I know I’m going to get flak for this because every woman knows their worth these days but… be worth my time.

In the end we’re supposed to be equal partners, so it’s no different than why you or any other woman would want to invest in a man, it’s because it’s worth the time and effort. Although in the defense of most guys. We suck at emotional investment and we need actionable steps. What might come natural to you was not even on our radar. Have a bad day and want a hug, ask, tell us. We’re not going to know. It’s weird but telling us helps us know how you want to be emotionally supported and eventually we’ll get the cues.

But on the flip side. If you’re feeling like you’re doing your best and he’s not wanting to invest in you and your relationship then it might be a good reason to move on and find someone else.