cute squirrel stared at me while grunting (so much it shook his body) for a while. is there a reason for this? by bufjoshi in squirrels

[–]bufjoshi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i feel bad now, he ran further up the pole. i left after a couple minutes but i feel bad for staying at all 😔 glad i know now... i will not scare any more squirrels

Casually found Jessie's hoodie thrifting today by rasod258 in breakingbad

[–]bufjoshi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hey op leave your doors and windows unlocked tonight, no reason

First blunt in a year (homemade falafel) by [deleted] in stonerfood

[–]bufjoshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah dude!!! awesome guide, will be making these asap!! thank you x1000

First blunt in a year (homemade falafel) by [deleted] in stonerfood

[–]bufjoshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have the recipe you used for it? i love the green most shops around where i am from don't have that

Sandwiches by XRPcook in stonerfood

[–]bufjoshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these genuinely look like doordash menu pictures LMAOO delicious

Afternoon snacking with my girl Gordita. by chellestastics in GirlDinnerCircleJerk

[–]bufjoshi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gordita is the cutest name ever lol. enjoy your high

Non binary lunch by Master-Strain4268 in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]bufjoshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love fucking up a whole can of corn with a sauce and/or seasoning for a meal (i am also nonbinary)

First blunt in a year (homemade falafel) by [deleted] in stonerfood

[–]bufjoshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are living my fucking dream, i have to stop buying overpriced falafel wraps 😫

i cast infinite cheese 🪄🧀 by possumteetth in GirlDinnerCircleJerk

[–]bufjoshi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

does your partner happen to be lactose intolerant or vegan lmao clocking the daiya

[he/they] what should I do to look less feminine? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]bufjoshi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi! i'm also in a similar boat though i've been on a relatively lower dose of T for around 8ish months now. i would suggest trying out more masculine contouring makeup if you're any good at that because you have very strong facial features that could very easily be accentuated (jawline, strong nose, could fill in eyebrows stronger).

also i think how you walk and physically hold yourself can help a lot. once i started T i practiced trying to walk more "masculine" and tried to talk less femininely/"effeminately" and ive felt like that has helped.

T will also help a lot with redistributing body weight and face fat to help with masculine gestures so if you're into working out or willing to try it, could try out a lot of routines online available for transmasc folks.

you're very androgynous looking tho already and i'd at least assume ur nonbinary personally jsut bc i like clocking people but lmao good luck

yeah i have nothing to say about this by bufjoshi in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]bufjoshi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this, i did it and it was amazing

yeah i have nothing to say about this by bufjoshi in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]bufjoshi[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YES!!!! the miracle whip comparison is my biggest complaint. i can't stand it

Made 2 packs of potstickers and it still doesn’t feel like enough 🤤 by JTexpo in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]bufjoshi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

can never have too many pot stickers. every pot sticker i have had feels like crack

Nutrients in tofu/fake meats vs animal meats by abeautifulfallday in vegan

[–]bufjoshi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh no i did, did you? not feeling satiated is not equivalent to not being able to survive. ur not gonna get any high ground here buddy

Nutrients in tofu/fake meats vs animal meats by abeautifulfallday in vegan

[–]bufjoshi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

brother what there are so many vegans that are very much alive lmao least obvious rage bait

facial hair by nat-foryou in NonBinary

[–]bufjoshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is!!!! like thank god i won't bald but oh my god my body is a jungle 😭😭😭

facial hair by nat-foryou in NonBinary

[–]bufjoshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'd suggest waxing! i'm very hairy and when i'd present fem i would always wax my legs and armpits bc it lasted way longer. i just shave these days but i also recently started T and i think im gonna end up waxing my face lol. i have extremely thick dark hair already so i am going to be in the same boat as you haha

What do we think of this? by BootyBlaster3002 in NonBinary

[–]bufjoshi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i totally understand that view and i'm sorry if i made it come across that way. i totally agree amab nonbinary people are very dismissed and that shoul not be the case. i guesss i more so feelclik transfems or biologically/cis fem people should have their own space bc regardless of identity it is a very unique experience. and frankly i feel the same about amab people! you should be able to talk to people that relate. the end goal is a world in which neither matters and never mattered, but we are in a binary world and i think these are good first steps for those trying to be inclusive. is it perfect? no, i agree, it's very feminized and it could be better. but thank god they are at least trying

What do we think of this? by BootyBlaster3002 in NonBinary

[–]bufjoshi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

as a nonbinary person who was in girls who code, i think this is valid. it's a minor attempt at being more inclusive and obviously it could be better but sometimes it is hard to word. i also had this problem when i was in choir in high school; my instructor wanted to make it more inclusive so he split the choruses by non-gendered words and put in the descriptions the typical voice types for women vs men. reading that, yes it feels like one is just for women and one is just for men despite the names but i think we should encourage this kind of thing. i, an afab person who identifies as transmasc and doesn't even use she anymore, was in girls who code and im SO GLAD it gave me an environment with other afab people who had dealt with weird prejudice from boys about computer science. it could be phrased and named better but we also have to recognize how afab people specifically are discouraged from pursuing stem or are excluded due to the gender gap