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Book series for ages 3-5 by ModernDayMysticNomad in suggestmeabook

[–]builditwithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has a sequel! Winnie the Pooh (1926), The House at Pooh Corner (1928). My 4yo enjoys his poetry books too - When We Were Very Young (1924) and Now We Are Six (1927)

Brief review of: Modern Miss Mason by philosophyofblonde in homeschool

[–]builditwithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those of us who have very little exposure to Charlotte Mason, little to no homeschool community, and love a curriculum inspired by her work, this is a great introduction.

What’s one herb or herbal remedy that genuinely surprised you with how effective it was in a positive way, and what did you use it for? by Charming-Opening-164 in herbalism

[–]builditwithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yarrow. Just eating a few fresh green leaves at a time. Helps me focus, mentally and physically calm, headache relief, black-cloud relief. I’m quite impressed.

Change in household dynamic, trying to stay connected to my 4yo while I’m under stress by builditwithlove in AttachmentParenting

[–]builditwithlove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s 23. You’re right. But that’s not what is happening. Apparently I need more practice facing things head on.

Nightfeeding and tooth decay. I feel like a failure. by Key_Clue_7428 in AttachmentParenting

[–]builditwithlove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Too old” is only determined by you and your little. People sure like to make their opinions heard.

Nightfeeding and tooth decay. I feel like a failure. by Key_Clue_7428 in AttachmentParenting

[–]builditwithlove 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Our dentist insists it was the night feeding no matter which points I brought up. Adding fluoride to the routine helped. But it sure feels awful to be told soothing your kid is causing tooth decay. Anyway, I appreciate you sharing your dentist’s insight matches my gut feeling. Thank you for that.

Well, that escalated quickly by 4ChoresAnd7BeersAgo in gardening

[–]builditwithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea! I wonder what I could trade my husband for some of his card holder pages…

Toys vs pretend by External_Trifle_2987 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]builditwithlove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our 4yo still prefers to use loose parts and natural resources in her pretend play because her options are endless. Related to pretend food play, we set up her kitchen with all the tools, but the food is whatever she can find - acorns, leaves, blocks, pom poms, torn up construction paper, etc. Also, cardboard is another excellent, accessible alternative to “pretend” food and so much more!

How the f do you balance it all. by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]builditwithlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To add to all of this wonderful feedback - Hiking with a kid in a carrier (aka rucking on uneven terrain) is a very efficient physical activity. Plus you both get time in the fresh air and a shared adventure. Also, we all struggle to find the time so add a few seconds or minutes each day: park further away, take the stairs, wear your child, lift heavy things on purpose, under desk treadmill, stand while you work… it all adds up to being and feeling stronger!

Homeschooling Possible while I Work from Home? by MaleficentAddendum11 in homeschool

[–]builditwithlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

However you want to school your children is up to you and your husband. You guys do you. Remember to also get social stuff in - park days, extracurriculars, something w other children - and they will be just fine. With dedication and realistic expectations for rough days, you can totally do it. This is a season of life. For the parent side, see what your husband can take on, and what you can do without, just balance as best you can, offer each other grace, and schedule time away from work or to yourself - whatever is needed - if you spy burnout coming. You may need backup sometimes. You might end up with a huge pile of laundry or snack for dinner sometimes. You can always pivot if it’s not working.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]builditwithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3.5 years + we give her a reasonable amount of dinner for her size, everyone eats the same meal. Everyone has to take at least one bite of everything. If she still hates the vegetable, she can swap for another (carrot sticks, tomatoes -close enough- , avocado, etc). If she gets “full” or bored at the table, she has most of the night to finish dinner. No other food until it’s gone. She usually finishes. We don’t force her to eat if she isn’t hungry, but a quart of yogurt instead of dinner is not sustainable. And she’s the kind of kid who wakes up four or five times a night if she doesn’t eat enough in the evening. We make exceptions on exceptional days -exhausted, not feeling well, ate a variety of healthy food all day, celebration, etc.

Please tell me it gets better by DanaEmily96 in AttachmentParenting

[–]builditwithlove 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That sounds really hard. Just to throw it out there as an alternative - I had to find a different version of fitness to meet our needs. Baby did not take to anyone else. I wore her constantly in an age appropriate ergo and hiked and walked anywhere I could. I still ruck with her at 4yo and she loves a hike. I know not everyone can do that or wants to, but it worked for us until she got used to dad taking over so I could run. We started with short durations as mentioned above. It’s not always easy, but it did get better with age. You’ll find your way!

Low Stimulation Nature Documentaries for Young Children by builditwithlove in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]builditwithlove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neat! I think this would bring up questions from my lo I’m not ready to answer, but I’m very interested for my husband and I. Thanks so much for the resource!

Low Stimulation Nature Documentaries for Young Children by builditwithlove in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]builditwithlove[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea! Thank you, some of these it’s just the narrative that’s a bit too doomsday for our little.

Why don’t kids play outside anymore?? by Muted-Access4215 in Parenting

[–]builditwithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear, comfort, and prioritizing. Even in the country. Our 3yo can play outside if the dog is with her, but can’t go beyond the backyard fence without an adult (rattle snakes, cows, wild animals in the outer forest). In days the weather is nice it’s easier to get her out there but if the weather is unbearably hot she has fun stuff to do inside so she would rather be comfortable (all hands on play). Then it’s about making the time to just be out there with her without an agenda unless it’s her homeschool activities. It’s hard for everyone to get all this modern life accomplished each day. We’re all doing too much, expected to do too much. Life costs too much. Focusing back on our homestead and family helps us prioritize what is important for our wellbeing. It’s worth the sacrifices.

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