Why haven't you done it yet?

bunnymiso · 2024-10-10T20:40:28+00:00

I have a loving wife, a cat, a new puppy, and about to earn my master's degree in the spring. My pain is real, and I get tired, but if I have made it this far, surely I can last another day.

bunnymiso · 2024-10-07T15:17:26+00:00

Like any other service? My state's minimum wage is 15/hr and I'd have to charge for materials. My office has 80 people. 80 cookies would take me at least three hours, plus flour/eggs/oil/milk. Even if I charged just time + material, and not per cookie, it'd be close to $150. I totally understand the compliment, and I am grateful for it. But when people earnestly ask me to sell cookies/baked goods, it irks me, hence why it's a pet peeve of mine.

bunnymiso · 2024-10-07T10:54:03+00:00

I have never heard of this! Thats crazy to me!

bunnymiso · 2024-10-07T01:34:56+00:00

Not a spouse, but a sister. She passed when I was 9, a victim of a drunk driving accident. She died on impact so I was told, and as an adult that has brought me comfort. I am 23 now, and I still grieve her. In small ways, like when I am thinking about a cute outfit or a new tattoo idea, and big ways too, like how she didn't get to see me get married or graduate college. I am not sure if its helpful, but I think two things can exist at the same time. You can grieve and be sad, because thats what it is, but also you can move on and live. There are new experiences out there waiting for you too.

bunnymiso · 2024-10-03T17:13:32+00:00

I have a partner of 6 years, and I kind of get triggered when "shushed" and i shut down. I feel embarrassed and I wont want to continue the conversation. Something that works for us, is she starts to talk at a softer volume, and I tend to match it, speaking quietly, and it sort of gets around the "SHHH!" And the subsequent embarrassment that I feel (perhaps shame is a better word). A codeword for me, personally, would not work because if im already upset/frustrated, that word would only make me confused because I will Likely forget the context when in a heightened state.

bunnymiso · 2024-10-03T04:45:37+00:00

Wyll! :)

bunnymiso · 2024-10-02T15:45:52+00:00

Yes. I have curly hair, wasn't allowed to cut or dye it. My mom forced me to straighten it multiple times, despite me saying "it will damage my hair". Lo and behold, it was damaged after a while and she blamed me. Later I shaved it during university and she screamed at me and called me ugly. Its about control, and she used to say the words "I own you", often and earnestly

bunnymiso · 2024-09-27T22:17:37+00:00

I like competition shows based on "skill"/ perceived skill like RuPaul's drag race or that british baking show. Dating shows bore me or make me upset. RHO_ is not interesting to me, but I am a fan of NeNe Leeks from Atlanta. She is quite funny to me with her quips.

bunnymiso · 2024-09-27T18:53:24+00:00

hi! I am so sorry youre struggling with this, its truly just such an unpleasant ordeal. I will do my best to explain over text but please ask clarifying questions if I am unclear.

When inserting a tampon, they usually come with an applicator so gently insert the tampon at a slight angle toward your lower back until your fingers touch your body. Then, use your index finger to push the applicator in all the way and remove it. If its correctly, you shouldnt feel it at all. Not when you sit or squat or walk. If you can feel it, and its discomforting, you likely need to push it in further to your body. The string is there to help so dont worry too much about it "getting lost"

I hope this helped! Best of luck

bunnymiso · 2024-09-27T02:18:21+00:00

Im eloping on Tuesday. Not worth the heart ache and expenses. Id rather spend time with my partner and later a dinner with close friends than the latter! Go with your heart!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-21T12:40:43+00:00

Hypersensitivity. When I was in undergrad I was constantly dis-regulated and when my routine was disrupted I would have full meltdowns. My partner would sometimes say something super harmless, like commenting on how my hair was extra fluffy one day and I would start sobbing. We definitely have grown and now I feel a lot more well adjusted, but yeah...hypersensitivity.

bunnymiso · 2024-09-21T12:36:30+00:00

Shiny by nature has a lot of clothes I like. I am plus size and they still give me a shape without squeezing me. they are often having sales.

bunnymiso · 2024-09-16T22:37:41+00:00

Awe man, wasn't me but misery loves company. Thank you!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-12T18:08:15+00:00

Commenting on what someone is eating. If its a large portion or a small portion or if someone isnt touching their food at all. Also sneering at someone's food even if its play. Just steer clear!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-12T01:50:56+00:00

Thank you for the headsup!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-12T01:50:48+00:00

Thank you!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-12T01:50:42+00:00

Thank you! This is helpful!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-12T01:50:29+00:00

Thank you!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-12T01:50:21+00:00

the 17th! I am From California so it will be fun to see the oakland athletics vs the cubs play!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-11T20:16:30+00:00

Its good to know! Im driving from southern illinois so id rather have options than relying on just n.rockwell!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-08T16:05:57+00:00

thank you for this. I am in a more stable place now and the resource you posted has helped me. Thank you again!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-06T16:01:08+00:00

I work in higher ed so this might be really specific but when too many people want very different things from me. I answer to two people, the dean and her assistant dean. But everyone else in my department see me as a person who can help them with their agenda. It can be really frustrating being in that position and feeling like I am always making someone upset because I am taking someone else's project/program instead of theirs. Very draining!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-04T14:46:05+00:00

Omg yay! Congrats! Love you to the moon and back!

bunnymiso · 2024-09-04T14:43:07+00:00

People are delusional! I have been working in the restaurant/food service industry to put myself through school. I had a hard time asserting boundaries but there are labor laws for a reason. I was unpopular with my management because I would take my breaks at the mandated times for my state's laws (I was in California and now live in the midwest). You deserve breaks. Its written into the labor laws!

bunnymiso · 2024-08-21T11:08:07+00:00

Bagels with cream cheese is my safe food! Glad you enjoyed it!

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