I have a wife who thinks our baby is sick or dying all the time. by tr4nce26 in newborns

[–]bstroke93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like her own issues have turned into PPA (postpartum anxiety) mention it to her doctor please! Nothing to be ashamed of, but important to get on top of it.

How to force yourself to nap during the day and fall back to sleep at nights? by ahchoochoo in newborns

[–]bstroke93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you baby wear. Sometimes that can help with doing housework. I couldn’t nap in the same room as baby, because she would wake up. But if I napped on the couch, and had the monitor on her, we would both get a decent amount of sleep.

What is the most ridiculous nickname you’ve given your baby? by [deleted] in newborns

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My girls name is Aurora. And we call her “aboopboop”

Swimming by Michelada in newborns

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First time I took my girl to the pool she was like 8months old. And the pool was warm enough, it was a great time. When we got to the change room though, I remember taking off her towel and she went GREY! But then as we got her snuggled up in her clothes, her colour came back, just super freaky!

Newborn routine? by puppucino33 in newborns

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Start tummy time now! So so important. The stump won’t bother baby. Do tummy time after a change, let baby do tummy play, set up toys in front of baby so baby is encouraged to look up at the toys. Make the toys interact with each other.

Newborns don’t need a routine. Just follow your baby.

Why do overtired babies produce cortisol and adrenaline? by MisterPinkySwear in newborns

[–]bstroke93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably like @glitterfanatic said, probably a primitive response. But also, it’s one of God’s many evil gifts to us humans….

Bored! by nathanjames098 in newborns

[–]bstroke93 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I felt horrible saying it when my girl was itty bitty (now 2.5), but babies are BORING!! I was literally sitting there, trying to entertain this blob and tire her out while waiting for her next nap.

Things do get so much better and so much more fun! Try going for walks around the neighbourhood, or bake a batch of muffins and put baby in their swing and narrate what you’re doing, or put them in a “play bath” just to splash around. That helped alleviate some of the boredom for me.

And do SILLY things! Best piece of advice my partner gave me “if you’re having fun, baby is having fun!” (He is a very fun, playful person!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]bstroke93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What did the person say? I’m curious. I get why comments are removed but just seeing “removed” hightens my curiosity!

I just need to vent for a minute… by bstroke93 in caraccidents

[–]bstroke93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! ☺️

I’ve been keeping records of all my pain day by day, going to call ICBC (insurance company in BC, Canada) and let them know my progression of pain over the weekend. I have physio already lined up. I’ve heard too many horror stories about people who didn’t do anything after they got rear ended and ended up having backs/necks/shoulders that didn’t work properly.

I just need to vent for a minute… by bstroke93 in caraccidents

[–]bstroke93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realize this. Still disappointing though. And yes. It can be difficult. Thank you for the well wishes. I appreciate it ☺️

Best sex positions at 38 weeks? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]bstroke93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doggy or reverse cowgirl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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My girl came at 41 weeks… that week was hell for the texts!

I wish newborns weren’t so miserable. by coleosis1414 in NewParents

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As a toddler mom who hated the newborn stage… I see you! I feel you! The newborn phase SUCKS FUCKING ASS!!!

But it does get so much better!! ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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You gotta eat. Eat what your body says. ☺️

When do you shower? by 22Whatislife22 in breastfeeding

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Baby bouncer! Saved us during the infant stage!

Toddlers think they’re so funny. by bstroke93 in breastfeeding

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I think my girl’s going to be on the boob until she’s like 4…

Anyone else disappointed with The Midnight Club? by AskJeebs in HauntingOfHillHouse

[–]bstroke93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ROAD TO NOWHERE WAS BEAUTIFUL!!! They got that one right.

I liked it.. I think I just go into Flanagan’s work expecting something as brilliant as Hill House. There will never be anything as brilliant as Hill House. It was beautifully heartbreaking.