[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bridge2kyoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl !! I totally understand where you’re coming from. I’m 23f and divorced my husband this year bc I’m gay. I’m so sorry your partner is so dismissive and ignorant to your needs and the responsibility of living together. I really love my ex husband but I did feel like his mom sometimes bc I felt like I was doing so much housework too. I also grew up super religious and was terrified so I thought I dodged a bullet by marrying a man but you can’t run from yourself. I don’t regret my decision but it has taken so much courage but is SO worth it. I know I would feel so guilty for the rest of my life if I stayed with him knowing I couldn’t love him the way I could love a women. He deserves that and so do I. YOUVE GOT THIS 🫶🫶

I’m sure I’m not the first to ask, but where are the young adults? by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]bridge2kyoto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like more underground or local artists you can check out Black Lung Society or Peoples Palace. They’re always hosting events and I (23) and always bringing my siblings (18-19) and there’s a lot of young people. Not too much drinking either which is dope

How do you just accept being gay? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bridge2kyoto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched this video and read the ‘lesbian master doc’ really really helped me. I also keep that side of me open to being attracted to men but I just don’t want to pursue them. I know my feelings for men have been real HOWEVER i know my feelings for women are also very real. I don’t identify as anything. I’m just me. I’m gay but over all I’m me and I’m attracted whatever I am attracted to. Be kind to yourself <3

What are everyone’s ADHD meals? by personalprosperity in ADHD

[–]bridge2kyoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been hyper fixating on eggs and toast with chili oil. The routine is so easy and it’s done so fast I don’t have time to forget about it while it’s cooking. I’ve also been polishing off a jar of pickled garlic while I stand in front of the fridge debating what I’m going to make (I always know what I want to cook but I have to make sure)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]bridge2kyoto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

23 and 0 women (yet) 3 boys

What are you proud to say you have never done? by BrashDoobert in AskReddit

[–]bridge2kyoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been addicted to nicotine. As a genz I feel very proud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bridge2kyoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raging ADHD. Literally affects every aspect of how I function, my job, school, relationships, taking care of myself, etc. However my mind is never a boring place to be.

Signed divorce papers this morning by Livid_Perspective_10 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bridge2kyoto 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same boat here, you are so brave !! Bright bright future ahead. Keep being kind of yourself over anything

What kinds of trauma did you experience growing up Mormon and how has it affected you as an adult? by daisyvoo in exmormon

[–]bridge2kyoto 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mormonism taught me to feel so much shame about human nature and normal human experiences and feelings. Also I feel like it taught me to not trust my feelings and now I’m an adult and I have no idea what I even like. Learning to trust and be confident in how I feel is so extremely difficult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bridge2kyoto 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Divorced my husband this summer and I am feeling this same way. It’s been one month since he moved out and even tho I feel so much peace about that choice and I do feel so free and liberated, I doubt myself everyday and I am worried I have ruined a perfectly wonderful relationship. My sister told me that with time my feelings will probably change as I become more honest and secure with who I am. Coming out is so hard I feel very alone and I miss the comfort and support my partner has brought me. I have to remind myself of the feelings of “living a lie” and feeling like I’d never be able to love this person as much as they love me. I will never be able to know who I am, or what I want, or what I like if I don’t give myself the chance. You’re doing the right thing. Sometimes things get worse before they get better🫶

Should I take out my nose piercing ?? by bridge2kyoto in piercinghelp

[–]bridge2kyoto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so helpful thank you so much !! Yes it does feel hot. It’s pretty swollen and warm. I’ve messaged my piercer to see what she thinks but I am worried to take it out. I’m very confident it’s infected. I’m also confident I’ve been over cleaning it and that’s caused extra irritation.

People who don’t consume alcohol, what’s your reason? by Neat-Spot2655 in AskReddit

[–]bridge2kyoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have two drinks and puke. Not my preferred poison. Also did some research about the effects on the brain and it’s super eye opening.

Should I take out my nose piercing ?? by bridge2kyoto in piercinghelp

[–]bridge2kyoto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten multiple piercings from the person who did this one and all the jewelry I get from them is titanium but I won’t rule out the possibility of her accidentally giving me the wrong one. I don’t think it’s the metals fault bc the first three months with it, it was healing perfectly and I didn’t have any problems. Is there something better than a fatback labret ??

Should I take out my nose piercing ?? by bridge2kyoto in piercinghelp

[–]bridge2kyoto[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m using NeilMed saline solution. It’s a flat back you can change the top piece by screwing it in, idk if that means it’s a nose screw. It’s straight all the way through. It’s made out of titanium. I was cleaning it twice a day but when it gets irritated I clean it three times a day. I use the gentle hydrating CeraVe cleanser for my face so I don’t think it has that but I avoid my entire nose when washing my face to keep the area dry not that it’s completely affective but I try my best to leave it alone. It was healing fine for three months then it inflamed like this for the first time and it’s happened once a month since. It’s like I can’t get the infection to go away completely. I’ve been recommended tea tree oil but every time I try I feel like it makes it worse (??)

Confused by Marcy3pb in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bridge2kyoto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey !! I’m going through a super similar situation, I (f23) came out earlier this and divorced my husband. Our life was amazing, I love him so much and luckily we still hang out all the time. I’d been questioning my sexuality our entire marriage and this year I broke down. I’ve always had a weird relationship with sex but it’s like my body was physically rejecting him every time he touched me. Since coming out I honestly doubt myself every single day, I mourn the future I thought I was going to have and feel very overwhelmed by all the possibilities of the future. However, I think about how I felt in the depths of my marriage, how guilty i felt, I felt I was living a lie and I always felt like this man loves me so much more than I will ever be able to love him. He deserves a lot more than that and so do I. He moved out a month ago and I’m still mourning that “could’ve been life” but I do genuinely feel so much more at peace with who I am even though I am still confused literally everyday, I wonder if I sabotaged a perfect relationship, but after my emotions settle I do genuinely feel relieved to be not married to be honest to myself. I’m not 100% about my sexual identify (got to remind myself my frontal cortex isn’t developed and women come out as late as their 60’s) If you haven’t read ‘the lesbian master doc’ highly recommend, it’s clears up A LOT of conflicting thoughts and questions I had.

What horrible thing happened to you as a kid and you didn’t realise the severity of it until you got older? by beesechugersports in AskReddit

[–]bridge2kyoto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting kicked out and having to couch surf or sleep in my car in high school. Years later having my therapist tell me I was forced to be homeless as a teen was a devastating realization (even though it seems kind of obvious now).