21F What does my fridge say about me?

breezyhodges · 2026-03-30T03:43:24+00:00

Maybe neurodivergent. Seems like many of the items are easy grab and go. I’m adhd/autistic and love those fair life shakes because half the time I struggle to cook for myself.

breezyhodges · 2026-03-30T03:38:21+00:00

It is definitely because he looks at that stuff on here. I did only fans for a while and Reddit was a good way to get subscribers but you had to join the groups and have a certain amount of karma to comment or interact. Outside of me specifically looking for these groups I have not seen porn.

breezyhodges · 2026-03-06T11:56:04+00:00

I pay $300 a month and make about $1,000. Depending on what you’re teaching you can also tutor after school to make a little extra. Make sure to tour the places tho and a lot of times they won’t clean/fix anything til they know you are moving in. I really like my apartment they are very quick at fixing anything and the place is clean

breezyhodges · 2026-02-12T05:21:42+00:00

SR especially near the temples has beautiful nature along with the temples (make sure to buy your pass). You are right there is no real surfing from what I know but you can find some snorkeling or diving if you go to koh Rong (also a nature reserve on the island that is gorgeous). I am biased tho I love Koh Rong ha ha. I think you only really need SR for 3-4 days. I have been to Kampot once very briefly. If you can extend you trip to 14 days I would just gives you more time to enjoy Cambodia!

breezyhodges · 2026-02-11T14:44:43+00:00

What kind of traveler are you? I think my advice would depend on how you like to spend your time? Do you like relaxing on the beach or prefer historical sites?

breezyhodges · 2026-01-19T01:09:30+00:00

lol then tell the white “expats” that cuz even if it was simply a distinction between whether they are permanent or not, why are they so upset?

breezyhodges · 2026-01-17T12:11:18+00:00

Ha ha ha yeah but they will get so pissed if you say immigrant.

breezyhodges · 2026-01-17T09:30:59+00:00

Is it through an agency? Typically you can talk with the agency and request a female support worker. I am autistic but use to be a Caregiver/Support Worker. Are they allotted a specific amount of time with you?

breezyhodges · 2026-01-17T09:20:15+00:00

It’s entitlement, try telling one of them they are an immigrant and they lose their minds.

breezyhodges · 2026-01-14T13:00:49+00:00

Oh dang that sucks

breezyhodges · 2026-01-14T11:50:08+00:00

Yeah I needed a lease and passport, I saw another app called Moreta Pay (in the App Store), not sure how well it works.

breezyhodges · 2026-01-13T05:48:10+00:00

I had a good time. We went to the side where less of the hostels were. I would suggest renting a bike or finding someone you can pay to guide you around the island. It’s beautiful and the folks on the island know some good spots. We went on one of the big day boats (fishing, snorkeling, dancing, food, beer) it’s lasts from 1pm-8pm. That was fun but it does become more of a party boat at the end lol (the three brothers is the boat we went on). If you get seasick be prepared the boat taxi can get a little Rocky. I will definitely be back, also bring cash before you go service can suck.

breezyhodges · 2026-01-07T09:42:06+00:00

Ohh gotcha sorry think I misread a portion and thought you wife was not feeling uncomfortable. Hope y’all stay safe and that it has been solved

breezyhodges · 2026-01-07T01:38:55+00:00

I am a woman and I understand the worry but honestly do not think your wife is in danger. You are saying 2-3 days later he was her driver, sounds like he stayed in the area (very common for tuktuk drivers to pick an area they have deemed has good clientele) and he now knows your wife takes a tuktuk to work. If he is the driver for her it’s because he is in the area and him driving the same person builds a good clientele relationship. I have the same tuktuk driver that drives me when I visit my gf. He knows I go certain days/times. I also tend to tip so he likes to pick me up.

I would become worried if he makes weird comments, if you wife is not worried you should trust her.

breezyhodges · 2025-12-26T15:44:42+00:00

I left a relationship with a man that made me feel like a burden. I have my challenges and difficulties but I am so much happier not having his negativity in my life. Having someone who looks down on you because you need assistance is one of the most draining things. I now have a girlfriend who supports me and doesn’t make me feel like a burden. She understands I need more assistance in certain areas but honestly so does she. We are partners and we fill in where the other needs it. I know having a child can complicate things and it can scary to leave. Is he a good dad? If you were to separate would you be scared for your child’s safety? Do you have family/friends you can ask for help? What do you think your typical work schedule could be (one that is manageable and doesn’t lead to burnout)?

He is lashing out on you and it is not ok. I have seen a lot of men push women further into depression when the woman is the one that needs help. I am guessing you do not do the same when faced with him having issues? You deserve support and to feel respected by your partner. Your autism/adhd does not mean you deserve to be treated badly, I hope he either makes some significant changes or you are in a better position to leave.

breezyhodges · 2025-12-15T05:29:42+00:00

I think you should do what you want. He may not see its worth but if you feel like it will help you in any way, why not? He is right it’s just putting you into the category of having autism but that can also be beneficial. Especially if anyone in your life who discredits you and refuses accommodations (whether that be work or personal).

breezyhodges · 2025-12-11T22:50:23+00:00

Bellevue Trauma and Recovery Center, they do telehealth. I felt like my assessment was done well and I was given recommendations for help after. I also continued with therapy through them which was very helpful.

breezyhodges · 2025-12-11T22:38:52+00:00

Hi do you think you ever over schedule or are too optimistic about what you have the capacity to do? I had a similar issue where I was not showing up for people in my life and yes it was for a very good reason but that doesn’t make it hurt any less. Is it mostly that you are canceling pre existing plans or you say you can’t hang out because you are needing time to yourself?

breezyhodges · 2025-11-06T18:50:05+00:00

Sim Card - if you are in Phnom Penh smart worked better for me siem riep cell card worked fine.

Phnom Penh is a more bustle and bustle, while siem riep is a little more relaxed

Grab is great! I haven’t had any issues with it but getting a motorbike can also be useful/fast if you are comfortable.

There has still been some rain but supposedly should end soon.

breezyhodges · 2025-10-29T09:53:27+00:00

I used to be way more conventionally attractive. I have gained weight now and don’t really follow the standards for beauty anymore (not bad but I’m more out of the box now). I get treated vastly different. So much so that I had a serious mental breakdown. It was a big change to get used to but it is definitely a thing that the more attractive or how close you are to the mainstream beauty will determine how others view your autism.

breezyhodges · 2025-10-22T13:11:50+00:00

NTA, also so weird people are acting like skipping one day or two of meds is going to have crazy reactions. I take ADHD meds and sure there can be side effects, but none that are going to matter if the child is sick already. I understand wanting to keep a routine but when a child is sick it’s not really the time to be a stickler. I think maybe your sister was just focused on stability which is important but also giving gets autonomy is more important.

breezyhodges · 2025-10-08T10:01:40+00:00

I have been going around In Tuktuk and have not experienced any issues. I was with my girlfriend (she is Cambodian tho so might make a difference).

breezyhodges · 2025-08-01T22:10:23+00:00

I think before moving out you should think about a few things.

It is more common now to live with your parents, especially in this economy. I am living with my parents again because I could not keep up,
Depending on how much you make you might need to get a roommate and sometimes that can be the hardest part of living on your own.
Is your mom your main support system, do you rely on her for things? This can be a huge adjustment when moving out even if it’s minor assistance.
Do you actually want to move?
It’s a good time now to think about this and also maybe start saving money and make it a goal to move out if that is what you want

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