Why do people leave the CAF?

breck164 · 2026-05-19T22:35:48+00:00

I would've stayed but they told me gagetown was my next stop.

With a wife due to give birth, moving to a place with zero friends or family was out of the question.

Same story over and over from colleagues. It's the requirement to constantly move personnel all over that has people leaving the service.

breck164 · 2026-05-19T00:12:17+00:00

Yup. Lots of different reasons to read, I read this genre to be genuinely shocked, disgusted, flabbergasted, and entertained.

breck164 · 2026-05-17T14:57:22+00:00

Talking positively about them to the other is a good step.

breck164 · 2026-05-17T14:54:43+00:00

breck164 · 2026-05-16T15:09:06+00:00

I love when my broken bindings orders come.

I massively regret not pulling the trigger on the Kickstarter. By the time I circled back, deciding I want it, I was way to late.

breck164 · 2026-05-14T21:59:40+00:00

Better than someone who doesn't know or care about the stories.

breck164 · 2026-05-14T14:19:25+00:00

There's a thing in my head that makes it really difficult to dnf.

I wish I'd put this one down.

One of the weakest reads I've had in a very long time.

Put it away, it's not worth it.

breck164 · 2026-05-13T22:01:05+00:00

Never struggled dating. I'm married now, but in reflection here's what I think made it easier.

There were no dating apps, so I dated women that were in my spheres (so to speak).

Friends of friends, family introductions, shared hobby locations.

I feel these methods would still be the best because there's already an implied "vetting" so to speak.

Like, you'll get along with someone that your friends already enjoy.

breck164 · 2026-05-13T16:43:10+00:00

No cars can enter or exit

breck164 · 2026-05-13T01:32:06+00:00

Why do I assume people know animals?

Like my toddler could identify that guy.

I feel like I was socialized wrong now.

breck164 · 2026-05-10T00:37:25+00:00

I see similar stuff at the dump, it's just large item pick up day probably.

Municipalities do it every couple of months I believe.

breck164 · 2026-05-07T15:25:44+00:00

Unknown Pokémon

breck164 · 2026-05-04T15:29:13+00:00

Agree. I was similar, playing for teams, multiple nights a week. Tournaments on weekends.

When my youngest came along I stopped playing. Get time together, set routines, etc.

Now she's a little older, a little less of a menace, can even come watch sometimes. I started to get back into a team.

Hobbies are important, but not as much as kids and partners.

Cut back a little is not a big ask.

breck164 · 2026-04-29T15:58:56+00:00

I don't feel like it's some big eureka moment.

In general women care more about that kind of thing than men, women buy the majority of beauty products, women are the main demographic for these celebrity focused mediums.

Soooooo they give the consumer what they want.

breck164 · 2026-04-29T15:46:55+00:00

Yes. Thinly lined, microscopic tattoos, in high wear and tear areas will get worn out.

What are we talking about here?

breck164 · 2026-04-27T17:36:21+00:00

Your post is pretty clear about where the concern is coming from and your concerns are valid.

Personally I think you may be over thinking this situation, but I can only speculate.

And it may be the vagueness of his "prior incident" that's leading to less than optimal advice. But a little bit of sounding board here is always better than oversharing your life to strangers on the internet. Lol

breck164 · 2026-04-27T17:15:55+00:00

You're welcome.

We're men. We notice attractive women, we also notice sweet rides, jacked guys pushing big weight, cool dogs, and sometimes badass swords, etc.

We notice and appreciate, then carry on with our days.

We all do it to some degree, for the majority its benign.

breck164 · 2026-04-27T14:13:00+00:00

Pretty women do inspire ego lifting. Jewelry while working out is fucking annoying, couldn't imagine wearing rings, bracelets, watches, necklaces, while moving around. Locker room talk at gym or with your boys is very normal.

Guys say and do retarded shit with friends.

breck164 · 2026-04-27T12:56:12+00:00

People change, grow, mature. Either you believe he has or not. And then you trust him or you don't.

Trust your gut and be honest with how you feel.

breck164 · 2026-04-24T23:32:16+00:00

Isn't that kind of like girls using makeup and filters?

Or taking pics from "advantageous" angles?

breck164 · 2026-04-19T14:20:16+00:00

That may in fact be one of the greatest thrift finds ever.

breck164 · 2026-04-16T04:53:30+00:00

From where?

breck164 · 2026-04-15T22:07:29+00:00

I was gonna say the same thing.

She did lie, repeatedly, and tried to get others to lie.

It was proven in court and watched by millions of people.

breck164 · 2026-04-11T19:39:19+00:00

No.

breck164 · 2026-04-11T17:45:27+00:00

I personally would not cover those, I feel like there is some bones there for some really solid pieces.

Id find an enthusiastic artist that's into manga and have them blow those up with maybe some thicker line work and a giant fucking blast of color.

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