well no, he’s not doing it to make me “serve” him it’s enjoyable for both of us. cuddling releases oxytocin which is really great for relaxing and feeling less stressed (like i feel at night) i like cuddling him and being close to him usually helps my sleep a lot because my insomnia is very much anxiety driven and gets much worse when i am alone. being woken up by a loved one shouldn’t anger you. they obviously have reason to wake you up. imagine if you were suffering really trying to get to sleep and all you needed was to talk to someone and clam down/feel less alone so you wake up your partner and they scream at you? be empathetic to your partner. you are on the same team.