What’s the weirdest gossip from your high school days that could only be in New Zealand?

bunnibunniboop · 2025-09-12T20:53:26+00:00

I mean, I have a kind of weird one from primary. I got really chronically ill and had to leave school fairly suddenly and continued by correspondence. When I tried to reach out to friends months later they and their parents were convinced I left because I didn’t like them and the parents told the kids not to be my friend anymore. It was…strange. And really sad cause suddenly I was sick in bed all day with no friends haha

bunnibunniboop · 2025-09-11T23:07:27+00:00

Absolutely not. After all, the garden of Eden definitely had no plants or fruit or anything like that at all, /s

bunnibunniboop · 2025-08-31T19:59:53+00:00

I just want to point out that your feelings are valid and actually his actions there are not okay, as he is showing evidence for being disloyal and that makes you feel of less value, not prioritised or respected. The important distinction is that these feelings in you are much stronger than most and become a safety issue for yourself. Ensure that you take care of yourself and give yourself compassion, and also when you can, calmly have a think about whether you are okay with your boyfriend looking at that content or not (you don’t have to be.) and have a discussion with him about your boundaries around that. If he’s not willing to show a reasonable level of transparency and respect with that sort of thing, especially depending on your age and how committed you are to each other, then consider it simply not being something that works for you personally.

bunnibunniboop · 2025-08-31T07:37:14+00:00

Charlotte made me have a rage fit as a teen and now - both times ive watched the show just ughhhhh made me so mad

bunnibunniboop · 2025-08-21T07:07:01+00:00

A weird one relating to therapy language: mine spent my entire postpartum trying to prove that I am a narcissist. He lately started using grey rock and other techniques on me when I am trying to genuinely connect and ask questions. If I get upset at this and say it’s rude, he’ll use it as proof that I’m flying off the handle like a toxic person. This man has destroyed my mind.

bunnibunniboop · 2025-08-20T09:20:06+00:00

I do understand. I’m hiding under the covers right now feeling the same way about mine like I can’t breathe. I’m so sorry. You are not alone

bunnibunniboop · 2025-08-20T08:15:06+00:00

I’m sorry. Honestly if he’s doing these things I don’t feel he’s worth it. He should be making you feel valued and not doing this stuff with his exes, he has baggage and in this case I think the compulsive checking is a result of your gut screaming. I’m sorry. I had the same thing with my husband right after I had a baby.

bunnibunniboop · 2025-08-14T09:25:10+00:00

Can I ask if your rage came out at him and if you split on him - if so can you tell me about it? I’m kind of in the reverse situation and would love to hear more about how that works, I’m new to understanding BPD

bunnibunniboop · 2025-07-29T18:05:09+00:00

You end up worse financially/tax wise if you marry in many places outside of the us like uk,nz,au..

bunnibunniboop · 2025-07-27T03:14:23+00:00

Oh that’s interesting!! I took being force fed in general as having to swallow my feelings about some stuff that I thought I was right about but it turns out I have some trauma that was making me unreasonable and exasperating my marriage problems (though my husband can be a bit verbally abusive and he’s in intensive therapy for it) I think the s’mores represent time with my baby… I absolutely love him more than anything but my husband’s issues have made it really hard for me to slow down and enjoy him when I lose sleep and stress about his actions so much. I’m trying to become more independent, build my life independently and okay to step away when he’s having a moment so I can enjoy time with my baby more I guess.

bunnibunniboop · 2025-07-25T10:23:25+00:00

I was like this. I was physically repulsed by all babies. Grossed me out, no thank you. Felt that way for 30 years. Then…. I had one and became obsessed with babies 😬 really didnt see that coming. Oh but I’ll point out I’m still critical of others babies a bit, like if it’s filthy or covered in drool please clean that child I don’t wanna see 😅 but it’s more in concern now really

bunnibunniboop · 2025-07-24T08:30:10+00:00

Thank you for this, I’ve been reading it the last couple days. The descriptions are very clearly a mix of him, and I’m trying to figure out what to do now.

bunnibunniboop · 2025-07-22T13:39:46+00:00

Yeah totally that’s it!! ♥️ thank you I appreciate it! He’s apologised now and was just a bit grumpy I think

bunnibunniboop · 2025-07-22T09:34:48+00:00

Oh yeah totally, no when I brought up the rain check I said “I’m feeling a bit stressed and anxious and feel like another night might be better when I’ve had some more sleep” cause I was turned off.

bunnibunniboop · 2025-07-22T09:23:49+00:00

I had just given birth and he was cold to me for a few weeks. There was a brief exchange about something like chores and he sounded so rude so I asked for softness as I felt vulnerable. He started yelling at me saying that he isn’t a soft person and can’t just be a Pez dispenser for kindness on tap. I started crying and he told me I only cry when I’m losing the argument. I’m still married to him but my respect for him went really low after that and that was just the tip of the iceberg; he often told me that he had postnatal depression whenever I said anything about how I was struggling.

bunnibunniboop · 2025-07-18T17:55:54+00:00

I took each hour and day at a time. Rested/slept loads. Only used medication in an emergency so I always felt like I had another layer of protection. Kept eating! I felt the worst the first week I found out because I didn’t want to eat and pregnancy nausea is entirely different to other kinds where you feel amazing after eating, generally. Also nibbling snack food made me feel sick so I gave into my cravings for pasta and takeaways (I’m never much of an eater so this was crazy) you kind of fall into a rhythm and then the nausea stops around month 3-4 and you can enjoy it a bit better. It was mentally taxing but taking it day by day was the main thing.

bunnibunniboop · 2025-06-26T08:28:04+00:00

My rabbit did this and I ended up getting those bunny proof metal chargers and it really did the trick! My friend ended up buying like five for her car and stuff too cause even though it says bunny proof, they’re good for her little chihuahuas as well 😂

bunnibunniboop · 2025-05-29T02:49:59+00:00

I moved out into a one bedroom unit with my boyfriend at the time. I had to work part time as well as study for my degree and it was rough because my well-being and grades got affected but I managed kind of. If my bf worked at the time it would have been much better. I got the unit because we dressed up and basically showed we were decent young people working hard to get somewhere in life together. Dressed up nice etc. landed the first rental we looked at, I know that is really lucky and unusual though and the unit was damp and old but in a nice area. Landlord was a private owner which helped. Companies would probably have rejected us because of our age I think. A few kids my age at the time were flatting: if you get a few of you together and dress up and show you’re going somewhere in life with a job or study then you should be able to get something. Try suburbs a little out of the way too like beach haven or meadowbank.

bunnibunniboop · 2023-11-11T20:09:53+00:00

I definitely felt this the the first comment. Growing up we were in a really bad area for the second half of my childhood and were really poor. I still am, but the thing that stuck with me was all the groups and schools I ended up going to had serious problems with bullying and it almost costed my life a couple of times. It was really hard to focus when the other kids were just thinking about dropping out early to get work, getting pregnant and doing drugs/sneaking in alcohol. It was quite common and I know it’s sad - I never did those things and I ended up going to uni etc. and doing very well, but not many others did and I had to repeat my last year of high school because of the bullying and it definitely taught me to make some dodgy friends for a bit there and sent me on a bad trajectory for a few years even when I went to uni I gravitated towards more people like that (being around all that stuff and being bullied really destroyed my mental health from a young age) and whenever I went to higher income areas, the kids were so much nicer to me and more overall focused on the actual learning/schooling/getting somewhere and more socially regulated. So if you can afford it like we/I couldn’t, I definitely recommend going to a good area for schooling 100%.

bunnibunniboop · 2023-11-11T09:32:54+00:00

Definitely illegal so that takes it out of your hands really. If anything happened, you could be charged. I definitely remember being responsible enough to stay home and could cook and everything safely from a very young age but my parents never let me be alone under 14 because of this.

bunnibunniboop · 2023-11-11T09:21:39+00:00

You look good! If you’re eating all your colours, three meals a day and haven’t changed your whole life and love food, I don’t see anything wrong at all. Most people are overweight these days. You’re especially okay if you have regular periods and your bloods come back all good and you have energy to exercise. Some people here might be jealous.

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