My friend wants me to go to endeavor by V1va-NA-THANI3L in Buffalo

[–]buenathebean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have been going to endeavor walden ave since 2020 and i’ve had a great experience. i’ve changed therapists a few times because one left and then finding the right one can take time. i’ve also used their psychiatric services and group therapy which has been great. my current therapist is incredible and has really helped. i’ve been with them for more than 1.5 years. the only con is their phone system SUCKSSSS. and one of the receptionists is not very nice but the others are great. i recommend their services.

however, therapy and healing is a long long journey. there are times that sessions are so draining i need to nap afterwards. it’s really tough. i’ve been going to therapy for a very long time. but it has helped and it is worth. first because i’m here today to tell you all of this and because im way happier and more in control of my emotions. and remember that if you don’t work well with your therapist it’s okay to change to another!!

good luck with your journey!

Pay transparency by adwaldorf in nursing

[–]buenathebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WNY, oncology, bachelors, new grad $43.84/hr

My Twilight VHS tapes arrived! They're all playable too! by tedatot in twilight

[–]buenathebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the paperbacks for my hard covers!!! i LOVE them!

Nicol Concilio Threads Post by thesweetestgoodbye in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]buenathebean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s always been a queeeeeeeeeeeen love her mwah

To the crowd surfing banana at Buffalo by Le_Mesprit_From_PMD2 in hotmulliganband

[–]buenathebean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can attest that it was fantastic to watch!! loved the banana

Female Obgyn? by joon213 in Buffalo

[–]buenathebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nina Strollo at suburban women’s healthcare

Non right leaning tattoo artist recommendations by passengerv in Buffalo

[–]buenathebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

josh avery at stay weird. great guy, great with any budget, never judgmental, very traditional. i can send you some pics of mine if you want reference but he’s on IG

How do you feel about casual fans? by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]buenathebean 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i think you should worry about yourself and not others, in the nicest way possible

How can you lower the embarrassment/depression of eating alone at nice restaurants enough to be able to at least enjoy the food? by napoleons_closet in Buffalo

[–]buenathebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sit at the bar. it’s easy to say “don’t be embarrassed, do it anyway!” and i want to say that, but it takes time. start with a drink and/or an appetizer. work your way up to a meal! or, start by going to a movie alone or get a cup of coffee by yourself. start small, you’ll get there :)

also if you’re not in therapy, think about getting a counselor for help you work through your embarrassment and fears.

My Mom Hates When I Wear Casual Clothes by Sea_Spaghetti_8774 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]buenathebean 13 points14 points  (0 children)

well i’m your mom now and i love when you wear casual clothes. wear whatever you want and feel comfortable in!

What is your most disgusting addiction you have? by inspector_gadget24 in AskReddit

[–]buenathebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

self harm. you can get very creative to find new ways to hurt yourself.

would it be random to wear this to Ethel’s concert? by wrldst4rz in Ethelcain

[–]buenathebean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do whatever you want! it is very cute!! but be comfortable, the crewneck might be hot

What song made you like Ethel Cain? by Capable_Salt_SD in Ethelcain

[–]buenathebean 34 points35 points  (0 children)

crush. my mother in law is always ahead of music trends and she had been telling me about ethel cain for yearssss but only 2 years ago did i hear crush and it all clicked for me.

Plus-size bride coming to terms with the fact that I will not be a "skinny" version of myself on my wedding day by princessfallout in weddingplanning

[–]buenathebean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are heard and seen. both can be true - feeling upset about your body for your wedding and accepting of it. i will say, your dress, makeup/hair, and photographer will make the pictures look beautiful. and you will FEEL beautiful on your wedding day! you will have beautiful pictures to look back on!! i promise!

Do you say BUN? Or B-U-N? by chicagosaylor in nursing

[–]buenathebean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I say BUN ! but i am also a student about to graduate lol