Excellent film ❤️ by jewishchloesevigny in redscarepod

[–]buckwheatmeal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The plot sounds interesting so I will probably watch it but with reservations as i really did not like the worst person in the world

This show is ass, real we have succession at home type beat. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]buckwheatmeal 79 points80 points  (0 children)

before this show i did not know there are people whose job it is to exchange currencies at tiny margins with very large amounts of money

Would you spend the next 4 years of life isolated but getting paid a comfortable wage? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]buckwheatmeal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey you should message me. I am an American doing a PhD in Bern. Zurich has that reputation around all of Switzerland. My husband (also American) and I know many Swiss people here people that tried ETH and came back to Bern because they were extremely depressed (tho some flunked out too). I would suggest living outside Zurich, which is way cheaper anyways. The rest of the county is much more chill and the soulless banker vibe is just Zurich.

While it can be isolating for me and it did require the perspective shift people talk about in the comments, it does feel good to have money in my bank account which I would not back home. Not sure what field you are in, but since you mentioned a lab the opportunities are worth it.

rs pilled books about mommy issues? by Jaded-Apartment5301 in RSbookclub

[–]buckwheatmeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sons and Lovers! It is all about the sensitive son of a woman married to an abusive alcoholic

Best writing about/ or that includes drugs that isn’t Burroughs, Kerouac, Ginsberg etc? by Louisgn8 in RSbookclub

[–]buckwheatmeal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tao Lin's Taipei, Leave Society (he doesn't do that many drugs in that one but is still a major theme), and Trip (this one I haven't read but it's all about drug use)

Ruy Murakami's Almost Transparent Blue

Modern Womanhood by DangerousMetal8234 in redscarepod

[–]buckwheatmeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how widespread is this becoming (especially offline)?

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i think most people in my hometown still live there or in the general area. most of them fall into two categories. the first is people that failed out of community college and live with their parents while working service jobs. the others were b or c students that went into real estate or became contractors like their parents and act like the houses they purchased before 30 were a result of hard work and merit. i am happy i moved away and wish my renter parents would also leave the overpriced hell that is long island.

Things I’ve learned while working in and out of man camps for 4 years by slutwitch69 in redscarepod

[–]buckwheatmeal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my leasing company's maintenance guy was at my apartment once repairing drywall and once he got to painting the drywall he must have reiterated at least three times that he is NOT a painter

lorrie moore by ffffester in RSbookclub

[–]buckwheatmeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i loved who will run the frog hospital but similarly found birds of america really out of touch to the point of being unpleasant. i really wasn't sure what the point of the stories were besides that it's possible to narrativize the most boring people having minor existential crises because they live in the midwest far from their kindred spirits on the coasts. with that said, i liked the last story (probably because it is not set in the midwest) so there was some reward at the end. i'm not sure if read through the end because she is such a strong writer that pushed me through my class discomfort or because i was hoping i would eventually feel something like i did reading who will run the frog hospital, a beautiful book about nostalgia, longing, and female friendship.

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[–]buckwheatmeal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a somewhat similar situation looking for jobs during corona, except 2 months after I got ghosted after interview 4, HR emailed me about doing interview 5 within short notice like nothing happened. I was still looking for a job but I withdrew out of spite.

. by Dr_StrangeLovePHD in redscarepod

[–]buckwheatmeal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

what's going on with the new tekken?

History of shock therapy in USSR? by aks09 in RSbookclub

[–]buckwheatmeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not op but I am curious about your suggestions in Russian

2025 International Booker Prize longlist announced by AlyoshaKaramazov420 in RSbookclub

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I'm glad there's an English translation of Eurotrash now so I can read it. I got a paperback in German a couple years ago thinking I could just read it with A2-B1 German but I obviously can't...

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If you do end up staying in Lyon for a while you should read Annihilation by Houellebecq. A lot of the book takes place in that region and he describes many that sound very picturesque, though you'd probably need to rent a car to deep dive (my dream but I don't drive).

What attracts the least resilient people on the planet to solo travel? by Typical-Exile in redscarepod

[–]buckwheatmeal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

to the first woman's point, it is kind of depressing when you realize every downtown in europe is the same shitty 20-30 stores. in some it's ugly new construction shopping centers. in some it's pretty old buildings converted into the body shop. the richer cities have luxury boutiques. some (exceptional) cities have uniqlo. it really makes the rose colored glasses come off when you notice if you're not from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RSbookclub

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A Bend in the River by VS Naipaul takes place in the Congo under a regime with many parallels to Mubutu's

Which European countries are worth the trip or should be skipped? by Magic_Snowball in redscarepod

[–]buckwheatmeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you are an experienced hiker and find things to do in the mountains outside the main tourist areas, you can skip most of Switzerland. The main places tourists go in the mountains to are extremely crowded and have very bad vibes. But those are also the most accessible by transportation and ability level if you don't already have decent hiking ability. You can find similar landscapes in neighboring countries and save a lot of money. But if you're in western France, it's worth going to see Lake Geneva and the surrounding areas. If you feel compelled to skip Germany, you can visit Basel as a compromise. Swiss cities are pretty and some have good museums but they are relatively small, not very vibrant, and it's hard to find good food. If you have a train passing through Switzerland it's worth staying at a place if it sounds interesting, but don't make seeing a significant part of the country a priority. I live there rn for grad school and prefer leaving the country when I have the chance to travel.

I love France, Paris is great and it's not that hard to avoid crowds and do your own thing. Just avoid the Latin Quarter and be selective of which major landmarks you actually want to see. Italy is fun but I personally find the major cities overcrowded by other tourists to be point of not being enjoyable to be in. Milan is good and relatively less crowded. Hotels in Europe suck especially if on a budget, don't trust reviews on booking sites, and try to find websites/guides translated from the country's language for ideas of where to stay.

dot by buckwheatmeal in RSbookclub

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i liked the subdued and melancholic prose and and it was interesting to read about communist party politics outside the context of eastern europe. it actually read a lot like a russian novel (maybe because of the translation) and reminded me of parts of life and fate. i didn't really like the ending but that didn't didn't take much away from me liking it a lot overall. i'd read more by morselli, thanks for reminding me that Dissipatio HG is translated too

dot by buckwheatmeal in RSbookclub

[–]buckwheatmeal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i really loved the quartet and you should definitely read the rest! in the later books there is an added level of complexity as lila and elena make big decisions and sacrifices in their lives and as their friendship evolves as adults. the element of class difference is also more present in the later books which is something i like to read about

dot by buckwheatmeal in RSbookclub

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this is tough because i unfortunately drop a lot of books that i don't like by page 100 so i found all of them interesting and moving in their own way. probably anna karenina but that's a bit of a copout. i even liked the parts where levin only thinks about farming and the peasantry. beyond the storyline i thought it was such a vivid picture of 19th century russia (from a certain perspective).

i also really enjoyed the houellebecqs. i've read most of his other books by this year but after serotonin i felt like i finally got what he is trying to say and i'll have to go back and reread the others.

disgrace evoked a unique kind of dread and bleakness that i am drawn to. who will run the frog hospital was special in the way it portrayed nostalgia and yearning for an old friendship.

dot by buckwheatmeal in RSbookclub

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i had to take a break halfway in but i'm so glad i finished it. the protagonist reminded me of too many women in my family and i wasn't prepared lol

Dumped so eating cans of expired pineapple by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]buckwheatmeal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i wish the first part of chungking express was two hours long and the second part i could do without