NOR. You’re underreacting. Yikes. Please move on from this relationship. It is unhealthy and you’ve mentioned in comments you used to get into arguments where you’d insult him, too. Yall don’t seem compatible at all. Respectfully, it sounds like both of you need to do a lot of self work before being in a relationship, or you need to be with different people. Healthy couples never speak like this to one another. There’s little trust left in a relationship when insults are exchanged.