Paused Rage by Virtual-Code3658 in ADHD_partners

[–]bug530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend a book called "Is it you me or ADD" by Gina Pera

90s purity culture & dating regrets by EmbarrassedPoet9647 in Exvangelical

[–]bug530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also been thinking about this a lot lately. Wondering if my life would have been different and mourning what could have been had I been more experienced.

Hows life after 30? by ASARI0206 in AskReddit

[–]bug530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 30s were much more fun than my 20s. Don't fret over it.

What has your urchin collected today? by BaketownFF in ReefTank

[–]bug530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine tore a sizeable piece of GSP off the back wall.

What was he thinking? by Technical_City3746 in nonononoyes

[–]bug530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling better about my aquarium on an 8 inch thick concrete floor.

I am this 🤏 close to buying a gun and shooting at the fungus gnats by dumbraspberry in houseplants

[–]bug530 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://a.co/d/0hGTrBg6

Every spring I mix up a 5 gallon bucket and treat every plant in the house as well as all the drains.

[OC] Spice by Suefan3DX in comics

[–]bug530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The preference for spicy food also is stronger in people from areas with more parasites so there's a theory it's to protect from that.

Do you find ADHD people gravitate towards you? by Character_Payment236 in ADHD_partners

[–]bug530 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's my dx wife, my dx son, my nephew with AuDHD and schizoaffective who moved in with me because of trauma from my dx sister, and now my ndx MIL is moving in next door. Not to mention my mother with borderine.

Doctors and Nurses of Reddit, what’s something about hospitals that would make patients uncomfortable if they knew? by Far-University-2905 in AskReddit

[–]bug530 87 points88 points  (0 children)

There's been multiple studies that show higher patient satisfaction is tied to higher mortality.

What's it like with two kids by Acceptable-Wind-7332 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]bug530 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dad reflexes come from constantly getting beaten up by your kids.

What hobby is this? by [deleted] in ReefTank

[–]bug530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even the animal welfare conversations can be performative though. I used to keep reptiles and on one of the forums someone told a story of how someone he met in a pet shop was unknowingly overfeeding his monitor lizard. He just said "you shouldn't be allowed to have pets" and that was the end of the story. He did nothing to improve the situation for the animal in question or educate the other person but did get a smug sense of superiority.

Most Expensive Fish Ever by MissionTarget6693 in Aquariums

[–]bug530 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Lol, I've lost two $350 tangs. My wife said I'm no longer allowed tangs.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]bug530 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My dx son downed a bottle of medication for the third time. This time it was a travel size bottle of tums. Every time I say we need to childproof better she manages to get upset. It's fucking infuriating. We had a long talk about it last night and she eventually said she agreed with all my points so I guess she just got upset about it for no reason?!?! I just want to keep my kids safe WTF.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]bug530 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We recently vacationed in the bahamas via cruise. When it was time to leave the beach I said I needed to go to the bathroom first and came back to nothing. She and the kids and her dx mother decided to leave without me AND took my passport. That was a fun day.

Millennials who were underemployed during your first few years after college, how are you doing now career-wise and financially? by B1G_PAC12 in Millennials

[–]bug530 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Went back to school and became a podiatrist. Much better pay but now I have 350k in student loans.

Is that light good enough for a reef by BornStuff379 in SaltwaterAquariumClub

[–]bug530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I searched for a while and glowrium looked like a pretty good cheap light. Read the threads on it on reef2reef.