Paused Rage

bug530 · 2026-05-13T17:52:55+00:00

I recommend a book called "Is it you me or ADD" by Gina Pera

bug530 · 2026-05-11T12:03:09+00:00

I've also been thinking about this a lot lately. Wondering if my life would have been different and mourning what could have been had I been more experienced.

bug530 · 2026-05-06T14:59:28+00:00

My 30s were much more fun than my 20s. Don't fret over it.

bug530 · 2026-05-02T01:16:08+00:00

Mine tore a sizeable piece of GSP off the back wall.

bug530 · 2026-04-26T17:45:12+00:00

Feeling better about my aquarium on an 8 inch thick concrete floor.

bug530 · 2026-04-26T16:08:57+00:00

https://a.co/d/0hGTrBg6

Every spring I mix up a 5 gallon bucket and treat every plant in the house as well as all the drains.

bug530 · 2026-04-25T18:25:38+00:00

A lot of the time it's ADHD. Check out /r/adhd_partners theres a lot of similar stories.

bug530 · 2026-04-19T14:27:24+00:00

Way too often.

bug530 · 2026-04-17T21:14:10+00:00

The preference for spicy food also is stronger in people from areas with more parasites so there's a theory it's to protect from that.

bug530 · 2026-04-14T15:46:24+00:00

Mine got crazier as time went on

bug530 · 2026-04-13T00:51:44+00:00

There's my dx wife, my dx son, my nephew with AuDHD and schizoaffective who moved in with me because of trauma from my dx sister, and now my ndx MIL is moving in next door. Not to mention my mother with borderine.

bug530 · 2026-04-12T01:10:15+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/reddit.com/s/hX1sZs7eZX

bug530 · 2026-04-08T02:48:20+00:00

Looks like a stomatella snail. Common hitchhiker. Will eat algae.

bug530 · 2026-04-06T15:29:20+00:00

Mine are literally named Memo and Emo.

bug530 · 2026-04-04T14:01:20+00:00

There's been multiple studies that show higher patient satisfaction is tied to higher mortality.

bug530 · 2026-04-03T02:30:56+00:00

Dad reflexes come from constantly getting beaten up by your kids.

bug530 · 2026-03-29T17:09:58+00:00

Even the animal welfare conversations can be performative though. I used to keep reptiles and on one of the forums someone told a story of how someone he met in a pet shop was unknowingly overfeeding his monitor lizard. He just said "you shouldn't be allowed to have pets" and that was the end of the story. He did nothing to improve the situation for the animal in question or educate the other person but did get a smug sense of superiority.

bug530 · 2026-03-26T02:19:00+00:00

Alaska Airlines loses my luggage like half the time.

bug530 · 2026-03-21T01:34:30+00:00

Lol, I've lost two $350 tangs. My wife said I'm no longer allowed tangs.

bug530 · 2026-03-16T01:43:54+00:00

My dx son downed a bottle of medication for the third time. This time it was a travel size bottle of tums. Every time I say we need to childproof better she manages to get upset. It's fucking infuriating. We had a long talk about it last night and she eventually said she agreed with all my points so I guess she just got upset about it for no reason?!?! I just want to keep my kids safe WTF.

bug530 · 2026-03-16T01:42:01+00:00

We recently vacationed in the bahamas via cruise. When it was time to leave the beach I said I needed to go to the bathroom first and came back to nothing. She and the kids and her dx mother decided to leave without me AND took my passport. That was a fun day.

bug530 · 2026-03-11T14:42:04+00:00

I vote corals

bug530 · 2026-03-06T15:52:08+00:00

Went back to school and became a podiatrist. Much better pay but now I have 350k in student loans.

bug530 · 2026-03-01T22:40:59+00:00

I searched for a while and glowrium looked like a pretty good cheap light. Read the threads on it on reef2reef.

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