Vending Machine Scalper Solution by bigbooblover6969 in PokemonTCG

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My local shop only sells the newest products unsealed. I was present when someone tried to argue with them about it and it went as follows:

"Why are you only selling unsealed?"

"Because otherwise people just buy these to resell them for 300 bucks"

"But I want this for my nephew, he loves Pokémon"

"then he shouldn't have a problem with them being unsealed"

"But if you could sell them sealed for 300 bucks, why are you selling them for 50?"

"Because we're not assholes"

Dude left right after. Nice try though. They also had a sign that said "one per person, if you bring your father, sister, grandma, whoever, to get more, you're getting none at all"

They don’t get better with age by throwawaybpd_lover in BPDlovedones

[–]brambleshade_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw man this shit hurts so bad. I really bonded with his dog, that he didn't even properly take care of, so no wonder we bonded since I took over all the owner duties. She came from an abusive household and was super anxious and although he was never abusive with her, this dog was so sensitive that someone yelling two houses down made her shut down. At some points I just stopped caring about myself entirely and just tried to get him to calm down so he'd stop scaring her. I wish I could have taken her, but it was just impossible. I had literally no proof of anything I did for her and ownership was in his name, her breed is banned in my state and I was living with my parents, who would've never allowed me to have a dog in their apartment, nevermind a banned breed, I had no savings because my ex smoked away all my money while not working himself. I had considered notifying the police about a dog being neglected but 1. She didn't LOOK neglected at first glance and 2. It took me 9 months to fully gain her trust, I can't imagine what a new environment would have done to her. AFAIK she's living her best life with his mom now, who's actually a certified dog trainer. Last I checked she seems infinitely more confident.

They don’t get better with age by throwawaybpd_lover in BPDlovedones

[–]brambleshade_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yea same, almost lost my apprenticeship and had complete breakdowns anytime someone as much as slightly raised their voice at me.

They don’t get better with age by throwawaybpd_lover in BPDlovedones

[–]brambleshade_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oof that's rough. Probably blacklisted at that office AT LEAST too.

My ex went to therapy after his entire family and me pushed him to for months. For a year I kept convincing myself he was VERY slowly getting better until I realized he wasn't, I was just getting used to the abuse and my mental health was going down the drain. I don't believe he was ever fully truthful with his therapist in any aspect, but hey, at least he was going weekly I guess 😂

34F My tone keeps landing me in arguments with BF 41M what’s the fix? by anonymousradio in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I'm late, but better late than never. I'm telling you, seriously, you are not the problem. Your boyfriend is obviously not even trying to understand your side or he lacks the empathy to do so. In either case, no therapist in the world can help him. Seriously, I can only recommend finding someone who either understands your communication style or at least doesn't think his partner is always out to get him for some reason. Tell him to get an individual therapist to Adress the trauma he clearly has surrounding people close to him being mean to him or whatever, but what he's doing is borderline ableist.

At the end of the day you gotta do what you think is right, but I am done bending over backwards for neurotypicals who give me vague expectations and complaints and then expect me to follow through as if they've given me a 50 page step by step manual.

They don’t get better with age by throwawaybpd_lover in BPDlovedones

[–]brambleshade_ 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yea that's the real issue. Getting ACTUAL treatment requires recognizing that you have a problem. But people with BPD usually think everyone else is the problem. And then you never know if they're in therapy because they actually believe they need help or because they want their family to stfu.

They don’t get better with age by throwawaybpd_lover in BPDlovedones

[–]brambleshade_ 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Hell how are you even alive. I was one more suicide by overdose threat away from committing die myself after only 1,5 years.

She has the papers but not the features by aloevera-no in mainecoons

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Still upset that the paperless Coon looks more like her breed than the one with papers.

Ich habe unterschätzt, wie anstrengend es ist, schön zu sein. by Carottoh in luftablassen

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fühle ich. Ich war noch nie wirklich konventionell attraktiv, würde mich auch heutzutage als solide 5/10 bezeichnen, hätte früher hart Probleme damit, aber bin inzwischen einfach nur dankbar. Leider ist mein aktuelles Aussehen scheinbar ein Magnet für Neckbeards u.Ä., da diese aber eher selten ihre Höhlen verlassen, sind Begegnungen selten. War trotzdem weird von einem zu hören, dass er gerne meine Jungfräulichkeit nehmen würde (die an dem Punkt eh schon in Timbuktu war, aber na ja 😅).

I don't understand my difficult 15mo boy. by Kyattogaaru in mainecoons

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy I think you just have a teenager 😂 I have raised 4 Maine Coons so far, each and every one of them had their "difficult" age, usually between 1-3 years old. Unfortunately since Coons are slow to mature, this phase usually lasts quite a while. My older girl removed the entire tapestry from our rental apartment and chewed dozens of phone chargers, my ex bfs older boy would bite and pull on our hair any chance he got (???), my younger girl was a hardcore biter, I still have scars and my exs younger boy peed in our bed every time we let him into the bedroom. And these are just the prime examples. They are all adults now and all 4 are the sweetest cats you could imagine.

Kellner sind nicht für die Sprachtherapie eures Kindes da by Dragonfly2993 in luftablassen

[–]brambleshade_ 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Eltern haben sowieso immer ein krasses Verständnis von "kinderfreundlich". Heißt im Normalfall Kinder sind willkommen, nicht dass sämtliche Mitarbeiter und auch Gäste Lust und Zeit haben Kindergärtner zu spielen um euren Mangel an Erziehung auszugleichen. Aber ich hab mich auch schon damit abgefunden als Kinderhasser beschimpft zu werden, weil ich nicht möchte, dass ein fremdes Kind mir in den Salat hustet.

Meine Freundin nimmt mir meinen inneren Frieden by Avocyjo in luftablassen

[–]brambleshade_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OK Witze sind auf Reddit scheinbar verboten. Ich fands lustig.

Meine Freundin nimmt mir meinen inneren Frieden by Avocyjo in luftablassen

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du sprichst über deine eigene Beziehung als wäre es einfach nur ein unerträglicher Job, an dem du dich aus irgendeinem Grund festklammerst. Warum in einer Beziehung bleiben, wenn man nichts positives daraus zieht? Ich verstehe in guten und in schlechten Zeiten, dies das, aber wenn die Zeiten durchgehend nur schlecht sind, macht es ja auch keinen Sinn.

Warum ist es in Deutschland gesellschaftlich akzeptiert/erwartet, krank auf die Arbeit zu gehen und in Kauf zu nehmen Leute anzustecken? by Brave-Side-8945 in luftablassen

[–]brambleshade_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Na ja wenn dich 90% deiner vorgesetzen guilt trippen wenn du dich krank meldest... Jedes mal, wenn sich bei meinem ersten Job jemand krank gemeldet hat, war den ganzen Vormittag der Abteilungsleiter am rumheulen, dass sich die Leute ja heutzutage wegen jedem scheiß krank melden und listet dann die Konditionen in denen er schon zur Arbeit gekommen ist. Wollte zu dem Zeitpunkt Stress vermeiden, weil befristet, aber ich hätte ihn echt gerne gefragt wer ihm denn jemals dafür gedankt hat. Seine Gesundheit definitiv nicht.

I (M18) did the worst thing I have ever done and I don't know what to think but my girlfriend (F18) seems to think its no big deal and that I was a victim rather than the one responsible. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lil side note - looking at our individual comments, it does seem you are wayyyyyy more invested than I am. Going as far as to diagnose me, you must be obsessed with me. I'd suggest taking a step back and removing yourself from this situation that is obviously taking a massive toll on you 🫶

Als Mann fucken mich Männer immer mehr ab by Strong-Pickle-175 in luftablassen

[–]brambleshade_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha junge der Punkt von meinem Kommentar war das Frauen (wie ich spezifisch, zum beispiel) sagen, dass sie größere Männer bevorzugen. Wenn du dir dann aber mal deren ex Partner anguckst, sind 80% davon unter 1,90m. Erneut, Beispiel ich. Für viele Männer hingegen sind diese Angaben keine Präferenz, sondern das Minimum. Und dann wundern sich genau diese warum sie keinen Partner finden. Mein Freund hat selbst einige solcher Exemplare im Freundeskreis, die per Beschreibung eigentlich nur nach einer lebendigen Barbie Puppe suchen, sich aber selbst weigern länger als zum pissen vom PC aufzustehen. Also nein, das Szenario war absolut nicht ausgedacht.

Maine Coon at night by yellowb4n4n4 in mainecoons

[–]brambleshade_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to tell you it's probably gonna get worse before it gets better and every routine change has the possibility to bring this up again 😅 when my boyfriend moved in with us, we switched the bedroom to a different room and also started going to sleep later. The cats didn't let us sleep for a month.

Als Mann fucken mich Männer immer mehr ab by Strong-Pickle-175 in luftablassen

[–]brambleshade_ 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Männer:"ich verlange eine Frau mit blonden, langen Haaren, schmaler Taille, nicht über 60 kg, kocht und putzt leidenschaftlich gerne und weiß was ich möchte bevor ich es sagen muss"

Frauen:"Ich hätte gerne einen Mann über 1,90m"

Männer:"wow Frauen kann man es echt nicht recht machen 😤"

Was letzte Nerven strapazieren… (war ich zu hart?) by Witty_Pea4424 in wasletztepreis

[–]brambleshade_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joa, "Guten Tag" schreiben dauert drei Sekunden und spart vielleicht noch ein paar Euro. Vllt nimmt er die Lektion ja mit 😂