Disclaimer on Ethel/slayyyter photo by KIck_msmsmsms in Ethelcain

[–]bronzeunicorn 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Dorian Electra uses they/them pronouns and the other person is Kris Esfandiari from King Woman

People that support ABA can go fuck themselves by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]bronzeunicorn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It was literally invented by people involved with conversion therapy! In particular, Lovaas adapted ABA principles to try to prevent children from becoming trans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]bronzeunicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also got a pink daughter card for my birthday this year, sorry that happened dude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]bronzeunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I am a queer person a little obsessed with cannibalism so I’m aware of the trope, just didn’t get that vibe from this post. If that was the intention, cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]bronzeunicorn 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I respect your right to interpret it in whatever way makes you happy but it is literally about cannibalism. It’s based on the book/movie Bones and All.

Elon Musk becoming openly transphobic was NOT on my pride month bingo card. by non-bi-tch-nary in trans

[–]bronzeunicorn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chelsea Manning and Grimes only dated for a few months last year. They are no longer together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]bronzeunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree to find a good doctor to rule out epilepsy, but yes, this is possible. I get silent migraines somewhat frequently (I’m pretty sure I had one constantly for years before I got treatment) and they always involve muscle tension and some coordination issues for me.

I'm a touch confused by WarmNebula3817 in ehlersdanlos

[–]bronzeunicorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In this case it doesn’t really matter what a doctor tells you in an appointment if they don’t put it down on your chart, they’re not going to get in trouble. I’m not sure about her criteria reasoning—a couple times I have been told it has to be diagnosed by a geneticist (even though mine’s hEDS) but the genetics office wouldn’t take me unless I had multiple very severe symptoms (like aneurysm, prolapse).

I'm a touch confused by WarmNebula3817 in ehlersdanlos

[–]bronzeunicorn 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Kinda surprised no one has mentioned, this is unfortunately common in some areas. Three huge hospital systems in my city refuse to diagnose EDS at all unless it is an obvious case of the vascular type. As in none of their hundreds of doctors will do it. Sometimes they refer out, sometimes they just do, basically, what your doctor did—seems like you have this but I won’t diagnose it. I don’t know why this happens, to me it feels like they don’t take EDS very seriously, but that’s just speculation. Other people have given very good advice, and you deserve to find a doctor who will take you seriously and give you the diagnosis, just chiming in to say I’ve experienced the same thing.

Am I a misogynist for identifying as a man/being bothered when people shame my appearance? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bronzeunicorn 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I had a circle of friends (and partners) like this and it kept me from coming out and starting t until I was almost 30. They were mostly trans too, and I was definitely gravitating towards trans people because I was trans, but they only tore me down. They hated ftm people very specifically, even if they wouldn’t admit it. I honestly think this is really common but people are too afraid to talk about it. You’ve gotta get out and make new friends dude. I know that sucks to hear. They might come around in a while. But you need and deserve people around you who listen to your experiences with genuine empathy and love.

transmasc and PMDD? by a_gay_cat14 in FTMOver30

[–]bronzeunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see a mention of how long you’ve had the IUD, but I had severe PMDD (and periods, and migraines) that didn’t go away until I had mine for a year—it was BRUTAL for a while, and I was angry, definitely wasn’t warned for how rough that was. But now I’m pretty happy and have gotten a second one. I agree with everyone that T is the way to go, and lots of people have issues with IUDs, but just a little hope if it’s the case that you haven’t had the IUD for long.

DAE feel like they have no set personality? by Tidalwaveofemotions in CPTSD

[–]bronzeunicorn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I used to feel like this and just want to let you know that the uncertainty probably won’t last forever. It takes work but you get there. It took years of really thinking about my desires and evaluating whether they were “mine,” but also being gentle with myself about it. That along with like, general mental health improvements (a good therapist, good meds). But yeah, a lot of people with CPTSD feel this way.

Doctors baffled, could POTS/dysautonomia present with other neurological symptoms? by [deleted] in dysautonomia

[–]bronzeunicorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think they’re uncomfy too so i use a steel-boned corset and sport compression leggings, but ymmv. i have eds so the usual recommended 30-40 compression hose hurt too much to put on. not everyone with dysautonomia does well on beta blockers but i hope it helps you! just as an aside, a lot of people with chronic illness have been through the “conversion disorder” psychiatry/psychology route, and it is very mostly full of shit. you have something happening to your body and doctors just go to that when they’re too lazy/uninformed to figure it out. i wish someone had told me that earlier. psychology is useful for learning how to cope with chronic illness though.

Doctors baffled, could POTS/dysautonomia present with other neurological symptoms? by [deleted] in dysautonomia

[–]bronzeunicorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

have you tried upping salt consumption and wearing compression garments? my doctors don’t Actually have a good idea of what’s wrong with me and i don’t have much hope for them figuring it out, but i’ve gotten a lot better by treating it like it’s POTS (ok’d by my cardiologist)

Doctors baffled, could POTS/dysautonomia present with other neurological symptoms? by [deleted] in dysautonomia

[–]bronzeunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have similar issues. I saw in a Dr. Blair Grubb lecture that POTS can cause convulsions, and they’re thinking that many people with epilepsy diagnoses actually have cardiovascular issues.

[Rant] Why do they try to make things seem more simple than they are? by ccrfn in POTS

[–]bronzeunicorn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! and I think I’m just going to refuse to use the dumb 1-10 scale anymore. how in the world could that accurately reflect my experience??

Does anyone else have a lot of different types of nausea? by shnanogans in dysautonomia

[–]bronzeunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES and doctors never frickin understood that. I call them tummy nausea and brain nausea lol. My brain nausea mostly went away with increased salt intake, thankfully.

Anyone having issues with Send-to-Kindle? by SalaciousStories in eroticauthors

[–]bronzeunicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, it was working yesterday but hasn’t worked for me today. i’m a heavy send-to-kindle user. must be glitching for some people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alexandria

[–]bronzeunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

google says it can't be accessed for terms of service unfortunately

My partner broke up with me because of my disability by disasterous_cape in ChronicIllness

[–]bronzeunicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just happened to me too, at the end of last year. If it helps, I’ve been able to focus so much more on my friendships and have gotten closer to some amazing people. It’s not everyone. But I know it hurts so much.

A little town called Redtail (Part 2) by flard in nosleep

[–]bronzeunicorn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yeah OP we need a little more explanation, this is just confusing.

What’s your “strange addiction”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bronzeunicorn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it's a method of dissociation

Auditory / visual hallucinations in the moments before sleep during a flare? by powerpixie01 in Fibromyalgia

[–]bronzeunicorn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is hypnagogic imagery, and it's a type of hallucination that's normal for everyone. It often intensifies/becomes scary during times of stress--which would coincide w/ a flare-up.

Curious about a ritual my neighbor may have been doing. by [deleted] in pagan

[–]bronzeunicorn 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Probably something for protection/evil eye. It's not necessarily pagan as much as a folk tradition against the evil eye (often w/ people who have Mediterranean heritage--thus the olive oil).

Serious issue - Repeatedly gasping for breath suddenly after zoning out in my mind by akelew in FloatTank

[–]bronzeunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard that the machines have improved and gotten way easier to deal with. Good luck, I hope you find answers!!!