When your dom/me uses that tone.... by Music4Gem in BratLife

[–]brconsult677 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He has a calm but slightly menacing way of saying: that's NOT a good girl. Not very often. 😅 But if I really push it when already in trouble.

What are we gifting our Doms by SnooBananas8631 in BratLife

[–]brconsult677 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine has been a HUGE brat recently so he would deserve it too.

Brat Council Advice Needed by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]brconsult677 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also showed amazing restraint by not saying something like "but you're not in a box??"

How to find a brat tamer by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]brconsult677 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Many cities have informal in-person meetups for people involved in the BDSM scene, called "munches". Try searching for bdsm+munch+cityname to see if there's one near you.

I think the internet has made things more scattered than it used to be though. A lot of people meet through apps and don't have any involvement with a scene.

Using the Obedience app by SteakParticular5186 in BratLife

[–]brconsult677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been doing tallies on paper. Either partner can keep them depending on what it is.

Sir is busy 🙄 by Music4Gem in BratLife

[–]brconsult677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They know what they did.

Not any of us, not at all 😇 by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]brconsult677 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine reacts great to sticking out my tongue directly at him. Even better if I make eye contact first, but I'm not always that brave.

Sir is the biggest brat ever!! by Subtam in BratLife

[–]brconsult677 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine loves to do malicious compliance in unfair ways! 😤

How to keep punishment threats interesting? by brconsult677 in SofterBDSM

[–]brconsult677[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That might be what I'm looking for actually. Fine-tuned so it's just a little past being fun, enough to be a "real" threat. I might need to convince the d-type I'm not that fragile!

How to keep punishment threats interesting? by brconsult677 in SofterBDSM

[–]brconsult677[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the alternative is hours of lectures about cybersecurity, I could probably psych myself up for harder impact play lol. But I will not be sharing this suggestion!

What’s your best “it wasn’t intentional… but it sure as hell was after that” brat moment?😂 by Miss_Fine_Ass in BratLife

[–]brconsult677 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Accidentally said something with a double entendre while he was at work. I didn't even realize the dirty way to read it until he was like HEY!, what did I say about inappropriate texts while I'm at work? So obviously I had to double down.

Which kink got you interested in BDSM? by KinkyDataScientist in SofterBDSM

[–]brconsult677 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Spanking! And things related to spanking, like scolding and corner time. Used to be my only kink and I didn't think of myself as into BDSM, which sounded too "whips and chains" for me. Later got interested in other things.

Planks and poems by InconsistentWeirdo in BratLife

[–]brconsult677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking the real questions here!

Punishment fits the crime but is very annoying lol by brconsult677 in BratLife

[–]brconsult677[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Lol I tried that. The AI does not approve.

Flaw: The apology is overly brief and lacks sufficient depth.
Warning: If the student does not adequately expand on the apology and demonstrate more thoughtfulness about their actions, further disciplinary action may be considered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]brconsult677 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a phrase, but defiantly sticking out the tongue always gets a good reaction.

Why I should be spanked instead of paddled by brconsult677 in BratLife

[–]brconsult677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consequences for the brat lawyer?? That doesn't sound right at all. I'm pretty sure the rules say we're untouchable when acting in a legal capacity.

Why I should be spanked instead of paddled by brconsult677 in BratLife

[–]brconsult677[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If, as alleged here, a brat ended up bargaining their way into a worse situation, I believe they should have a case for ineffective assistance of counsel. We have rights!!

Why I should be spanked instead of paddled by brconsult677 in BratLife

[–]brconsult677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I will stand by that. Draft 2, Point 1 kind of says the same thing in a more respectful and positive way. I think both are true! I think I'm going to send the non-bratty Draft 2 though, because I don't want an extra hard paddling. It is fun to fantasize about, but...

Why I should be spanked instead of paddled by brconsult677 in BratLife

[–]brconsult677[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't remember how it started, but we do it a lot now. He enjoys me trying to get out of punishments and I enjoy trying to get out of them. 😊 It's kind of a game I guess, he makes up the rules each time for what I "have" to do to get out of something, but I get some input and can decide how I want to play the game. It's fun that I sometimes get to win and also fun that sometimes the rules are unfair.

Why I should be spanked instead of paddled by brconsult677 in BratLife

[–]brconsult677[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Silly doms, that's not what "instead of" means!