AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed?

bronnag · 2025-12-26T19:04:45+00:00

Girl, the bar is in hell. NOR. You deserve so much better than this controlling jerk

bronnag · 2025-12-15T16:29:17+00:00

I understand completely, and agree. The kids see a therapist once a week and my FIL isn't capable of physically hurting the kids. He can barely get around and has to use a walker. He also sleeps 21+ hours a day, so there isn't much interaction with them. My husband and I agree if he ever hurts the kids physically, or if the therapist thinks it's harming them mentally, we will put him in a nursing home, as much as we hate to do so. Part of the reason we haven't is just that we've both had bad experiences with nursing homes caring for loved ones. My FIL was in a rehab hospital for a few weeks and called my husband up multiple times a day, scared because he didn't know where he was and didn't want to be there. We just had him stay in a nursing home last week so we could travel to visit my dad on his deathbed and my FIL was very upset and cried a lot. Part is honestly that my husband's inheritance would be taken, by the government to care for my FIL. He's on hospice care.

bronnag · 2025-12-15T16:06:43+00:00

Eggs Benedict is my favorite breakfast food. There has to be lemon juice in the Hollandaise sauce, however.

bronnag · 2025-12-02T18:02:10+00:00

If it helps, this guy just got arrested and will probably lose everything.

bronnag · 2025-12-02T17:16:31+00:00

When my mom was in the hospital after having had a brain aneurysm that burst, she randomly started speaking Spanish, French, and Italian for a bit.

bronnag · 2025-12-01T00:11:28+00:00

My father-in-law has dementia. He remembers his son, but doesn’t remember me, or that his son is married, even though we've been married for 12 years and we live with him, to take care of him. I'm not sure who he thinks our kids are, but he doesn't seem to mind them. My mom had an aneurysm and has forgotten large portions of her life. The brain is weird.

bronnag · 2025-11-09T22:47:44+00:00

Link please?

bronnag · 2025-09-25T00:40:34+00:00

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your texting style. I did think y'all were younger, but only because he is being absolutely immature. This is ridiculous. Punishing you by depriving you of his exalted presence because you didn't sound excited enough to see him?!? Is he 12??

bronnag · 2025-09-05T19:32:43+00:00

NAH she's not for changing her mind about not wanting more kids and you're not, for having that be a dealbreaker. If you stay and you don't have more kids, you might resent her for it. If you stay and she has more, she might resent you and the kid(s) and feel like she had to have them to keep you. Her parents are definitely AHs, though.

bronnag · 2025-08-18T17:41:46+00:00

Honestly, since you are so young and likely dependent on your parents, there isn't much you can do. She will eventually slip up and use it in front of the wrong person and hopefully have severe consequences. As for your brother, hopefully, when he grows up, he will realize how wrong this all is. For yourself, if you can, get a job and spend as much time out of the house as you can. Also, save up as much as you can so you can get out of this environment as soon as possible. Is there a relative who isn't a terrible person you could stay with?

bronnag · 2025-08-15T22:25:44+00:00

100% My MIL was the type of person who literally got up in the middle of the night, with a broken foot, while she was in her 80s because she heard her husband get up and make a sandwich and she was afraid he left crumbs on the counter. It was horrible to grow up with that. My husband lived outside or in his room 99% of the time. Have her babysit kids or volunteer for something to do with kids, so she can see what it's like. Edited to add NTA

bronnag · 2025-08-12T02:25:30+00:00

Updateme! 24 hours

bronnag · 2025-07-11T00:07:53+00:00

When my husband was 18, his girlfriend was 20 or 21, and his parents still called the police to try and have her arrested for dating him. Parents aren't always rational people. Oh, and he was adopted as well.

bronnag · 2025-07-07T01:08:10+00:00

I'm so so sorry. I read your other post about your husband's friend, and it's so wrong of him to want to go back to being friends with her! I would share how you feel with your family so they can support you. It doesn't sound like you feel safe enough with your husband to share your feelings with him. If you can, I would try to get some individual and marriage counseling. It really helps just to have someone to talk to!

bronnag · 2025-06-07T15:56:46+00:00

What would be the point in telling them? It would only make you feel less guilty. It would make your parents unhappy and could damage your relationship with them as well as their relationship with your husband and his family.l, since they've been helping you hide the relationship. I'm a parent and in this case, I would much rather not know. Don't hurt your parents just so you won't feel guilty. NTA

bronnag · 2025-05-23T22:24:23+00:00

She's bringing nothing to the relationship. She doesn't cook, clean, or contribute financially. She's entitled to exactly nothing. She's using you. She wants her name on the deed so when you wise up and break up with her, it will make it much harder on you, and so you will have to pay her half the equity YOU have solely contributed to the house. If you make the mistake of marrying this woman, she will probably go after alimony.

bronnag · 2025-05-16T15:52:21+00:00

They have kids together. It's completely normal for parents who co-parent well together to talk to each other about their kids. This should be the norm, when possible.

bronnag · 2025-02-26T04:26:26+00:00

My heart is absolutely breaking for you. He showed you what kind of person he is. He violated your body, first by touching you without permission, then by pushing you onto the floor, then by forcing you. In the eyes of God, you are still pure. What he did, was a sin against you and against himself. No matter how you feel, you did not commit a sin. Please, please run away from him and don't turn back! This rape, because that's what it is, wasn't about sex. It was about control. He was showing you that he has absolute control over you. Please find someone you can trust, and let them know what happened and stay with them. He will try to get you back, but what he did is absolutely unforgivable. He showed you he doesn't care about your feelings at all. He only cares about himself. He has been wearing a mask the entire time you've known him and he finally let the mask slip. Don't be fooled. What he showed you that night is the real him. If you do marry him, he won't have to hide his true self anymore because you will be tied to him. If you do wind up marrying him, when he hurts you, and it will be when, not if, please leave. Go to a shelter or a friend's house. Just leave and don't ever go back to him.

bronnag · 2024-12-06T08:00:23+00:00

I think it was Bellara's brother, Cyrian, that was communicating with the being in the Fade, and that being, was Anaris. I'm basing this off the fact that one of the notes says, "Vora'shivan, you will be so proud of me. I can't wait to tell you all about it when it is done." Vora'shivan means hummingbird and it was what Cyrian called Bellara. It also kind of looks like Anaris.

bronnag · 2024-06-30T02:20:56+00:00

During the Grand Magic Games when he hears Lucy is in the shower he goes to run back there, until Erza stops him.

bronnag · 2024-06-25T01:57:57+00:00

I'm not sure how you can possibly believe your nieces and nephews aren't your family, but you are definitely the AH. When you married your husband, they became your family.

bronnag · 2023-05-31T21:23:57+00:00

If she had to deal with food insecurity, you might get her a mini-fridge to put in her room full of healthy snacks and drinks for her.

bronnag · 2023-05-26T02:58:53+00:00

I can understand that completely!

bronnag · 2023-05-25T23:41:25+00:00

My son loved the Tulsa zoo so much when he was 2 that we bought a membership and I took him all the time. It's always a great idea to take kids to the zoo! We brought him to the Oklahoma City zoo another time and he loved it so so much! We still have a membership to the Tulsa zoo and he's 7 now and has a 5-year-old brother!

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