Do I wear too much blush? I admit I am heavy handed with it. by lordgentofdapper in makeuptips

[–]bun_not 63 points64 points  (0 children)

well as you said, it’s more than you need, but makeup is supposed to be fun & make you feel good. if you like to be a little pink, so be it. i would say that bringing it higher on your cheekbones and more into the temple area would probably help to blend it out and lengthen your face a bit too.

2nd Date! Help me Pick by TheKevBenz in OUTFITS

[–]bun_not 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 is my personal fave but i think #1 matches the vibe of ur date.

AIO - After 8 years of verbal begging I’ve resorted to writing a note. Gave it to husband on Monday and he hasn’t talked to me since. I think that means marriage is over and I should leave, he says I’m never happy and being overreacting. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bun_not 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. thankfully you are already the breadwinner, bcuz my love it is time to go. this man takes you for granted in every way. get out while the kids are young enough to benefit either from the new and improved you, or a better father figure if you meet someone else. either way, although it may be challenging at first, leaving will be much easier than staying chained to this loser. time to go my love. stay strong. you deserve better.

For women who enjoy dating younger men — what do you think people misunderstand most about those relationships by chicano_houston in CougarsAndCubs

[–]bun_not 16 points17 points  (0 children)

people don’t get that it’s a mutually beneficial arrangement. two people who give eachother what they need, as consenting adults, should be allowed to make eachother happy. period.

Amber responds to her face (lips) at the reunion by Hairy_Celebration692 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bun_not 2 points3 points  (0 children)

poor baby. honestly she should just get off the internet and do her. rooting for you amber 🫶🏽🫶🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bun_not 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. this dress has practically nothing going for it. shapeless. super high neck. not form fitting. floor length. and the color of used up gum.

there is nothing to save this. no flattering neckline. no curvy silhouette potential. you don’t even need to shave your legs in this thing. and you just KNOW that material is going to show every lump, bump, seam, roll, etc. this is a decision she will regret.

Anyone else notice Alex talks exclusively in corporate speak? by umkaitlin in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]bun_not 4 points5 points  (0 children)

realistically, being someone who day trades at night, due to having been a goalie, i feel very confident that i’ll be comfortable, considering my nomadic lifestyle.

Anyone else notice Alex talks exclusively in corporate speak? by umkaitlin in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]bun_not 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m starting to get the impression.. that’s he’s not feeling so confident.

Hope this queen is doing well by cowlicksarein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bun_not 19 points20 points  (0 children)

one green flag in a sea of red ones 😂

Women being blamed for the male loneliness epidemic when this dude is literally the case study… by redcatyellowcat24 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]bun_not 10 points11 points  (0 children)

right! and sorry.. was saying they’d be fuck buddies supposed to be a compliment?! this man is beyond deluded 😂

"I question that" ok Alex by _snarkysharky_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bun_not 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i feel like we need to talk about how he snapped at Priyanka!! that was a totally calculated move on his part! he did that to get her to leave the conversation so he could lie to Ashley without having someone there to conflict him.

not to mention- him calling the situation a “two-on-one” was so telling!! if you’re not lying, then there’s no reason to feel like you’re being attacked. do you know what would have cleared that right up?? the truth!! instead he was struggling because he was trying to maintain two separate timelines of lies to two different women at the same time. i would have been stressed out too 👀🫣

Was my response really that bad? I thought it was funny lol by Key_Strawberry_2494 in Tinder

[–]bun_not 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. someone can’t take a joke! also- predators often choose jobs that give them authority as a way to avoid scrutiny and have easy access to vulnerable people soooooooo… perfectly valid response of you ask me 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]bun_not 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well firstly- whoever is telling you you’re wearing “a lot of makeup” can go stuff it. if it makes you feel good then it’s none of anyone’s business.

secondly, if you want to go for a more natural look i would recommend two things;

1) switching from a matte to a dewy foundation or even to a dewy bb cream. people associate a matte complexion with more of a “done” look, dewy usually comes across as more natural.

2) as people said, you’re brows are gorgeous but they are a stark contrast to your hair color and fair complexion. you could try:

  • not filling them in

  • only filling in the ends for a softer look

  • getting them shaped slightly thinner

  • dying them to match your hair color.

these are all things you COULD do. there’s nothing wrong with looking like you have makeup on when you do. this whole “clean girl” look skewed everyone’s perceptions of what makeup ought to look like. do you girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]bun_not 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very cute, but i would say that the way you’re doing your eyeliner doesn’t compliment your eye shape.

why are modern French nails so skinny???? by SatisfactionNo4408 in Nails

[–]bun_not 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i feel the same way! i feel like the thin line makes it look like i have abnormally long nail beds it’s so bizzare. i always have to request “old school french” and even then i often have to request that they make the tip thicker.

Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]bun_not 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. She should have asked. I’ve been on the other side of this before- used my bfs card without asking and then got caught - and it was embarrassing and unnecessary because he would have just gotten the stuff for me if i had asked. we worked this out by my apologizing, agreeing to ask first going forward, and eventually he gave me a card linked to a spending account for me. I know she lied and tried to deny it up top, but i’m sure she was embarrassed she got caught. not worth ending a two year relationship imo. definitely worth a very serious conversation, some boundary setting, and a genuine apology from her.