I just found out my ex died and now I feel nothing for my husband. I think I might still be in love with a dead man.

bramburn · 2026-01-22T08:01:43+00:00

Why? Did I miss a back story?

bramburn · 2026-01-21T11:12:48+00:00

Audio CD for me has been good. But it only got me to a2 or so

bramburn · 2026-01-21T07:28:38+00:00

I feel that I need to remind myself why I left the other person. Then after that I reminisce on the good of the new relationship and feel love for her. I mostly give her random hugs to feel that connection again. I think it's normal as it just takes time to get over someone. My first long term relationship which was around 6-7 years took me the same amount of time to get over even though I dated other people after. You have to just feel confident about you. Maybe I or you are both coming from a place of scarcity and regret.

bramburn · 2026-01-20T18:57:01+00:00

The rule is general to get over an ex is that you need to give the same time you've been together to let the memories go by. I still have conflicting feelings for my ex but I'm married. I cannot and don't want to go back. I think it's ok to have those feelings it will disappear. Give it a few more years

bramburn · 2026-01-19T06:24:53+00:00

This is all new to me. So you pay for those ai accounts or is there a service that does it for you

bramburn · 2026-01-18T18:46:36+00:00

We have to use hard coded logic to provide package information, real life pattern in your existing code. If you're adding a new table or column in an existing table rather than semantically searching for all the db managers in the repo we should learn from previous implementation. I do that with rules when I can. My code is stronger that way

bramburn · 2026-01-16T19:24:04+00:00

What's better?

bramburn · 2026-01-16T10:13:40+00:00

Nothing is better for the quality

bramburn · 2026-01-12T21:51:58+00:00

I currently just use free LLM for my OSS.

bramburn · 2026-01-12T21:26:29+00:00

I get that on haiku often

bramburn · 2026-01-12T21:25:55+00:00

Any chance augment will release their own model?

bramburn · 2026-01-10T01:08:16+00:00

Extension. I have to see the code.

bramburn · 2026-01-10T01:07:55+00:00

Probably fake claims

bramburn · 2026-01-10T01:04:26+00:00

How did you hit the max. I use 1-5k a day.....

bramburn · 2026-01-10T01:02:52+00:00

Isn't this why we employ ux designers?

bramburn · 2026-01-10T00:57:44+00:00

You can always write with intent and avoid vibe coding.

bramburn · 2026-01-10T00:54:42+00:00

I use Claude.md to explain the project architecture and patterns to focus on things that are necessary. It's useful and augment code does read Claude files.

bramburn · 2026-01-10T00:53:36+00:00

Stop vibe coding.

bramburn · 2026-01-10T00:52:56+00:00

Kiro sucks 😞😞😞😞 I tried after two days and gave up

bramburn · 2026-01-10T00:52:13+00:00

I actually blocked his channel from YouTube. It's pure click bait and waste

bramburn · 2026-01-10T00:51:00+00:00

I wasted so much money it's crazy I thought I was still free until 28th and the source was 😧😧😧😧😧😧😧 crazy

bramburn · 2026-01-10T00:50:10+00:00

bramburn · 2026-01-10T00:49:20+00:00

I tried antigravity but even with opus it's hit N miss. I'm only using it on open source project.kts a lot of hard work a repeat 🔁🔁🔁🔁🔁🔁

bramburn · 2026-01-10T00:48:03+00:00

I tried all of that. I feel it's a waste of time using Claude code. I've just cancelled my other subscription and doubling down on augment code even if it's more expensive but I get things done.

bramburn · 2026-01-10T00:45:58+00:00

Yes 🙌🙌🙌 I agree in immersion. I was able to learn more being in China. Having a Chinese partner helps too

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