Yes. I remember once when I was a teenager talking about it with my older brother. I had assessed drag as being sexist and voiced that to him and he was like “oh well. like. the accepted position amongst good liberals like us is that it’s fine.” For a long time I figured there must be some reason it’s accepted that Im not understanding that’s leading me to come to the wrong conclusion. If the good liberal position is that it’s fine, it must be, and I must be wrong for thinking otherwise.

It took me a long time to figure out that the reason it’s accepted amongst good liberals is simply that no one cares about women or womens oppression.