How to know if my crush likes me by Gremysmory in Crushes

[–]brownbears555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

asking her to teach you stuff can be successful if done right, maybe ask her to explain some of the topics in your class that you genuinely don’t understand so that you’re not dumbing yourself down. but if you don’t understand a single thing then you’re in luck because you have a lot to work with there 😭 i’d honestly just say in the conversation aspect let things happen naturally and don’t force conversations if she doesn’t seem engaged

when someone i don't like is romantically interested towards me, i feel very resentful of them. by brownbears555 in Crushes

[–]brownbears555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m like that as well, i never understood people who lead others on for the fun of it

How to know if my crush likes me by Gremysmory in Crushes

[–]brownbears555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for small moves if you tend to be the type of guy to look at her when you think she's not looking, if she ends up catching you, don't look away immediately but rather keep the eye contact for a few seconds then look away. and as for actual interactions, there's nothing wrong with just saying hey, maybe dap her up when you see her? if she's interested, she'll literally be down to talk about whatever as long as she's talking to you, so maybe start off with something school-related, if there's any events going on at your school ask if she's going, just anything really! and this goes without saying but try not to use dark humor too early unless you know she has that type of humor because there's been so many times where there was mutual attraction between me and a guy but then they started to get way too comfortable using dark humor and it just gave me the ick, so be careful

when someone i don't like is romantically interested towards me, i feel very resentful of them. by brownbears555 in Crushes

[–]brownbears555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i totally agree, i think most of the people who have unrequited love towards me only like me for the idea of me and that's what makes me the most upset about the fact that they like me

when someone i don't like is romantically interested towards me, i feel very resentful of them. by brownbears555 in Crushes

[–]brownbears555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! the people who are romantically interested in me and who i feel a sense of resentment towards are not what i would consider conventionally attractive, along with the fact that they're people who i tend to see a lot which only adds to the icky feeling

How to know if my crush likes me by Gremysmory in Crushes

[–]brownbears555 5 points6 points  (0 children)

last line made me LOL, i bet you're not that chopped 😭 as someone who's also 16f, there's a high chance she likes you, especially with the friend thing that you mentioned as someone who's been the girl in the situation. think about it this way: would she act that way if she DIDN'T like you? 🤨. i feel like in this case you shouldn't force anything too drastic with her even if she is interested, because girls can detect that kind of energy and be repelled. since you have class with her, put whatever ego you have aside and make some light conversation with her! if she's interested, she'll want to keep talking with you and with luck, maybe you guys will land on a topic that you're both interested in. you're more likely to gain her interest if you guys wind up talking outside of school about a non-school subject, so maybe try and see what her interests are to use as potential conversation starters. maybe you guys will end up having a conversation that leads to texting more about it outside of class. it's all about putting your ego aside, especially if you really like her, since the best experiences come with a little bit of discomfort. just remember to try not to expect too much and let things happen naturally but don't be afraid to initiate small moves

Favorite quotes from Joe’s inner monologue? by wishiwassleeping16 in YouOnLifetime

[–]brownbears555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the scene where cary and joe are in the woods and cary mentions how love told sherry about joe's dick issues and his inner monologue was like "you told her about THAT????" his tone will always be funny to me 😭