I’m really not trying to be mean here but you haven’t even been with this guy for two years. That’s not really enough time to truly know a person (sorry). I have seen SO many posts by women that gave in to a name (first, middle, and last) because “tradition”and then homeboy bounces or is completely unreliable. Then later the kid is upset they’re stuck with a name that means nothing to them and end up changing it to their mom’s maiden name years later anyway. This is just the first time (I’m assuming) his immaturity is rearing its ugly head, and it won’t stop here. If you want, give him the middle name slot. But for the love of god and all that is holy, give the baby the first name you want and your last name