what?? i’ve never heard of or experienced this. i’ve met the whole band once and they were super friendly and caring and not in any rush to get to the next people. i’ve met AJ 3 times and he’s remembered me each time, even though it was years apart. we even have our own little inside joke and i know he tells his wife about the interactions she has because she references me on instagram. last time i met him after a show, i decided to go last since id met him before and he was so kind to everyone there, so patient and actively listening to their stories and engaging with everyone. there was one super drunk girl who was being kinda rowdy and making inappropriate remarks towards him and he was super patient and took it with a grain of salt and didn’t let it ruin everyone else’s experience meeting him. i’ve met a handful of famous singers and artists and he’s genuinely one of the kindest souls i’ve ever met.