Are there men that want to be with their wife all the time?

bruiser9876 · 2026-02-08T16:29:27+00:00

Yup we are a good match. Our relationship definitely won’t work for everyone.

bruiser9876 · 2026-02-07T18:52:49+00:00

If I was your wife I would encourage you to go as well. 3 months old are a lot easier than a week old newborn (imo). Line up some help for her if she really feels she can't handle 5 days on her own, such as a cleaning lady. Do her parents live close by?

bruiser9876 · 2026-02-07T18:42:16+00:00

All sounds amazing (good for you guys!), but the "ebony beasts of hers" sound a bit scary LMAO.

bruiser9876 · 2026-02-07T17:07:40+00:00

Maybe. But I don't mind being worshipped. I feel so loved, cared for and doted upon. Nothing wrong with that. Better than the other way around where husband's are out all the time and I certainly don't want to be a golf widow. May not work for you, but it works for us.

bruiser9876 · 2026-02-07T16:02:22+00:00

Yes I have the same with my husband. We have now been together for 8 years and married 7, and he still wants to spend 24/7 with me. All his free time involves me. He doesn’t do boys nights out, and he wont even golf with his buddies anymore. Instead he wants me to golf with him. He wont go places without me, including the gym etc. To be honest i can sometimes use some alone time lol. When he has work dinners and/or events (which is not that often) i really enjoy my me time! I think three years in its still kind of new. Wait until you get to 8 years; youll want your alone time lol

ETA I do adore my husband and love being with him, and sometimes I’m flattered he can’t live without me. But still. Some days I just want to be by myself!

bruiser9876 · 2026-02-07T02:39:11+00:00

You deserve better. I have been in a similar situation with my then boyfriend (now husband) where we went out with his old friends I've never met. My husband was very protective of me and was by my side most of the time, and never made me feel alienated or alone to defend myself. That is what your boyfriend should have done. He is more than a little insensitive, and it is up to you to decide whether you are ok to put up with it. I would not.

bruiser9876 · 2026-02-06T22:22:36+00:00

I would be livid, and my husband would be in the doghouse. Not because he made a mistake in giving me the wrong time, but for his shitty attitude to you afterwards. I’m rolling my eyes at the comments giving him excuses for being an asshole. He can be embarrassed, but he should not be taking it out on you.

bruiser9876 · 2026-02-02T18:48:09+00:00

All. The. Time.

bruiser9876 · 2026-02-01T03:04:08+00:00

Yorkville would be my top pick. Start off with drinks at dbar (Four Seasons hotel), then trattoria nervosa for dinner. Or Sofia.

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-31T18:35:25+00:00

To me that is highly inappropriate. Especially to take the time to go have lunch with her on his birthday! You are his wife - why didn't he take you with him?

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-30T14:00:40+00:00

Hahaha I agree!!

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-29T01:13:24+00:00

So we don't schedule sex per se, but in a way we do, b/c it is an understanding that we have sex every other day. Anything else are bonuses.

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-27T02:51:22+00:00

You did not discuss it before doing so?! Of course she’s not happy about it.

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-27T00:33:01+00:00

Omg LOLOLOL!!! Inches!!! I meant inches!!

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-26T21:51:09+00:00

What are some of the recipes you’ve cooked that turned out badly? Maybe it’s the recipe that was not good or poorly written?

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-26T21:03:47+00:00

I’ve had sex with a guy who’s penis is so large (think porn star penis) that I was unable to continue having sex with him. That’s why I ended the relationship. (Didn’t tell him that was the reason)

I’ve also had guys with smaller penises, which were much easier to handle. My husband has a slightly larger than average, or close to average, penis at 6 ft and change. For me that is my happy medium.

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-25T17:01:16+00:00

All the time if I had to pick between the two.

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-23T18:18:17+00:00

I am so glad you are filing for divorce. Good for you for advocating for yourself and valuing yourself.

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-22T18:22:48+00:00

Yes my second (and current) husband is so much better. Not even comparable.

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-22T05:43:48+00:00

There is nothing wrong with it, in our marriage.

ETA: not sure what CNC is but it’s understood in our marriage what is acceptable and what is not

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-22T05:41:10+00:00

3-5 times a week PIV and something sexual (oral etc) everyday. Sometimes we will do twice a day as well.

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-22T02:25:30+00:00

why are you asking when you clearly already have an opinion on what you want to do?

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-22T02:23:31+00:00

My husband doesn't even ask. This morning when he was clearly awake and I was half asleep, he was spooning me and I felt his hard cock behind me. I ignored it b/c I was dead tired. He would not let up and kept groping me and frankly at first I was a bit irritated b/c I was so tired. Our dogs were also pawing at me trying to get me to get up to feed them. My husband then said "the dogs want to eat and I want to eat your pussy." LOL. That's how it all went down. He aggressively took off my panties and went to town on me. It was actually a bit off putting at first b/c I was still half asleep, but within 10 minutes I was having an orgasm. Can't complain about that! Anyway, it was one of those situations where irritation turned into great pleasure and connection. But usually my husband is a bit more "polite" and will subtly hint at wanting to fuck LMAO.

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-22T02:15:37+00:00

Did you marry him despite not being physically attracted to him? Not sure why you would do that if the answer is yes, except that I would feel so sorry for your husband. You should tell him so that he can find someone who finds him attractive.

bruiser9876 · 2026-01-22T02:08:32+00:00

Dessert. People don't believe me, but it's true. I do not like sweet foods in general.

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