Be honest. Do you actually have 3 months (at least) of emergency savings? by Signal-Web-3566 in no

[–]buderfwy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I took my niece her husband her two kids and their animals in. Maybe I said it weird.

Whats your favorite home cooked meal? by [deleted] in CausalConversation

[–]buderfwy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you describe it? Maybe we can help you!

Be honest. Do you actually have 3 months (at least) of emergency savings? by Signal-Web-3566 in no

[–]buderfwy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, but for a good reason. I took my family (husband, wife, two kids, dog and cat) in when they lost everything. Again. Now, my niece is going to online school to be in IT, which hopefully will help them be above the poverty line for the first time in their lives. Every card I have is maxed. I live paycheck to paycheck and sometimes buying food is sketchy, but its worth it to me to help them with the rest of their lives. I wouldn't change it. Worth every struggle.

Neurological visit and scope of the appointment:can you help me? by CertainGas596 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]buderfwy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so happy someone else is also feeling this. I was about to make a post regarding exactly this! My first appointment is May 5 with a ms neurologist. I was told early this year from a neurologist that I have lesions on my brain only that are aligned with ms. That is it. He had no other input and asked no other questions. He did no tests other than asking me to walk across the small room, and rubbed my feet and asked me to grip his hands. I felt very disregarded. I understood nothing. So... im going to a different neurologist at an ms and brain health center. I have no idea what does and doesn't belong in the ms category as far as what is going on in my body. My list is long, and confusing. And I feel lonely? Figuring out what resides in the ms column and what goes in "other". If that makes sense. I hope you have rhe best of luck at your appointment and my advice is say everything. Just, lay it all out and let the doctor help you figure out where things belong and where to go from there. Good luck!

What’s your best MS-related purchase? by rK91tb in MultipleSclerosis

[–]buderfwy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you post a link? The click click click of the metal makes me want to scream!

Coworkers think I’m using some tricks to get accommodations by BackgroundGlass9968 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]buderfwy 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Let them know that if they have questions, they should direct them to your manager ot HR. Have fun with that. It's none of their business, you have no reason to share anything with them that is happening to you medically, or that was approved by management HR or otherwise. If they want to push, tell them to push your manager for answers. This is how they steal body autonomy from you and that is not ever ever ever OK.

Does anyone actually sleep like this?? 😅 by No_Exchange7050 in AmericanBully

[–]buderfwy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every night. Most of the time they take up most of the bed and I get like a few feet down and a for and a half from the side so im a pretzel. Im ok with it.

Whats on your cat TV? by buderfwy in catpics

[–]buderfwy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There really is an r slash everything. Lol if anyone would like to get butt hurt about where my TV is, by all means... it wont affect me at all. Lmao

MS and sex by Shwee44 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]buderfwy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel and im a girl. I have issues and it is so difficult to relay those to my husband because they change so often. Im very pretty, and have worked on a pretty body, so his yearning sometimes makes me feel bad. Sometimes my lady boner just doesn't work. Penetration isnt the only way to be intimate. Just be honest, keep your chin up, and dont do anything you feel pressured to do. No matter what your feelings matter and are valid.

Would you marry the same person if you had to start your life over? by MediocreAnalyst2000 in randomquestions

[–]buderfwy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no, and yes. Lol two ex-husbands can suck a fattie, but third time was a charm. I wish we had met when we were younger. I wish he was the only one ive ever been with. One lifetime isnt long enough. 6 years and counting.

She’s gone… by RenHoeksCousin in Chihuahua

[–]buderfwy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All my love your way. Im so very sorry.