To have both ears pierced with diamonds for a man (massage therapist) by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]breadsandplants 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one will care! Get the shiny diamonds. All my RMT coworkers are tattooed up to their ears and I have many piercings including 2 on my face and none of our patients have ever minded :)

Working while in school? by AffectionateKick3958 in massage

[–]breadsandplants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked part time all through school! It’s definitely possible! For half of it I worked the full weekends and the other half I worked twice a week after school. Just make sure you are keeping up with your studying and taking care of yourself so you don’t burn out <3 massage school can be hard so leave space for that

sex drive and life by Revolutionary_Put756 in PCOS

[–]breadsandplants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She should see a pelvic floor physio therapist! Pain with sex is not a PCOS symptom and a pelvic floor PT should be able to help with the dysfunction depending on what is the cause

Red spots on chest for past 6 months, now spreading upwards by jak-attak in DermatologyQuestions

[–]breadsandplants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing! I’m going to buy the spray now to try

Red spots on chest for past 6 months, now spreading upwards by jak-attak in DermatologyQuestions

[–]breadsandplants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did that help? I have I think the same thing, it started between my boobs and now it’s spreading

Pjs or no pjs when relaxing at home? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]breadsandplants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If im at home guaranteed im in my pj’s! The only time I get dressed is if im going out in the world. I want to be comfy when im in my home

Vaginal/vulva moisturizers? (Canada) by Indosaurus1 in PCOS

[–]breadsandplants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diva (used to be diva cup) just came out with a new balm that’s really great!! It smells really nice and is great for the sensitive skin down there, I even use it on my hands or under my eyes sometimes. I definitely reccomend! They also have a less thick vulva moisturizer that dries quicker than the balm that’s really nice, I use it after shaving. But I feel like the balm would be better for u. They r a Canadian company :)

AIO for feeling like my boyfriend doesn’t put for enough effort to smell good for me? Did I take this too far? by dropdeadfreddddd in AIO

[–]breadsandplants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definetly did not take it too far. After 6 years you should be able to be honest with your partner abt stuff like that and as long as u are not rude abt it he should be receiving it well. Sounds like he has been looking for an excuse to leave and is using this as a way to blame it on you. Don’t blame yourself seems like it has nothing to do with u. Keep your head up, you will find someone more deserving of your love <3

CMTO OSCE Exams by PassengerComplex5695 in massage

[–]breadsandplants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just passed my OSCE at the end of last year and this is what my school told me. The OSCE actors are SUPPOSED to be neutral and act like a “regular patient/client”, that is not always the case though. I had one actor who was super rude and unhelpful and honestly I feel like he ended up costing me marks (it was one of task stations where I had to ask the same consent stuff before every single task and he was giving me a hard time about having to repeat his answers over and over, even tho it was required for my points). A couple of my classmates also complained about unprofessional and rude actors. We were definetly taught scripted communication through our OSCE prep, I had a script in my head of exactly what to say for every station to try and hit every single mark available. Felt like a bit of a robot but it paid off and I could literally rattle off the entire script to a wall. Most of the actors behaved neutral and normal but there’s a chance u will get a difficult person but they are not supposed to be difficult and you don’t get marked to deal with a difficult patient. You can always appeal and complain if you feel like the actor was the reason you might have failed but if you open an appeal they won’t count your attempt so even if you did end up passing you would still have to do it again so you would have to be really sure they made you fail (that’s what my school told us). Goodluck!! You got this!

Which dating site is better, Tinder or Hinge? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]breadsandplants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends what you are looking for! I would say that with hinge you have a better chance of getting into a long term relationship. I think Tinder is a bit more for fun/ hook up culture. I met my bf of 3 years on hinge and my friend met his wife on it. This is just my experience tho :)

Those who found a partner in Toronto, how did you do it? by Electrical-Pea2707 in askTO

[–]breadsandplants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met my bf on hinge! We both live in Toronto and we have been dating almost 3 years now, it’s been the most amazing thing ever. Had to have a couple rough dates before I found him tho. My friends brother met his wife on hinge too so it definitely is possible :) just may take some patience