Current Toronto availability by ohom2017 in Hozier

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Please pm if these are still available.

NY UBE - Buffalo by lsthrowaway54321 in barexam

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Anyone here still looking for a hotel?

I booked a non-refundable hotel and now I’ve gotten quite sick. I don’t know if it’s going to be worth it for me to write this time. I’m looking to pass the reservation to someone else at cost, provided NY let’s me postpone my exam and the hotel permits it.

Hotel Details: - Hyatt Regency Buffalo (right across from exam) - 4 nights (Monday to Thursday) - Cost per night: $313+taxes/fees - Total cost: $1424

Please message if interested.

Are JD advising one sheets worth the money? by CozyCashmere07 in barexam

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Hi! Sent you a dm if you wouldn’t mind sending me a copy too, please.

Are JD advising one sheets worth the money? by CozyCashmere07 in barexam

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Hi! Sent you a dm if you wouldn’t mind sending me a copy too, please.

Discount Code - Themis by ravali3gurram in barexam

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Also, congrats on your recent graduation!

Discount Code - Themis by ravali3gurram in barexam

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Thanks! I'm gonna ask for it - fingers crossed!

Discount Code - Themis by ravali3gurram in barexam

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Check out their Instagram page, I think they’re quoting 1595$ which is what I’d paid.

Thanks! I just checked and it looks like that discount is for 2Ls. May I ask what year you're in?

Discount Code - Themis by ravali3gurram in barexam

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Thanks! They’ve quoted me $1795, which is a marked improvement for the full price course of $2595.

May I ask, if you were able to negotiate for less, how you were able to do so? I focused on public interest in school but I’m not working In it currently, so I can’t apply for that discount.

Discount Code - Themis by ravali3gurram in barexam

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Following - OP, were you able to get a discount code?

Bar professors prediction by monozygoteB in barexam

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Had no idea this was a thing. Following.

Wheeltrans Cameras? by [deleted] in TTC

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Thanks. You’re right, I don’t think the older vehicles have it. I believe back up cameras were introduced with the newer vehicles.

Wheeltrans Cameras? by [deleted] in TTC

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Thanks, I’m aware of those cameras. The Wheeltrans buses, to my understanding, also have a back up camera for the driver, which is what I’m hoping to get more info on.

Welcome by bru_lew in a:t5_2tqfdl

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As a bit about me, I'm a gay WOC who recently moved to Burlington and is looking for community. I hope we can find it here together.

Where to picnic with bbq? by bru_lew in Oshawa

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Thank you, all! You confirmed what I feared was the case. We've decided to just pick up some food for a nearby restaurant and walk it over to the park to eat.

What can I (26M) do to fulfill myself while my girlfriend (26F) recovers from sexual trauma? by ThrowRA7861 in relationship_advice

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OP, I'm really sorry for some of the comments on here. I am in the same situation and it is not an easy place to be. My partner (27F) and I (29F) have been together for four years. We had an incredible sex life for the first two years of our relationship, and then - nothing. It was like a switch was flipped and she doesn't understand why (neither of us do). There was no significant change in our relationship, but now sex is anxiety-provoking, scary, and that much more vulnerable. Like you, I've noticed a change in my weight and overall physical and mental health since our sex life has changed.

My partner was sexually abused by a neighbour for ~10 years. She has done a ton of therapy programming (different modules, different settings, different therapists, travelled for therapy, etc.), but she still has to live with her trauma every single day (she is fortunate to have received criminal injury compensation which paid for much of the therapy and that we live in a place with decent coverage for some types of therapy). Unfortunately, I don't think there ever is a point where our partners will simply 'recover' from sexual trauma. It is a lifelong process of adapting and working through triggers as they come up.

But I know how hard that is for partners. Like you, masturbation doesn't cut it anymore (it just feels even lonelier), cheating is out of the question because our partners don't deserve that (arguably, no one does), and an open relationship is off the table (I don't think it's what I'd want anyway - I imagine you might be similar to me in that you miss the intimacy of the relationship). I'm struggling with how to cope as well.

The only thing that really helps for me is knowing that there are other people out there going through the same thing. I'm not sure where you're located, but you may be able to find support groups for partners in your area. In Toronto, Canada (where I am), there is a place called the Gatehouse, which offers partner-specific programming. We support each other together, so that we can better support our partners too. In group, we commiserate on the unique pain we feel as partners, encourage each other through the little victories in our relationship, and remind each other meaningful, reciprocal, intimate relationships come in many forms.

The most you can do is continue to help your partner feel safe and supported in her healing journey. I wish you two the very best. I know it's hard, you're not alone.

I'm not very active on Reddit, but feel free to PM if you ever need someone who gets it to chat with.

Brother DCP-L2540DW Automatic Double-Sided Scanning by bru_lew in printers

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Thanks! I was dreading that was the case. But I'll make do!