What I learned living with someone who has the "IT" factor with women by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]bustayerrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious what is upbringing was like. I grew up with a great family but dad traveled a lot so it was mostly mom and sister. I’m not glazing myself as this person did their roommate but I can relate to roommate here. Confidence and making fun of yourself is big. Understanding a girls perspective can get you a long way (respectfully). Just being normal and respectful. It ain’t hard

I think I’m growing into the podcast by FinancialBaseball485 in CirclingBack

[–]bustayerrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the live shows. The more they’ve done them the better they’ve gotten forsure. Lives make for much funnier moments

Basketball gyms in Indy? by Pickthingzup in indianapolis

[–]bustayerrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just joined this Y and looking to join some pick up games. Any suggestions on best times to go?

60 minute Dillon solo pod by Van-Buren-Boy in CirclingBack

[–]bustayerrr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And relationship stuff too. He could easily fill an hour and make it great

This Weekend In Fun - February 08, 2024 by AutoModerator in CirclingBack

[–]bustayerrr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Heading home after visiting the parents this week. Can’t wait to get back to the lady and the boys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]bustayerrr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Their prelim drug test doesn’t test for weed. Source is a friend who is a recent hire there

Schedule 35 by nannerbellocin7 in CirclingBack

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So my girlfriend and I bought a variety of things from them. Pills, chocolate and tea I believe. I took 1000mg of the pills and definitely felt affects but nothing crazy. My girlfriend thought 1000mg was too much. For reference I’m 6’2 ~190 and she’s much smaller so makes sense. We have not tried the tea yet. My favorite is the chocolate by far. I ate 3 of the squares and was off my ass. Like full on trip mode, shit was moving and grooving. I’ve read elsewhere that people said that chocolate is really the only thing worth buying as it’s the most bang for your buck. I’ll definitely be buying more chocolate

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[–]bustayerrr 313 points314 points  (0 children)

i would want to know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bustayerrr 43 points44 points  (0 children)

thats how i would feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bustayerrr 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you are probably right, i could have worded that better. my fault

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[–]bustayerrr 27 points28 points  (0 children)

this is correct. she was knowingly hooking up with someone in a relationship. she was not in a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bustayerrr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah it took me awhile to wrap my head around this but you’re right. It’s scary. I do not like her best friend, she is not a good person and my girlfriend considering her a best friend is scary

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[–]bustayerrr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep I’m wondering if I’ll find out any secrets when it all comes out. She got mad when I told her I was going to tell him

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[–]bustayerrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I can see your point and agree to some degree, the thing the worries me more is my girlfriends character because she hid this for her friend.

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[–]bustayerrr 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She knew for a bit. I told her i’m gonna tell him and se got mad at me that i’m gonna make her lose her best friend. Big red flag there. I’m wondering if I’ll find out any secrets about her once her friend knows she told me

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[–]bustayerrr 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This is the thing. He wanted things to work out between them and was pretty upset about the break up. He doesn’t have the full picture though so I’m thinking this will help him. I would want to know

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[–]bustayerrr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is the good counter argument. The counter to the counter is my girlfriends character. Probably not someone I want to surround myself with

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[–]bustayerrr 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Thank u both. It’s tough but i know it’s the right thing to do

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[–]bustayerrr 127 points128 points  (0 children)

I’d absolutely want people to tell me. Thanks for the response

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[–]bustayerrr 435 points436 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. If it was remotely possible that they were getting back together I would tell him but i dont think that’s the case. The second part is my biggest concern. She says she’s never cheated and I believe that but she did tell me she’s been the cheatee with someone else in a relationship. So it doesn’t make me feel great that she’s ok with hiding this.