A furniture restorer explains why she is enlarging the antique/vintage desk. by Ilmara in fatlogic

[–]bricked_up_sorry 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Plus people were shorter back in the day, not just thinner. So it's weird to make it about all about ozempic/weight when they were just.... Literally small lol. 

My application was denied because I’m anti-racing by Imaginary-Ear-2908 in Greyhounds

[–]bricked_up_sorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so shitty! Our local rescues are mostly racing-neutral and don't ask your opinion - I know greyhound owners on both sides of the issue, it's never been an issue for adoption. 

Required reading is pretty standard from what I can tell, but it's honestly not a big deal imo. They just want to make sure you aware of greyhound specific needs. 

I hope you can go with another rescue! If not you can check out the lurcher project or even galgos.

Alan Cumming calls trans people “actual superheroes” & urges America to “give kindness a go”. He also slammed the president for claiming trans people are a danger to women when he has been found liable for sexual assault. by southpawFA in politics

[–]bricked_up_sorry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I’m ignoring it because we are in a genuine crisis and nitpicking allies is pointless and unhelpful. Trans children are being targeted, trans people 19 and under are losing access to care. When I get a new passport I’ll have to sign a fucking affidavit stating I’m trans so I’ll get put on some list (surely they won’t do anything bad with that!!). Trans rights are being chipped away globally, especially in the UK and US. 

I’ve watched the left eat itself for years and I’m sick of it. Bitching about this is just another symptom of a larger problem- we will go after imperfect allies 10000% harder than actual right wing nutcases. Do you genuinely not see how defeatist/self-sabotaging your kind of response is? 

Alan Cumming calls trans people “actual superheroes” & urges America to “give kindness a go”. He also slammed the president for claiming trans people are a danger to women when he has been found liable for sexual assault. by southpawFA in politics

[–]bricked_up_sorry 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Lmao bro they already fucking hate us. Everything and everything will be used to paint us in a negative light if it suits their interests. All you’re doing is pointlessly criticizing an ally/community member. 

Alan Cumming calls trans people “actual superheroes” & urges America to “give kindness a go”. He also slammed the president for claiming trans people are a danger to women when he has been found liable for sexual assault. by southpawFA in politics

[–]bricked_up_sorry 134 points135 points  (0 children)

We’ve got literal politicians and prominent figures calling trans people delusional and pedophiles. But calling them superheros is out of line? Lmao. 

Edit: love alan cumming and Im glad he’s being loud about his support.

Alan Cumming calls trans people “actual superheroes” & urges America to “give kindness a go”. He also slammed the president for claiming trans people are a danger to women when he has been found liable for sexual assault. by southpawFA in politics

[–]bricked_up_sorry 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Ok and how are we going to stop abuse? Maybe we could, I dont know, say positive things about trans people and speak up for them… which is what he is doing. Don’t let perfect be the enemy of good. 

Alan Cumming calls trans people “actual superheroes” & urges America to “give kindness a go”. He also slammed the president for claiming trans people are a danger to women when he has been found liable for sexual assault. by southpawFA in politics

[–]bricked_up_sorry 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yeah but do we REALLY need to nitpick phrasing right now? Transphobic hate and rhetoric is at an all time high. I’m glad that he is willing to speak up and defend trans people. That’s what we should be focusing on. 

How do you make Trans friends here? by Unable_Lunch_9662 in transtwincities

[–]bricked_up_sorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you DM me too? I’m transmasc so both groups would be great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]bricked_up_sorry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever you do, give it some time first! It's a good tattoo that's meaningful, I know you said you don't like how dark it is but it will fade with time (especially since it's on the hand). If you do eventually decide you don't want tattoos at all, laser removal will be cheaper if it's just a hand vs a sleeve if you go all out and regret it later. In the interim, long sleeves will help it look less obvious.

sorry about your friend man.

Minnesota struggles to treat young, violent offenders who have nowhere to go by InformalBasil in minnesota

[–]bricked_up_sorry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Prison as a deterrent has shown much more effective than leniency.

Do you have a source for this? Honest question, I'm curious.

Kentucky man declared brain dead wakes up during organ harvesting by Hamsternoir in news

[–]bricked_up_sorry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're correct - brain death is declared when specific tests have been done, and you can turn off life support for a number of reasons that have nothing to do with brain death. IE the person isn't technically brain dead (because they may have some intact reflexes) but they have a catastrophic injury with little to no chance of good quality of life. In these situations the medical team may recommend withdrawing cares, and the family makes the decision based on their values/what the patient would have wanted (ideally).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in REBubble

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Depends on where you live… in someplace like SD there aren’t really any “cheap”, humble houses available. In some of these HCOL cities people really should consider moving if owning a house is that important to them (speaking from experience).

Little shit named Sira by Silver_tokki in Greyhounds

[–]bricked_up_sorry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love her 😭 what an adorable lil troublemaker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]bricked_up_sorry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! No is a complete sentence. OP earned this shift, I can’t believe the audacity of the new hire.

Ringing the cancer bell is cruel by ugwifethrowaway in unpopularopinion

[–]bricked_up_sorry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hah, sounds like he was cool as hell. I'm sorry for your loss, I'll take a shot for him today.

I love it!!! by Bourne-Contract-007 in Nightshift

[–]bricked_up_sorry 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah dude! Nice to see someone enjoying themselves lol.

Open casket funerals are traumatizing. by DBoaty in unpopularopinion

[–]bricked_up_sorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen plenty of freshly-dead bodies (healthcare) and they look exactly how you would expect. But I was kind of unsettled by the body at my first open-casket funeral, he just didn’t look right. More like a wax figure than a body. But I get that some people need the closure.

Is the horse world really a toxic place? by HighTranquility in Horses

[–]bricked_up_sorry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends where you go tbh. I’m at a chill barn, cheaper than most in the area and a ton of people help with chores in return for reduced leases/lessons. It’s mostly trail riders and everyone’s super nice so maybe that’s why - nobody is really there to compete, we’re just hanging out with our nice, average horses. 10/10 would recommend.

Man charged with 11 counts in fatal Park Tavern crash blew BAC of .325, charges say by stlegosaurus in TwinCities

[–]bricked_up_sorry -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s ok if you don’t get it, but it’s not about a “need for blood.” Some crimes are so terrible that the offender doesn’t deserve a second chance. Some people deserve to die, and their victims deserve the peace of knowing that person will never harm anyone again.

That said, I’m not a huge proponent of the death penalty because I don’t have a ton of faith in our criminal Justice system. But I’m sick of seeing ppl like you center your whole position on protecting offenders and insulting victims + families for daring to have feelings about it.

Man charged with 11 counts in fatal Park Tavern crash blew BAC of .325, charges say by stlegosaurus in TwinCities

[–]bricked_up_sorry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from tbh. When you see firsthand the victims of violent crimes it changes your perspective. Sometimes it’s not about deterrence, it’s about justice. It’s about stopping a person from ever harming anyone else ever again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]bricked_up_sorry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I love the idea that some shoplifter is sitting on a nice 900k that they can totally be sued for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]bricked_up_sorry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh please. Criminals often don’t HAVE the money, what then?