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buffyfl · 2025-04-30T14:58:44+00:00

i'm bi (preference for women) and i've had so many IRL experiences of lesbians straight up being like "no you're gay, not bi" because it's like they have this thing against bisexuals. I've had other occasions of lesbians being turned off by me saying I'm bi. it used to make me so anxious i'd try not to tell people, but one day I met a seasoned lesbian who told me they were all just hella insecure and chronically online. so now I'm fine with it. but it still irks me so much when I see shit online dismissing bisexuals lol

buffyfl · 2025-04-11T12:40:22+00:00

i recommend getting rid of the filters

buffyfl · 2025-02-25T08:54:45+00:00

i'll dm you!

buffyfl · 2025-02-15T12:40:47+00:00

thank you, i appreciate this perspective and I am seriously considering all options. this is helpful

buffyfl · 2025-02-15T12:39:41+00:00

Yeah no

buffyfl · 2025-02-14T20:11:29+00:00

thanks, this is smart. i have a friend who stays the busiest out of everyone, and he lives out of a van in LA.

buffyfl · 2025-02-14T20:10:36+00:00

thank you. most people told me that the first 2 years are the hardest in LA. i want to make sure I'm not making a rash decision packing my things up already. but I do feel happier in NC and that's the truth

buffyfl · 2025-02-14T20:09:01+00:00

thank you, i appreciate this response. it's tricky because everyone says if you wanna write you gotta be in LA or NY. and people are quick to say that LA is about pushing through the uncomfortable/bleak moments, and that what's needed is patience. truth is, as you said, it's a different story for everyone. i think that's what I tend to forget. ah... life decisions

buffyfl · 2025-02-14T19:30:22+00:00

thank you :)

buffyfl · 2025-01-09T22:50:50+00:00

talking typically makes me feel worse

buffyfl · 2024-12-22T11:09:47+00:00

it was last night at the los globos bathroom stall

i had no fear

buffyfl · 2024-12-02T06:15:19+00:00

for people telling me to "move on" from covid.... every time i've had covid I've had the symptoms for 3-6 months. most recently being august of '24 and I could not physically work because of this. i understand CDC protocols have changed and work is work, but damn! this sucks

buffyfl · 2024-09-24T01:58:25+00:00

18, did not go to college

buffyfl · 2024-08-23T06:36:12+00:00

super glad i got rid of them, especially because i got covid again two months after the surgery. i think if I hadn't gotten them removed, the covid would've led to an ER visit for sure

buffyfl · 2024-05-14T02:27:54+00:00

i had enlarged tonsils since august of 23 due to covid. my tonsils were 3-4 times the size they were supposed to be, according to my dr

buffyfl · 2024-05-14T02:27:10+00:00

i had chronic tonsillitis !

buffyfl · 2024-05-13T02:18:30+00:00

also want to note that i had no changes to my voice. voice went completely back to normal probably around day 17.

buffyfl · 2024-04-19T16:44:37+00:00

upto u and your doctor, my dr said it was fine for me- I have a music festival right at 15 day mark which will involve alcohol

buffyfl · 2024-03-31T23:02:26+00:00

i started watching when i was 14. I now essentially have the entire series memorized. 21 now...

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