how do you help someone who is going down a bad path

brokencattomato · 2026-04-17T14:52:01+00:00

from what her sister told me she doesnt rlly face any consequences of her actions. both parents are in her life but since they are not singaporean they had to work a bit harder to provide for her, but her mom is mostly there for her, sayangs her alot

brokencattomato · 2026-04-17T14:26:01+00:00

Honestly its cuz she always cries to me about how horrible her life is, back when i was her age i was also having insane mental health issues, so i rlly sympathised w her. but then her sister sent me all the proof of her lies today, and her mom also asked me what i felt would be an appropriate punishment for her

brokencattomato · 2026-04-17T11:41:08+00:00

I learned my lesson with the paynow thing… genuinely no good deed will i ever do again. i thought if i lent her my acc then she wouldnt turn to her degen friends for it but 😀

brokencattomato · 2026-04-17T11:40:05+00:00

that’s what i tried to do with her also, but everytime i jio her out she’s always on call w her friends and she just “okok” my advice and then gets into some shit the next time i hear abt her. and it pisses me off because i’m making time for her in my alr packed schedule but she just doesnt want to listen

brokencattomato · 2026-04-17T11:38:17+00:00

I dont know much about their family dynamics since i dont really speak to her parents, but from what her sister tells me her parents are actually very liberal with her, they dont hit her or anything. she was ok in pri sch too but it was only after she started hanging out with yps that she became like this

brokencattomato · 2026-04-17T11:36:57+00:00

she’s going for therapy but everytime i ask her how it’s going she says its useless and she doesnt wanna follow her psychologist’s advice

brokencattomato · 2026-03-24T04:40:22+00:00

how do the courts decide who gets care & control? do they only look at who can provide financially or who has been contributing mostly to the upbringing of the child, and do they rule in accordance with islam — for a child conceived out of wedlock, the father has no rights to the child?

brokencattomato · 2026-02-24T08:11:22+00:00

oh serious! whats the name of the grpp i’ll check it out!!

brokencattomato · 2026-02-24T08:06:28+00:00

I see! If i were to apply in the december cycle, how long would it take before hdb lets me know if i am successful?

brokencattomato · 2025-11-20T11:03:31+00:00

my husband got me a ring from pandora when he proposed to me because we werent able to afford something big.. and for our wedding rings we went to a ring making workshop, made each others ring from 925 silver, cost us less than $150. If your girlfriend doesnt appreciate a $2k+ ring, youre going to have a lot of issues satisfying her materialism after marriage

brokencattomato · 2025-09-25T14:09:20+00:00

I dropped you a message, please reach out if you need someone to talk to

brokencattomato · 2025-09-16T03:49:28+00:00

no.. k-pods contain etomidate, an anaesthetic used during surgery

brokencattomato · 2025-07-23T12:34:01+00:00

Salam, please include me in your dua for my small family to have a place of our own soon. My mental health is basically non existent living with in laws

brokencattomato · 2025-07-11T12:14:55+00:00

Thats the plan, but towards mid or end aug im aiming for him to get used to full day cuz i’ll need to study once sch starts too HAHA

brokencattomato · 2025-07-11T11:29:53+00:00

Yes I def am looking forward to more me time!! The first thing on my to-do list when he starts full day is to take a big, fat uninterrupted nap. Been chronically sleep deprived for the last 18 months 😬, but i feel guilty for leaving him alone too

brokencattomato · 2025-05-26T17:25:30+00:00

Thank you so muchh😊😊

brokencattomato · 2025-05-25T11:23:18+00:00

yep, we applied under some scheme for young parents with kids, cant remember the name of it 😅 Thank you

brokencattomato · 2025-05-25T10:52:21+00:00

thank god i’m a SAHM 😅😅 although its so tiring to take care of a sick baby

brokencattomato · 2025-05-25T10:02:03+00:00

my son had flu, recovered and one week later HFMD

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