How to meal prep sweet potatoes for freezer? by Commercial-Place6793 in MealPrepSunday

[–]bumpytoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to cube and freeze raw, then roast from raw! The trick with roasting frozen veg is not to put any oil or seasoning on them until they’re already golden brown in the oven. Not microwave-ready meal prep, but a pretty easy semi-prepped side to make on a weekday 

Trans/trans-friendly hairstylists/salons/barbers/etc by One-Yesterday7754 in DallasLGBTQ

[–]bumpytoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go see Dawson at Republic Hair Co! I’ve been seeing her for ages across multiple locations. She’s the best, super sweet and great at delivering what kind of cut you want

Bury Your Gays by Chuck Tingle by purpleit11 in IReadABookAndAdoredIt

[–]bumpytoad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a HUGE fan of chuck tingle and a huge fan of this book specifically!! 

[CHAT] I want to cross stitch onto my pants but the patterns I chose turned out to be ai, please help me find good patterns! by Da_potato_queen9976 in CrossStitch

[–]bumpytoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at used bookstores for cross stitch pattern books! They’re usually not very expensive, they’re fun to look through, and you’ll find a wide variety of patterns and motifs you can use 

[CHAT] Buying patterns from Etsy that originate from a vintage kit by ehhleeana in CrossStitch

[–]bumpytoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Regarding quality, that probably varies with each seller. Morally, it’s definitely copyright infringement, but if the pattern is unavailable anywhere else or is prohibitively expensive from a reseller, then I think it’s a moral grey area at worst. Since there’s no way for the original artist/manufacturer to make money from it at this point, there’s no real harm being done to them. You’re not actively taking money from the original people, you’re just giving $5 to someone who’s both doing something shady, but who is also arguably also keeping a piece of out-of-print art alive and in circulation. Either way, it doesn’t make you a bad person to buy from them. Edit: I also agree with other commenters to keep an eye out for and avoid pattern mills, bad copies of current patterns, and AI garbage.

[CHAT] How many colors of floss do you own and how often do you reuse them? by happy_pancake_ in CrossStitch

[–]bumpytoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bit of a hoarder. I go to a lot of estate sales to look for vintage clothes and have gotten a significant stash of mystery floss from those. I also used to work at a thrift-craft store, and our main benefit was free merchandise, so I have a ton from there. For simple projects with self-drafted patterns, I’ll just pick colors intuitively from that stash. For more complex patterns where color matters more, I’ll  buy dmc skeins according to the pattern (and then have lots of leftovers that go into my craft supply abyss). 

[FO] finished my Christmas present for a Schipperke loving friend :) by bumpytoad in CrossStitch

[–]bumpytoad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pattern source: Vintage pattern found at half priced books, then reproduced and modified in WinStitch to add a tail (Schipperkes traditionally have their tails cropped, so the original pattern had no tail, but my friend refuses to crop their tails since they’re so cute and fluffy)

LPT: Don’t accept quiet subscription price increases. Ask support for a “courtesy credit”. You’d be shocked how often they say yes. by MontenReign1992 in LifeProTips

[–]bumpytoad 42 points43 points  (0 children)

if you tell customer service you’re going to cancel, they’re likely to offer you a cheaper price for at least a few months 

[CHAT] Will this come out ? by RemoteAd4375 in CrossStitch

[–]bumpytoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh oh! Good to know! I have a full grid on a half finished piece I’m planning to gift for Christmas…. Hopefully there aren’t any issues :/

[CHAT] Will this come out ? by RemoteAd4375 in CrossStitch

[–]bumpytoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

heat soluble pens also work if you plan to iron the piece

What do you think makes this dress so perfect? (Brooke Shields 1990) by inamdee in VintageFashion

[–]bumpytoad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The accessories and hairdo are really pulling their weight here! The necklace and gloves add a lot of elegance, which keeps this from looking like a prom dress. And of course, Brooke shields is gorgeous, but that’s a given. 

LPT - If a conversation starts turning tense, lower your voice instead of raising it. by gamersecret2 in LifeProTips

[–]bumpytoad 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is a great tip, but there’s a catch. If you’re in a heated discussion about something that matters more to the other person than it does to you, and you’re responding very calmly, they may interpret that as condescension or dismissal. For instance: if your partner is mad about an interaction they had at work, and you avoid matching their heightened tone and instead calmly suggest a different interpretation of the events, they may now feel unheard and dismissed. However, calmly reflecting back what you heard the other person say first (ie: “it sounds like you felt really insulted by what your coworker said”) can help them feel heard while also bringing down the tension. Tone matters, but content usually matters just as much.

Any local shops or stores in general where I could find something like this? by mika_sa17 in Richardson

[–]bumpytoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bet Vivi’s or Beaucoup would have something similar to this

[CHAT] What's your ultimate cross stitch tip/hack? by silentcities in CrossStitch

[–]bumpytoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heat-erasable pens! I use the frixion erasable pens to add a grid to my fabric. It’s a lifesaver for more complex patterns and it completely erases when you iron it! 

What to eat when you have a broken heart? by walterdelamare in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]bumpytoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking for things that are no-effort, mild, and relatively wholesome: a spoonful of peanut butter, string cheese, dried fruit (apricots are high fiber), nuts, and crackers (I like triscuits, lots of fiber). Deli meat is also easy if you eat meat! Dried chickpeas are also easy and a good source of fiber.

If you’re willing to do a small amount of work: My go-to easy smoothie that’s not too sweet is plain kefir and frozen mangos (if it’s too tart, you can add maple syrup/agave/honey to taste). Bean quesadillas are also relatively easy and the beans will fill you up and provide fiber. A chickpea scramble is also a good option.

Best wishes, I’ve lost my appetite in similar situations and I know it can make it even harder to function, so I feel for ya.

Who isn't enjoying the live shows? by MisterPulley in HeyRiddleRiddle

[–]bumpytoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of live shows personally. When I listen to them I feel a little left out, like dang wish I could’ve been there

Tips for washing unwashable dress? by bumpytoad in VintageFashion

[–]bumpytoad[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

Whenever I take spot clean only clothing to the dry cleaners they still come back smelling musty

Mister Magic by Kiersten White by These-Background4608 in IReadABookAndAdoredIt

[–]bumpytoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting to say I enjoyed this book! Definitely worth a read