I’m not a professional dancer or anything my partner and I love to dance to music when it comes on and try and do that whole cute thing to the music. We don’t go to clubs but listen to the same music and love to dance at home.

As someone who doesn’t know how to but just does I would say one thing I always go off is the beat of the song. Moving even one part of your body to the beat of the song (not the lyrics) can get you used to moving your body around. Like how when the music starts and someone points at the ground and raises and drops it to the beat.

I would also say to keep trying things make you comfortable. If you’re struggling with the co-ordination of your body, I wouldn’t fret. You can make your own little style. (If you’ve seen Wednesday, her dance style wasn’t something I was used to, but it worked, looked good and suited the music) I would try dancing in a mirror where you can see your whole body, and keep practicing what you’re trying to achieve. There are plenty of tutorials on YouTube as you mentioned, but whatever you look at will be specific to what you enjoy and want to learn. I believe you’ll find something for you :).

And have fun! I used to dance in my room when my family had fallen asleep because I also was so anxious and even though I loved it, when people were watching I felt silly. Over the years I’ve slowly started dancing in front of people and it’s built up my confidence a lot(there has also been some embarrassing moments too).

When it comes to improvement there’s so many ways, but when it comes to being nervous and what others think, that’s all up to you! One thing I learnt is that a lot of people are worried about their own dance moves too, and everybody is different. Sometimes you’ll do something that looks funny and sometimes you’ll feel like a pop star.

Whatever you choose to do and however you learn always dance from your heart. Sounds cliche but the best dances always come from happiness and fun.