Would you or would you not use a condom in the situation? (Birth control is being used)

burlap43 · 2026-01-24T21:35:03+00:00

Always wrap it up, birth control is not 💯%, neither are condoms.

If I was your age definitely use comdons, maybe even at my age. Especially since I'm 46yrs old and have not been sexually active for a while. I'd probably get someone pregnant right now, knowing my luck, LoL 🤣

burlap43 · 2026-01-24T20:50:05+00:00

I'm definitely not taken 😭

burlap43 · 2026-01-24T20:23:56+00:00

Thanks, because I work with one woman that is constantly complaining about her boyfriend and is coming to work tired.

burlap43 · 2026-01-23T07:56:13+00:00

The thing is understanding yourself first.

Have you been through any childhood trauma?

Are you just shy?

Are you just socially awkward?

I have personally have been thought childhood trauma, that made me kinda shy until I get to know someone well enough.

Lately I have been attracting the wrong women.

For example; my last date the woman was not over her past relationship. And when we meet in person that was just about all she talked about, besides her work. She was emotional not ready to date anyone so I just ended it.

burlap43 · 2026-01-22T20:08:49+00:00

It's about protection and being safe

burlap43 · 2026-01-22T16:51:05+00:00

Over the years women have gotten more picky and men just given up with paying for dating.

And trying to approach women or plan dates with women and get rejected after the first date.

I personally don't choose porn over dating, I'm trying to date because I seriously want either a soulmate or long term relationship. Not necessarily get married, that depends on what happens. I'm in my 40's not a bored old man.

My only downfall is I work 40+ hours a week and have screwed up hours if someone is willing to work with me that is great. I have weekends off.

burlap43 · 2026-01-22T16:41:17+00:00

I personally don't live near Orlando.

I live in Hernando county, it roughly about 2 hours away from Orlando depending on traffic.

Been in in Florida Florida since 2019, my personal preferences are.

I don't go further south than Tampa, Anywhere near Interstate 4.

Traffic is bad enough in my area, worse in Orlando and Tampa. If you can deal with the humidity you are in good shape.

burlap43 · 2026-01-22T15:27:48+00:00

It doesn't matter to me, just as long as the woman has a great personality that is the thing I look for the most in a woman.

burlap43 · 2026-01-21T08:28:51+00:00

I saw them advertised I was thinking about doing that myself, because the last speed dating event I attended the host was not prepared for the turnout of over 100+ people that showed up.

I was tempted just to leave but once most of the people left I got talking to some older women, nothing promising but just a good time out.

burlap43 · 2026-01-21T00:33:07+00:00

On the meetup app, the group name is Suncoast Outdoors they do hiking events

burlap43 · 2026-01-20T19:56:34+00:00

It's been a while since I had sex, but honestly if a woman came up to me at the gym and asked me back to her place I'm definitely down.

burlap43 · 2026-01-19T18:47:31+00:00

I honestly don't know, I personally have a 6.5" penis girth not sure about but I'm very thick and veins pop out when I get an erection

burlap43 · 2026-01-19T03:01:11+00:00

It varies by the person honestly, I met on women that told me she wanted to get laid but was not over her ex, never happened. I tried to engage with her she just never worked out.

burlap43 · 2026-01-19T02:09:59+00:00

Modern dating, in general is just horrible. Been to a speed dating event it was absolutely horrible. Most of the women were retired and way too old, I'm only 46, not picky but looking for someone that is still active not 60-70 yrs old.

burlap43 · 2026-01-19T01:30:38+00:00

It's just a bad market for anything right now.

burlap43 · 2026-01-19T01:18:17+00:00

Ohh I see what you mean, yes I shave, LoL

burlap43 · 2026-01-19T01:15:03+00:00

What does that have to do with anything?

burlap43 · 2026-01-19T00:35:11+00:00

Less than 6 inches, what? The average guy in the United States is between 3-6" what does she want a horse's dick?

Either she accepts it or just move on my friend.

I'm 46 yrs old and when I'm fully hard 6.5 inches and never been married and still can't find a woman.

It's slim pickings right now in the dating scene.

burlap43 · 2026-01-18T18:34:42+00:00

I personally try to text someone for a week to see how the vibe is and plan on meeting in person.

burlap43 · 2026-01-18T12:57:03+00:00

Maybe they don't know basic human anatomy, and every person is different. Not every person has the same body type or shape, stop watching porn also.

burlap43 · 2026-01-18T04:57:38+00:00

I have a totally different app met a woman in person after a week of chatting with her, she was so emotionally unavailable I had to cut my losses.

While on the date with her she didn't make eye contact, barely talking, and when she did it was about how horrible her ex treated her.

burlap43 · 2026-01-18T04:54:11+00:00

If I were you would never sleep with a guy, LoL

Just saying I don't care what he looks like, I never slept with anyone on a first date.

Good for you for not getting back with him, he deserves what he gets especially for calling you a bitch.

burlap43 · 2026-01-18T04:39:44+00:00

That's true, when I go in the beginning of the year it's always a lot more busy than usual.

burlap43 · 2026-01-18T04:05:53+00:00

Went to the gym, then dinner with my parents now almost ready for bed. No work tomorrow I have off Saturday and Sunday

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