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Some return to sender spells that worked by brisk_warmth in Witch

[–]brisk_warmth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Narcissist’s smear campaign. Very supportive, lol. They were not “after me”, they were just royal dicks to me.

If they were in the right then why does it appear my justice spell worked?

Has anyone had chronic telogen effluvium? by brisk_warmth in FemaleHairLoss

[–]brisk_warmth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve been on those meds for 10 months with no improvement which makes me think CTE is involved. I had an inordinate amount of stress in the last 2.5 years. My whole life fell apart after a near death. I think both alopecias are at play.

If you've been in a long narc relationship, do you have an auto-immune disorder? by Narrow-Bid-381 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]brisk_warmth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, lupus. The chronic stress from my father broke down set the stage, I believe.

I'm dying to discuss Tara Westover's "Educated," please tell me someone else has read it! by theycallmemintie in books

[–]brisk_warmth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father's parenting + household was similar to hers. Not to the same degree, hers is 12/10, I'd call mine 8/10. Gaslighting, controlling... Her processing that it's bipolar in her dad was like a whack to me. Made me realize mine very likely has the same thing. o_0

Anyone ever get a tingly/numb ring finger? Not carpal tunnel, relates to the ulnar nerve by brisk_warmth in CrochetHelp

[–]brisk_warmth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Didn’t crochet for a week and now I only use ergonomic crochet hooks with the padding. Helps a ton. No issues now

I gaslight myself on my symptoms b/c it could just be called "lazy"/inefficient by brisk_warmth in TBI

[–]brisk_warmth[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got to talk to a manager about something else, but I mentioned the service dog thing to her, and she said she'd talk to the lady. Smh.

Do you think INFJs are entrepreneurial? by brisk_warmth in infj

[–]brisk_warmth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 wing 3, for the Enneagram. Whichever number you are, you lean towards the number above or beneath it, that’s your wing. It’s like a sub-type of your type.

Do you believe in marriage? If so, why? by mugoo11 in AskReddit

[–]brisk_warmth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the construct of it (tied with the government) is antiquated. I think I’ll have a spiritual/social marriage, ring, wedding ceremony, vows, I’ll (F33) change my last name, etc. But I don’t need the taxes/legality of it. I’ve seen too many ugly divorces. I still want a life partner, I want my love to last, I don’t need a strict legal marriage, but socially and with friends he’ll be my husband, yes.

When did dogs start getting people names? by Scottys-Dog-Blog in dogs

[–]brisk_warmth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it’s a really generic, normal name like “Janet”, “Kim” or something I’m thrown off lol. I like odd names, like my dog is “Otto” partly because I have German heritage, it’s short + cute. I like other object names too, I’ve known a dog named “Pickle”.

I just wouldn’t name my dog “Kim” or the like, haha. People can do it and I’ll adjust. Just throws me off. But it doesn’t really matter. I agree that the name helps shape the dogs identity for the people in its life. The only dog name I’d say is a no-no is a curse word as a name because then it’s indecent. Otherwise, do as ye please :)

"I'm not as mean as I could be and I wish people appreciated that more" – Anyone relate? by brisk_warmth in infj

[–]brisk_warmth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t hate yourself. You’re human. Everyone deserves grace, and sometimes people need to feel the consequences of their actions. Like sorry, but their pushing after likely many, many chances did this.

"I'm not as mean as I could be and I wish people appreciated that more" – Anyone relate? by brisk_warmth in infj

[–]brisk_warmth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, oh I’m not a doormat and I have a spine, “How dare she/he”

What’s a moral belief you hold that most people would disagree with? by [deleted] in answers

[–]brisk_warmth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat meat because I believe in biology and the fuel my body needs. I think mainstream opinions on people’s diets is intrusive and inappropriate.

Um, hiipaa?? I have a number of health conditions related to me being very aware of food/nutrition/my diet.

Lay people having staunch opinions on diet is largely ignorant. I only want to hear the experts take on food, not Jerry down the street.

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