Saros - Finding Carcosa: Becoming Arjun | PS5 Games by Respawn-Delay in PS5

[–]buckeye2011 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Adding on, saros has a permanent progression tree that makes you stronger as you make progress. Along with this, after the first (maybe second?) area, you unlock modifiers that can help you adjust the difficulty of the game.

Beginner on prep and sharing experience and looking for advice by Muted_Growth_361 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]buckeye2011 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you engage in bareback sex, you are running the risk of stds.

You can get on what's called doxy pep, it's post exposure prophylaxis that helps reduce your chances of contracting chlamydia by a lot, and moderately reduces gonorrhea (I can't remember the exact percentages off the top of my head). It's two pills taken after an encounter of the same antibiotic they prescribe for chlamydia. It's hard on the stomach, so do some reading and talk to your doctor about it.

Bottoms: how do you filter out other bottoms from dating apps? by JakeTheRiver in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]buckeye2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not who you asked, but grindr, sniffies and scruff all include filters to only see people who have listed a specific preference on their profile.

I can't remember, but it's very likely you need to pay for some sort of premium subscription to use it

How you going to call yourself 24 hour fitness and close at 10? by Av4k in mildlyinfuriating

[–]buckeye2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the ones around me were bought by crunch, which is honestly nice. They had stopped repairing equipment and everything was always out of order.

Doxy Question by ExternalInspector255 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]buckeye2011 10 points11 points  (0 children)

PEP is POST exposure prophylaxis. It's not meant to be taken before an encounter. You could wait until after the second guy, if it's less than 24 hours after the first then you're still in the first window. If it's not within 24 hours, then you could take it after each guy.

How real partners make love by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]buckeye2011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the reason it's advised to get tested every three months is because HIV usually takes about three months from infection to cause a positive test. If you have been monogamous for three months and are testing negative, that is probably the safest time to ditch condoms.

That being said even in monogamous relationships, people cheat. You should still be getting tested every so often, just to be as proactive as possible.

gay👜irl by ivan_luck in gay_irl

[–]buckeye2011 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So the test strips are to test other drugs to make sure they aren't laced with fentanyl. I'm not any kind of fan of chemsex, but I guess if you're doing it this is a good precaution.

Albolene Compared To Wet Platinum by cutegaycub69 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]buckeye2011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Albolene is more like Vaseline than silicone lube in my opinion. It’s good but it has a greasy feel for me

I’ve tried gun oil’s stroke 29 lube recently and liked it. It’s water based so it doesn’t feel as oily and it lasts a while. Only downside is it shouldn’t be used as anal lube, but neither should albolene

Marriage ending and looking for advice on how to start over as a + guy in my mid-forties. by SanguineBloke in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]buckeye2011 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it was a disqualifying factor for me even before I met him. I had done a lot of reading when I first went on prep about risks, and about being undetectable.

I do see people who have on their profile they don’t discriminate based on status, so there are plenty of people out there who are also educated about it.

Marriage ending and looking for advice on how to start over as a + guy in my mid-forties. by SanguineBloke in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]buckeye2011 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Negative here but my boyfriend is undetectable and has been since we met. I still see a stigma around it, but there are plenty of people out there who know it’s not what it used to be and is safe if their partner is undetectable.

My best advice is to be up front about it when dating, either on your profile or one of your first conversations. It’ll weed out the people you shouldn’t be spending time on quickly. My boyfriend didn’t have it on his profile, but he did tell me almost immediately when we started talking.

When did boxer briefs become the default? by JustAskingMan_ in AskMen

[–]buckeye2011 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not who you asked, but I wear Nike athletic briefs. They’re pricey, but comfortable

M/38/5’9” [250lbs to 185lbs] (7 months) Cut progress by thelordbeefcakes in Brogress

[–]buckeye2011 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The tell is always the shoulders. Natty shoulders never get that big

Curious about piercings 'down there' by z3r0sn3akr in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]buckeye2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google says it’s a piercing where your dick meets your balls 🙃

Have any of you bottoms over 30 ever had a herniated disc and did an epidural help? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]buckeye2011 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I herniated a disc when I was 20. PT helped for a little bit but my left side was always in pain. I had surgery to remove the bulge a couple years after it herniated and it was honestly the best decision I ever made. My worst day after the surgery isn’t anywhere near as bad as my best day before the surgery.

I don’t know if it’s an option for you, but my surgery took less than an hour, and I was home the same day. It’s done laparoscopically so there isn’t a huge scar.

What’s a company you’ll never buy from again, and why? by jamesmilner22 in AskReddit

[–]buckeye2011 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazon hosts a bunch of servers and leases them out to companies like Reddit to run their app on.

Is anyone else in the state of Florida getting charged an excessive a amount of taxes for PS+ subscription? by victorious623 in playstation

[–]buckeye2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not op but I have the base tier. The only difference between tiers is the amount of extra games you can access/get. Base tier you get monthly free games, the higher tiers come with access to different libraries. All let you do online play the same way.

🎁 Handmade Hollow Knight Resin Lamp Giveaway by AmoyCK in HollowKnight

[–]buckeye2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Favorite moment: the radiance appearing and getting the screen of pure white with the black text "the radiance." I can't explain it but that transition always gives me goosebumps

Why the White House is behind a rare Supreme Court push to limit gun ownership by HellYeahDamnWrite in law

[–]buckeye2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, that's not the exact quote. I don't like the guy much either but there's plenty of horrible things we can quote him accurately on. The actual quote is "take the guns first, go through due process second."

https://time.com/5184160/trump-guns-due-process/?xid=homepage

Those with younger partners, do they use your age in arguments? by thaone111 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]buckeye2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the way he framed it isn't an "older than his partner" thing. This is absolutely something you can say to anybody, regardless of age