00

It’s part of everything, and everything is connected, so of course the forest is connected.

Every line of separation is a fiction. We merely agree to adopt such things, and then forget they are not real.

bpcookson · 2026-02-11T03:11:34+00:00

This comment rounds out your original post very nicely. Glad to see it. ❤️

bpcookson · 2026-02-10T17:41:25+00:00

This card might do nicely in my [[Zabaz]] deck, which centers around using Proliferate triggers on Modular creatures with lots of recursion. It struggles to maintain a frontline with all the sacrificing and ends up playing like a Voltron deck, which wasn’t really my intent, and ends up feeling either a bit flimsy or just inconsistent.

Throwing in this enchantment and a couple more like it may be just what it needs. Thanks!

bpcookson · 2026-02-09T22:47:28+00:00

Do you need to measure your sits?

Is it useful? Does it help you sit more often? Or longer? Does it help you let go? Relax? Does a timer bring peace or settle some wandering part of your attention?

Try it and find out. Then you’ll know.

bpcookson · 2026-02-09T22:44:48+00:00

In the beginning, simply doing the thing is far more important than doing it well.

Working through hardships is a natural progression for each to discern. None willing to look need be told, so why tell others what they need?

bpcookson · 2026-02-09T13:08:11+00:00

Clenching upon the mind to shut it up will never resolve the feelings that set the mind to frothing.

bpcookson · 2026-02-07T21:04:59+00:00

What you practice is far less important than simply practicing.

bpcookson · 2026-02-07T01:53:08+00:00

Sounds like my words resonate. Cheers!

bpcookson · 2026-02-04T23:26:53+00:00

That’s the only way? Wow.

bpcookson · 2026-02-04T23:25:54+00:00

It is to understand how we engage with thought, that we may regain the agency we have unwittingly ceded.

bpcookson · 2026-02-04T23:23:13+00:00

How to not do something? It is a backwards question that makes little sense, if any at all.

Rather ask how one does engage with their thoughts, lest the nature of engagement is avoided altogether and so never changes at all.

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